Sunday, August 19, 2018

Daas Torah whom to ask for help

this post was inspired by a critical letter in Binah magazine and the apologetic response both sides seemingly in agreement that the only  valid therapeutic advise must be from a gadol or be based on Torah sources


IT SIMPLY  AIN'T SO

AS RAV Moshe has said talmidei chachomim dont have superior knowledge except regarding TORAH itself
A few years ago there was a widespread attack on going to psychologists

It was later revealed that the real issue was going to a therapist without first getting a rabbi's recommendation


EVEN THOUGH ALL KNOWLEDGE IS CONTAINED IN THE TORAH but R Freifeld told me we are not on the level to get it out


Rav Moshe poskened not to read secular marriage manuals until just immediately before the wedding

Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach advised a young couple not to get married without setting aside enough money for 20 years of marriage therapy
 NOT JUST 

THIS APPLIES TO ALL ISSUES NOT JUST THERAPY INCLUDING EDUCATION AND MEDICAL ISSUES AS WELL AS FINANCIAL ONES




4 comments :

  1. An area which finds a clash between halacha and the mental field, is when mental health practitioners, recommend that their patients to do things that are prohibited according to the Torah, for "therapeutic purposes".

    עי' בשו"ת אגרות משה (יו"ד ח"ב, סי' נז) בדבר חולי רוח ומחשבות שצריכים לילך לרופאים פסיכאלאגיסטן סארקאיעטיסטן, אם רשאים לילך לאלו שהן מינים וכופרים, לענ"ד אין לילך אל רופאים כאלו להתרפאות, כי מכיון שאין הרפואות מסמים המרפאים, אלא מרוב הדבורים שלהם עם החולה נודעים מאיזה מחשבות הוא סובל ומיעצים לו איך להתנהג, שודאי יש לחוש שמיעצים לפעמים נגד דיני התורה, ואף נגד עיקרי הדת, ונגד עניני פרישות וצניעות

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  2. Beautiful. I agree “this post was inspired by a critical letter in Binah magazine and the apologetic response both sides seemingly in agreement that the only valid therapeutic advise must be from a gadol or be based on Torah sources IT SIMPLY AIN'T SO”
    Torah thought on this week’s parsha Ki Tetse
    “When you take the field against your enemies, and the Lord your God delivers them into your power and you take some of them captive, and you see among the captives a beautiful woman and you desire her and would take her to wife, you shall bring her into your house, and she shall trim her hair, pare her nails, and discard her captive’s garb. She shall spend a month’s time in your house lamenting her father and mother; after that you may come to her and possess her, and she shall be your wife. Then, should you no longer want her, you must release her outright. You must not sell her for money: since you had your will of her, you must not enslave her.” (Deuteronomy 21:10-14).
    I heard. “When you take the field against your enemies, and the Lord your God delivers them into your power” we realize it is God who delivers them into our power. The trials/tribulations start when we feel that due to us and not to God “you take some of them captive.”
    We must be “You must be wholehearted with the Lord your God” (Deuteronomy 18:13). Meaning, not to look for soothsayers/augurs etc. Exciting John Bolton and his staff are meeting with our top officials I Israel. We pray for the Lord our God to save us from pour enemies.

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  3. Interesting,I was just watching a video of the Lubavitcher Rebbe ztl, speaking on how to choose a mentor. He says one of the qualities or characteristics is for the mentor (Rav) to like an angel in his conduct. That rules out many who are dishonest, who embarrass people or mock you, or put you down.

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  4. מועד קטן (יז א)
    א"ר יוחנן מאי דכתיב (מלאכי ב ז) "כי שפתי כהן ישמרו דעת, ותורה יבקשו מפיהו, כי מלאך ה' צבאות הוא", אם דומה הרב למלאך ה' יבקשו תורה מפיו, ואם לאו אל יבקשו תורה מפיו

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