Jewish Week 12/06/11. “Most victims of abuse and parents in Lakewood are afraid to speak
up because [they fear being threatened by rabbis],” Debbie Rudin, a
victim of childhood sexual abuse who now lives in Lakewood, told The
Jewish Week.
“There are many Jewish communities that are
controlled by the rabbonim [rabbis] of their towns that set certain
standards, whether in regards to businesses, giving kosher supervision
or allowing schools to open,” said Harold (Hershel) Hershkowitz, a
Lakewood businessman who ran (and lost) for the Lakewood Township
Committee on an anti-cronyism platform against the BMG-backed candidate.
“But all of these are controlled in an open manner well understood by
all that live there,” he said. “Lakewood, on the other hand, has a cabal
that controls most Jewish publications, websites and of course the
political arena, in order to exert full influence whenever it is
necessary in order to keep their position of influence.”[...]
Indeed, the
court testimony described above affords a rare public glimpse into what
New Jersey Superior Court Judge Francis R. Hodgson characterized as
Lakewood’s “parallel justice system.”
The testimony itself comes
from the only sexual abuse case in memory from the Lakewood haredi
community to be prosecuted — something that came about because a family
flouted, at great personal cost, communal norms and pressed charges
against an alleged child molester, Yosef Kolko, in 2009.[...]
In addition to information directly relevant to the Kolko case,
testimony from the hearings indicates that there have been other abuse
allegations apparently deemed credible by rabbis, but that nonetheless
went unreported to the police.
In testimony in New Jersey Superior Court given in May of this year,
Lakewood rabbi and activist Micky Rottenberg alludes to such a case,
which The Jewish Week has learned involved allegations against the
husband of a woman who ran a local children’s playgroup. The beit din
found the allegations to be credible and publicized them, effectively
shutting down the playgroup. However, the authorities were never
notified and the accused remains in the community today.
In his testimony, Rabbi Rottenberg also sheds light on the beit din’s inner workings.
According to him, “[The Secretary] of the beis din [would contact] the
victims … [and the] alleged perpetrator, discuss with them … beg them to
do certain things. And if they don’t do it, [the secretary would say]
‘I’m going to report [to the beit din] that you don’t listen to us, and
then we are going to … Take away your job. Send away your kids from
schools.’ Whatever measures they would feel they have power to be able
for the person to submit and accept the verdict of the beis din.”
Rabbi Rottenberg also testified that he felt the beit din favored the
accusers and was in fact involved in disbanding it at the behest of
Rabbi Malkiel Kotler for this reason. Rabbi Kotler, through his brother,
denied making any such request. [...]