5 Teves, 5780 °° Jan. 2, '20  ver. 1b
by Binyomin Feinberg
1.   According to the saintly Chasam Sofer, in his Drashos (for Adar 7th, I  recall), the fast-day of the 10th of Teves holds a special  significance, one hard to overstate: it is the day on which HaShem  convenes the Heavenly Tribunal to adjudicate whether we will merit the  rebuilding of the Bais HaMikdosh that year, or, alternatively, whether  we merit the opposite: it's virtual re-destruction. (Chazal exhort us  that any generation in which the Bais HaMikdash is not rebuilt - it is  as if it's destroyed, once again.)
2.  However,  while looking around at what passes for issues of importance in much of  "frum culture" (employing that term specifically), you would never know  it. It behooves us to seek to identify some of the truly important  issues, issues that we need to consider before next Tuesday.   Clearly,  it's not most of the triviality, nonsense, and distractions that  popularly pass for topics of interest. Klal Yisroel faces multiple  issues of monumental importance, and unfortunately the tzibbur is being  misled or kept in the dark about many of them.
3.   Let's pose some questions, focusing on one particular concern, of  which we B"H have direct and detailed factual knowledge, i.e. the  drafting of girls into the Israeli military (an issue we focus on  extensively in our postings).  
4.  It's  important to emphasize that the female draft is only one very important  issue of multiple very important concerns. Others include:
°  the phenomenon of covering up for and enabling child molesters; 
°   allowing or enabling people to destroy innocent people's reputations  with baseless accusations (because they're easy targets);
°   honoring, supporting, and voting for leftist (Dem or GOP) elected  officials (who've created an environment in which the Chinuch of Jewish  and non-Jewish children alike are increasingly coming under the  influence of the LGBTQ Mafia);
°  unbridled  greed, resulting in immoral business practices, massive theft, massive  Chillul HaShem, massive instigation of Jew-hatred (e.g. by some greedy  real-estate developers), entire "frum" mini-industries built on  misrepresentation/ hype, etc. 
Some  of the questions we raise here regarding the female draft could  similarly be posed regarding those and other burning concerns.
5.   Please do not take this analysis as a critique as much as an inquiry:   What's the thinking here? What's the mentality behind this apparent  lack of mentality?
6.  Question:   Do we expect to merit the rebuilding of the Bais HaMikdash while too  many of us are preoccupied feasting at banquets, enjoying Glatt-kosher  globe-trotting cruises*, lavish hotel vacations, etc. - all while  largely oblivious to the plights of those severely disadvantaged due to  our communal silence - for one example of many - dozens of girls  (religious, traditional ("mesorati") and otherwise) who are at this  moment languishing in Israeli military prisons, many over their refusal  to serve in the notoriously immoral, exploitive, and abusive co-ed  military?
{*Note: The goal here is not to  critique the tourist industry. Take your Caribbean cruise if you truly  need it, and can afford it. Here we are addressing taking Yiddishkeit,  and basic decency, more seriously.}
7. Facts on  the conscription of females into the military have been reported for  many months. For almost a year, the Jewish Press has reported on many  specific abuses, those involving Army-refuseniks like Rinas bas Chedva,  Orah Chaya and Moriah Leah bnos Beruriah, Lidar Shira and Zohar bnos  Yaffa, Ziva bas Mazel, Avigail Leah Houseband, Olga S., Mindel  Cheshin, and others.
8.  For samples of online reports, see:
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Opportunities for Public Kiddush HaShem (Sanctification of the Divine Name) in Israel: 
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9.   The question we must ask is: Where is OUR massive communal outrage  over the female draft?  In addition to the enlistment of girls into the  military, which is itself prohibited to the extent of being "yai'horaig  ve'al ya'avor," the government actually forces girls to enlist, which is  far, far worse. Moreover, the nature of a military environment lends  itself to immorality, and the Army experience certainly is no exception  to that rule, to understate. And those in the know - all know it very,  very well. And they even coined a nomenclature for it: "Mizron Tzahali."  [For the record, we are also aware of specific cases of credible  accounts of abuse by male IDF personnel.]
10.   If G-d-forbid non-Jews would be perpetrating against Jewish  girls  anything close to a fraction of what transpires regularly in the Israeli  military, there would be worldwide outrage. But because it's being  perpetrated by Jews - it's less newsworthy than the social events whose  photos merit prominent centerfold profiling in  frum papers weekly??
11.   This illustrates the absurdity here: When a drunken teen scribbles a  misspelled swastika on a shul, leftist elected officials waste no time  in rushing to the nearest teleprompter to chapp [grab] a cheap photo-op,  genuflecting to "eradicating antisemitism" -- and their shallow  performances are dutifully advertised by frum media outlets, as if this  is a major development we need to be updated on. But when TENS of  thousands of Jewish girls - many of them religious (National Religious,  others, and even a few Chareidi girls) - are being forced, terrorized,  duped, or otherwise enlisted into the notoriously immoral Israeli  military, we hardly hear a peep of protest.  Worse, we don't hear the  protest even when we're confronted with a constant stream of cases that  demand and easily enable an effective protest. Precisely where are our  communal senses, sensibilities, and priorities?
12.  How  precisely do we expect to fare in our upcoming Heavenly Trial, given our  communal tolerance of the "Hashtokoh-campaign," i.e. the news-blackout  by most "frum" papers (aka "news"papers) - with the noteworthy exception  of the Jewish Press (and a recently-started Chareidi paper called  "Lehovin")? They're only getting away with this censorship  because of  our overall communal silence. Our responsibility is commensurate to our  ability to have an impact - see Gemara Shabbos 54b.
13.   Perhaps one could suggest that that when, in this week's parsha, Yosef  cried over Binyomin (Ber. 45:14), over the future destruction of the  Bais HaMikdash -  twice (Gemara Meggillah 16b) - perhaps there was  something else included in his crying. Perhaps Yosef also forsaw the  extension of our Exile, the "virtual destruction" of the Bais HaMikdash  every single year, year after year after year, as adjudicated on the  Tenth of Teves. Perhaps this crying is a reason why by Yosef, unlike by  Binyomin, the posuk says he "fell" (onto Binyomin); see note in Rashi.  Perhaps Yosef "fell" to signify an ongoing repetition of the Churban  HaBayis, reflecting that we simply fail to learn the lessons of the  Churban, the destruction, and continue to "fall," to make the same types  of mistakes and missteps.
(14.  Perhaps this  event is juxtaposed immediately at the reunification of the two sons of  Rochel because it is through them that we can overcome Amalek, and it is  primarily the influence of   Amalek, the ultimate maisis (enticer to  sin), in our midst that prolongs the bitter Exile. Perhaps one could  suggest that due to the extended separation of the two sons of Rochel,  Binyomin was denied the immense spiritual benefits of proximity to his  older brother, and therefore, le'Doros, the Jewish People were left  susceptible to succumbing to evil influences - ultimately sourced in  Amalek - which ultimately precipitated the Destruction of the Bais  HaMikdash. And it's by identifying infiltrating Amalekite ideas and  attitudes that we can overcome the evils of Amalek, and become a truly  free People - free to serve HaShem alone, and not serve men who rebel  against Him, while feigning allegiance to Him.)
15.   Boruch HaShem, not all are remaining silent. A major protest was held  monday night outside Israeli military prison Four, over the female draft  in general, and over specific girls incarcerated recently.  Two of  those girls, both religious, have been reportedly released since then,  apparently in wake of the shock of that unusual protest. Protesters  actually made their way inside the compound around 10:40pm, after a  surrounding fence had been neutralized. In an open  manifestation of  Divine Intervention, at about 11pm, the protesters witnessed the  latenight co-ed mingling in the adjacent Army barracks, accentuating why  it's so important for those incarcerated girls to remain resolute  against doing anything that could lead them to enlist. (See https://daattorah.blogspot.com/2020/01/protesting-antireligious-persecution-by.html for more details.)  
Those who care have whom to join in raising our voices.
16.   When the Redemption does arrive, we will be each confronted with our  own inconsistencies, as described by Medrashim on this week's parsha  (45:3). We, who care about Klal Yisroel in - and outside - Eretz Yisroel  maintaining fidelity to the Torah, will be asked: what did we do to  help these innocent girls stand up against being forced into the  military?  It is our choice to have what to answer.