Monday, December 6, 2021

Beth Alexander

 https://www.goodwinsfamilylaw.co.uk/our-team/beth-alexander/

 Beth is our most recent addition to the team, having joined us in November 2020 as a newly qualified solicitor. Beth deals with all aspects of family law; from domestic violence cases to negotiating financial settlement as part of a divorce. She has a particular interest in children proceedings and advises on parental alienation and child arrangement agreements with sensitivity and compassion for those most vulnerable. She helps clients maintain composure and show restraint during what can often be emotionally charged and challenging circumstances.

Beth is a Cambridge graduate with a degree in Oriental Studies and embarked on a second career in law after several years working as an English lecturer at the University of Vienna. She speaks and reads German proficiently including legal documentation. Her expertise includes cross border cases and cases with a foreign jurisdictional element. She has spent time in Washington DC as an assistant to a Member of Congress as well as a contributor to the Washington Post.

Dr. Michael Schlesinger

 https://www-docfinder-at.translate.goog/internist/1020-wien/dr-michael-schlesinger?_x_tr_sl=de&_x_tr_tl=en&_x_tr_hl=en&_x_tr_pto=sc\

 Education: specialist qualifications & additional areas

  • Internal Medicine
  • General medicine

Eight Reasons Women Stay in Abusive Relationships

 https://ifstudies.org/blog/eight-reasons-women-stay-in-abusive-relationships

5. Children. These women also put their children first, sacrificing their own safety: “I was afraid if he wasn’t beating me he would beat his kids. And I valued their lives more than my own.” And, “I stayed for 20 years while I protected our children, all while I was being abused.” Others mentioned staying to benefit the children: “I wanted my son to have a father.”

6. Family Expectations and Experiences. Many posted descriptions of how past experiences with violence distorted their sense of self or of healthy relationships: “I watched [my dad] beat my mom. Then I found someone just like dad,” or, “Because raised by animals, you partner with wolves.” Some mentioned family and religious pressures: “My mother told me God would disown me if I broke my marriage.”

Kyle Rittenhouse -a Jewish hero?

 https://mishpacha.com/inbox-issue-888/

 I think most frum Jews can agree about the importance of right to self-defense, and the possible ramifications of this verdict in other scenarios. But there’s a fine line between expressing relief that Rittenhouse was acquitted, and actually glorifying him and everything about him — his behavior, his motives, and the totally bizarre loophole that rendered his gun possession legal to begin with.

Am I the only one who thinks that too many people I know have crossed that fine line? Am I the only one who shrinks to hear fine, frum Jews pontificate in defense of a gun-toting teen for all to hear, including their very impressionable teenage sons, neighbors, and nephews?

 Barring any extreme circumstances — of which there are no indications at the moment — it should be clear to every 17-year-old bochur that Kyle Rittenhouse is no hero, and that our bochurim have the opportunity to be heroes in the eyes of their parents and teachers every day, by staying right where they’re supposed to be: behind the walls of home, yeshivah, school, or whatever safe and supervised framework their parents have entrusted them to, and leaving the cops-and-robbers games to the adults.

West Bank security guard injured in ramming attack, terrorist killed

 https://www.jpost.com/israel-news/driver-in-terrorist-attack-at-tanim-crossing-killed-687948

 In light of the uptick in violence in recent weeks, former IDF chief of staff Moshe "Bogie" Ya'alon told 103FM on Monday that "we are in the midst of a new wave of individual terrorism."

"We see similarities between what has been happening in the last two months and the 'individuals' intifada.' There are things in the atmosphere and on the web," said Ya'alon. "The 16-year-old who conducted the ramming attack this morning was 'fueled' on the web with incitement and made a decision."

Parental Alienation

 https://parentalalienationuk.info/

"This is a severe form of emotional-psychological domestic violence perpetrated on both the targeted parent and the victimised child. It is the most brutal and savage form of abuse. The pathology is a shared persecutory delusion (ICD-10 F24) created in the child by the pathological parent who is weaponizing the child into the spousal conflict. Creating a delusional disorder in the child that then destroys their attachment bond to their other parent, which is child psychological abuse (DSM-5 V995.51)."
Dr Craig Childress Clinical Child Psychologist
 

Parental Alienation Can Be Emotional Child Abuse

 https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwil7c274870AhUHgP0HHa_ODHQQFnoECBgQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ncsc.org%2F__data%2Fassets%2Fpdf_file%2F0014%2F42152%2Fparental_alienation_Lewis.pdf&usg=AOvVaw0ZGRIggv2E0zCCyy--pBjv

Children who suffer from emotional abuse often elude the legal assistance of the child protection system. For example, this emotional abuse is usually invisible to teachers and social workers and even the family court judge. The alienated child will talk with the judge in language and syntax similar if not identical to the way the alienating parent talks. While the targeted parent often appears anxious,depressed, or angry, the alienating parent appears relaxed, composed, and, therefore, credible. 

Sunday, December 5, 2021

ההורים מאושפזים במצב קשה; שני ילדיהם הובאו למנוחות

 https://www.kikar.co.il/406991.html

 התאונה הקטלנית: מאות רבות של בני משפחה וחברים ליוו אמש (מוצאי שבת) את שני הילדים הקטנים, הללי בת השש וטוב ראי בן השלוש, למשפחת מעודד, שנהרגו בתאונה הקשה ביום שישי ליד צומת עופרים בבנימין.

שני הילדים הקטנים הובאו לבית העלמין ברחובות יחד עם העובר שלא שרד את התאונה הקשה, בעוד ההורים, יניב והודיה מעודד, מאושפזים במצב קשה בבתי החולים בילינסון ושיבא, כשאינם יכולים ללוות את ילדיהם הקטינים בדרכם האחרונה.

מצבו של האב, התייצב מעט בסוף השבוע, אך הוא עדיין מורדם ומונשם בבית החולים.

9-year-old girl dies a day after West Bank car crash that killed her brother

 https://www.timesofisrael.com/9-year-old-girl-dies-a-day-after-west-bank-car-crash-that-killed-her-brother/

 Initial reports indicated the crash was caused by the Palestinian car, which illegally made a U-turn into oncoming traffic on Route 465 near the Ofarim Junction.

Eitan Biran returns to Italy after Supreme Court rejects appeal from mother’s family

 https://www.timesofisrael.com/eitan-biran-returns-to-italy-after-supreme-court-rejects-appeal-from-mothers-family/

Eitan Biran, a 6-year-old boy who was orphaned in a cable car crash in Italy, returned to the country on Friday, days after Israel’s Supreme Court rejected a final appeal from his Israel-based family.

Biran — who was living in Italy at the time of the cable car crash in May that killed his parents, his younger brother and his great-grandparents — has become the subject of a bitter custody fight between his Italy-based paternal family and his Israel-based maternal family.

A lawyer from the maternal family oversaw the transfer at the airport, where Biran was accompanied on the flight by his aunt and two cousins. 

Berland no longer under murder probe detention, but remains jailed in unrelated case

 https://www.timesofisrael.com/berland-no-longer-under-murder-probe-detention-but-remains-jailed-in-unrelated-case/

Rabbi Eliezer Berland arrives for a court hearing in Jerusalem, November 2, 2021. (Yonatan Sindel/Flash90)

Convicted sex offender Eliezer Berland was released on Thursday from remand after he was detained in connection with two cold case murders — but remains in prison to serve a sentence on unrelated charges.

Berland, the leader of the extremist Shuvu Bonim sect, has been implicated in the murder of 41-year-old Avi Edri in 1990 and the kidnapping and suspected murder of 17-year-old Nissim Shitrit in 1986. Police have accused Berland of sending his followers to kill Shitrit. His followers have also been tied to Edri’s death.

But on Thursday prosecutors said they would release Berland and his son-in-law, Tzvi Tzucker, as well as a third suspect — an unnamed Haredi mayor — under restrictions.

 

2 members of Berland’s sect charged over ‘extremely cruel’ 1986 murder of teen

 https://www.timesofisrael.com/2-members-of-berlands-sect-charged-over-extremely-cruel-1986-murder-of-teen/

Two followers of convicted sex offender Eliezer Berland’s Shuvu Bonim sect were charged on Friday in connection with the 1986 murder of a teen.

The two were indicted over the murder of 17-year-old Nissim Shitrit. His body was never found and Friday’s charges were the first made in connection with his death.

One of the suspects charged in the case is the son of a former minister. His name has not been released for publication. The second suspect was Baruch Sharvit, a Shuvu Bonim follower.

 

Saturday, December 4, 2021

The Internet pandemic is plaguing Israel's haredi community

 https://www.jpost.com/israel-news/the-internet-pandemic-is-plaguing-israels-haredi-community-687707

While they believe that the physical threat from the health risk is manageable, the spiritual and communal risk of the Internet is existential. Indeed, the COVID crisis has exposed deepening cracks in the walled garden, so fundamental to haredi society. There has been a major increase on the Internet connectivity for haredim since the beginning of the COVID pandemic, leading to ever greater concerns from the leadership about how to protect their flock from outside and, in their perspective, wholly destructive influences.

Mi La'Shem Ai'lay

 Rabbosai,


As we approach Zos Chanukah, please help save Bnos Yisroel from the threat of a potential female Draft - in America - already included in the "must-pass" National Defense Authorization Act ("NDAA"). This terrible Gezairah al Ha'Das (antireligious edict) is not much different than the Hegmonite Gezairas HaYevonim that promted Yehudis to initiate the Maccabee uprising. And it's waiting for a vote in the U.S. Senate, any day now.

Due to the input of a numerous leftist Republicans - joining many Democrats - the NDAA, if passed as is, would require all women between 18 and 25 to register with Selective Service, just like men.  That means: IF there would EVER be a future draft - including a draft for non-combat "national emergency" purposes (another dangerous addition to this year's NDAA) - WOMEN WOULD BE DRAFTED - to serve ALONG WITH,  and under the command of the some of the lowest elements of society - in the name of "Equality." As degraded as society is now, it will likely be even worse in any future draft. [Imagine what type of Shidduch crisis THAT would cause.]  The time to stop this lunacy is NOW. By the time of any actual draft, it will be too late.

Additionally, even if there would NEVER be a draft, this bill would have several terrible immediate and short term effects, including:
(a) encouraging many other countries to follow suit; (b) acceleration of the ongoing efforts of the Israeli Draft Office to force, dupe, or convince religious girls to enlist in the notoriously immoral Army; (c) acceleration of radical feminism overall, and in religious communities as well; (d) it could also introduce the idea of Army service to innocent girls to whom such a option would never have occurred, e.g. many Bais Yaakov graduates.

גיוס בנות - הוא ביהרג ואל יעבור!

In the days of the saintly Chashmonoyim, noshim tzidkoniyos (righteous women) played a crucial role in the Heavenly victory of the Maccabees against the Hellenist and Greek enemies. (See Yalkut Shimoni 606 on Rus 4:11; Sotah 11b; Sefer Kav HaYashar 82.)
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ACTION ITEMS:
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(1) Today as well, it's crucial that ALL WOMEN AND GIRLS age 16 y/o & up urge their two Senators, and then their Congressional Representative, to immediately push for the REPEAL of "Selective Service" - Senate Amendment "S.A. 4161." Specifically, urge each SENATOR to do two things: 

(a) insist on allowing a vote for "Senate Amendment" SA4161 (Selective Service Repeal), and any similar amendments that arise,

(b) and then, of course, vote for it/ them.

Make sure to urge EVERY LEGISLATOR to oppose the NDAA in any way possible IF the leadership of EITHER party blocks  a vote on S.A. 4161, or a similar amendment - FOR AS LONG AS the expansion of Selective Service (to women, or for purposes other than replenishing troops dying in battle) remains in the NDAA.

(2) Secondly, it's crucial to demand Senator Charles Schumer (D, NY) allow enough debate time for  S.A.4161 and similar amendments; call 202-224-6542/ 212-486-4430. His delays are one major reason for the threats we now face. With a straight face, Schumer claims a connection to the Holy chassidus of Tchort'kov. If he insists on "talking the talk," let him at least pretend to "walk the walk" - by allowing debate on any amendment that would undo the expansion of Selective Service, and thereby save innocent women in the future from untold horrors, in addition to averting all of the short-term fallout of that provision of the current NDAA.
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(3) ADDITIONAL ACTION ITEMS NEEDED:
Also please urge the following Congressional leaders to "please ensure a vote on Selective Service Repeal - and similar bills - not IN SPITE of their support of the Armed Forces - but specifically BECAUSE of it - namely, to maximize prospects of successfully stopping S.S. expansion to women, in this Democratic-dominated Congress." (Drafting women will hurt military readiness at the worst time - and for no good reason; the Center for Military Readiness has details.)

1. The Senate Republican Leader, Sen. Mitch McConnell [R, KY]: (202) 224-2541 / Fax:" -2499
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2. The GOP House Leader Representative Kevin McCarthy: (202) 225-2915 / Fax: " -2908

3. Senator Joe Manchin III [D, WV]:   202-224-3954 [possibly a swing Democrat];

4. The (top) Ranking Republican on the Senate Armed Services Committee, Sen. James M. Inhofe [R, OK]: (202) 224-4721/ Fax: (202) 228-0380.

For the central Congressional Switchboard, call 202-224-3121, or:
https://www.votervoice.net/mobile/CWFA/campaigns/87862/respond.

Q) How do the women calling explain their motivation to oppose Selective Service, if asked by  leftist staffers?

A) They don't want to serve, nor should any woman be FORCED to. Even from a secular perspective, it's misogynist (anti-woman) to FORCE women into any type of government service, to be subjugated to harmful elements of society, with - and under - whom they'd be forced to serve.  Moreover, to force women into the most "UN-equal" dangers of combat against violent males - risking both death and capture - is unspeakably barbaric.*
* ד"ל.
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Q) Why Eliminate Selective Service (S.S.)?

A) ° The S.S. Repeal bill, and similar types of legislation, would provide a real chance of success in this Democratic-dominated Congress, if the Republicans would get behind them. Many on the Left also oppose S.S.. 

° S.S. is also unnecessary: Selective Service is an obsolete leftover legacy of left-leaning Jimmy Carter. In 1980, Carter reinstated S.S. - in his failed mission to extend S.S. to women.

° There are additional reasons to abolish S.S., including the prohibition to serve in  the current Dor HaMabul (G@¥$)-dominated military environment, or to fight in wars prohibited according to Torah.

Q) Isn't that opposing the Draft itself?

A) Not at all. If there will ever be a real need for a Draft, R"L, they'd need separate legislation anyway, with or without Selective Service. With modern technology, they can draft people just as well without the wasteful S.S. bureaucracy.

Q) What about the House?

A) The entire House of Representatives already passed their version of the NDAA on Sept. 23, including the provision from Representative Houlahan (D, PA), requiring women to register for Selective Service. However, there may be another House vote on the final version of the NDAA.

Q) Why the need to push so hard for a vote on Selective Service Repeal? 

A) Schumer has already delayed the NDAA vote until it's too late to allow enough debate on some of the most important of the 900 amendments that may be considered. That means that the Republicans, who are the minority in the Senate (by 1), may only be able to get a vote on ONE amendment against expanding Selective Service to women. It's our job to ensure that the Senate votes on an amendment that will have the BEST chance of getting enough BIPARTISAN support to actually pass. We can't rely on the Republicans to do that without a lot of pressure.*

* Many Republicans are, quite apparently, NOT fighting to win (some possibly hoping to exploit a loss to run next year) - and not pushing for the Selective Service Repeal amendment, or similar types of legislation.

Q) Are there other objections to the NDAA?

A) There definitely are other very dangerous provisions inserted into the NDAA. Whatever can be done to eliminate them should definitely be done, including filibustering to stall the bill. However, that's no REPLACEMENT for an  amendment with a real fighting chance, like S.S. Repeal, or the like.
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As we were redeemed from Egypt in the merit of righteous women, similarly, we shall be redeemed from this exile in the merit of righteous women (see Sefer Kav HaYashar 82).
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