Time Magazine    Is bad parenting an excuse for murder?
That’s what Scott Brown, attorney for Ethan Couch and an expert 
witness psychologist, implied when he used the term “affluenza” to argue
 against intoxication manslaughter and assault charges for his client. 
Couch, 16, was on trial after he stole beer from a Walmart
 last summer, got drunk at a party, and gunned his car into four victims
 who had stopped on the side of a Burleson, Tex. road to help a stranded
 motorist. All four died, and both passengers in Couch’s pickup truck 
who were riding in the open bed were tossed from the vehicle; one is 
unable to move or talk due to brain injuries.
But even though Couch was behind the wheel, it wasn’t he, argued 
psychologist G. Dick Miller, who should bear the burden of punishment 
for the tragedy. Instead, it was his parents, who raised their boy with 
few limits and even less discipline, indulging him to the point where he
 was unable to appreciate the importance of rules and laws, not to 
mention the consequences of breaking them.
Brown and Miller may have twisted the term a bit – affluenza more 
often refers to overconsumption and materialism, or the general 
psychological malaise, lack of motivation and guilt that wealthy young 
people feel as a result of their extreme privilege. Brown and Miller 
took it further, to incorporate the lack of accountability and belief 
among entitled rich kids that money can solve all problems.
Their definition placed the blame at the feet of Couch’s parents, who, according to CNN,
 allowed their son to drink at age 13. “There are certain things that 
society expects from parents in terms of providing for their children,” 
says Dr. Cindy Christian, chair of the American Academy of Pediatrics’ 
committee on child abuse
 and neglect. “Children need physical things – food, clothing, shelter 
and education. And they need nurturing, love and discipline. Parents are
 responsible for teaching their children right from wrong.”
Couch’s defense argued that his parents did not fulfill this 
responsibility adequately; could that be considered neglect, or even 
abuse? “If you think of what children need, and what parents are 
supposed to be providing, then yes, theoretically you could make the 
argument that [such parenting] is neglectful,” says Christian, who 
chairs the child abuse and neglect prevention program at Children’s 
Hospital of Philadelphia. [...]
Lo Tirtzach is a criteria that even if not taught, it is something that seichel dictates that it is wrong. No such thing as Tinok shenishbo on that. See kayin that murdered his brother Hevel, also in Talmud.
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