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Response to R. Shmuel Kamenetzky on the Methodology of Resolving Cases of Iggun by Rav Shalom C. Spira

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                                                Response to R. Shmuel Kamenetzky
on the Methodology of Resolving Cases of Iggun
                                                            Shalom C. Spira
                                                            12 Menachem Av, 5778

                                                            INTRODUCTION

            The Ha-Ma’or journal of Shevat-Adar 5776, p. 35, contains a letter to the editor by R. Shmuel Tsarch followed by an article by R. Shmuel Yehudah Leib Landesman – both of Monsey, New York, USA – both professing that a certain [anonymous] agunah case cannot be resolved on the basis of mekach ta‘ut to nullify the original kiddushin, and instead that the wife remains married to her original husband.[1] Because neither R. Tsarch nor R. Landesman identify the principals of the case, it is impossible to draw any practical conclusion from their contribution to Ha-Ma’or. On the other hand, R. Landesman’s article appears almost verbatim in the quarterly Kovetz Ginat Veradim published by “disciples and chassidim of Satmar” (R. Binyamin Berkovitz, ed.).[2] That Kovetz Ginat Veradim includes several other articles devoted to the same case, and which identify the principals of the case as Ms. Tamar Epstein vs. Mr. Aharon Friedman.
To that effect, in a documented telephone conversation, R. Shmuel Kamenetzky – member of the Mo‘etzet Gedolei ha-Torah of the Agudath Israel of America – elucidates his personal understanding of the case of Epstein vs. Friedman.[3] Namely, R. Kamenetzky points to the fact that R. Nota Zvi Greenblatt ruled that the original kiddushin between Epstein and Friedman were nullified by virtue of mekach ta‘ut (mistaken acquisition) occasioned by the husband’s mental illness. Accordingly, continues R. Kamenetzky, despite that fact that R. David Feinstein – also a member of the Mo‘etzet Gedolei ha-Torah of the Agudath Israel of America – ruled (quite the contrary) that the original kiddushin between Epstein and Friedman still remains, nevertheless the opinion of R. Greenblatt is sufficiently authoritative to exempt R. Kamenetzky from any obligation to intervene. Similarly, R. Shalom Kamenetzky (son of R. Shmuel Kamenetzky) has written that he spoke with his father R. Shmuel Kamanetzky, and that R. Shmuel Kamenetzky responded “kedai Ha-Rav Rabbeinu Nota shlit”a li-smokh alav le-hatir ishah zu mi-kavlei iggunah,” viz. R. Nota Zvi Greenblatt is sufficiently authoritative that we can rely upon him to rescue this lady from her agunah situation.[4]
In the following essay, this writer will analyze R. Shmuel Kamenetzky’s methodology, hypothesizing that – be-mechilat Kevod Torato – R. Kamenetzky’s methodology might be based on an innocent misinterpretation of a responsum of R. Moshe Feinstein, an innocent misinterpretation that was generated by three writers prior to R. Kamenetzky: R. Yom Tov ha-Levi Schwartz, R. Isaac Liebes and R. Michael J. Broyde.
This student undertakes the enterprise by announcing in advance two caveats, as follows. Firstly, already three year ago, this author published an essay containing a footnote recognizing both Ms. Epstein and Mr. Friedman as tzaddikim gemurim to whose credit redounds that their case has caused an expansion of Torah study, analogous to the comment of Rashi to Numbers 27:5.[5] That certainly remains the case now three years later. Accordingly, both Ms. Epstein and Mr. Friedman are hereby honoured by the publication of the present essay. Secondly, in no way is there any disrespect (chas ve-chalilah) intended toward R. Shmuel Kamenetzky by the present essay. On the contrary, this student is already on the record as honouring and congratulating R. Shmuel Kamenetzky for rescuing brain dead patients,[6] and – regarding that particular issue of brain death – this is true even though it conflicts with the position of R. David Feinstein.[7] Nevertheless, the Epstein vs. Friedman case may hypothetically be different, because R. Feivel Cohen [viz. R. Shmuel Kamenetzky’s partner in fulfilling the mitzvah of rescuing brain dead patients] himself published a responsum stating that Ms. Epstein remains married to Mr. Friedman.[8] In other words, whereas in the case of brain death it was R. Cohen and R. Kamenetzky vs. R. David Feinstein, in the case of mekach ta‘ut it is R. Cohen and R. David Feinstein vs. R. Kamenetzky.

A.    THE RESPONSUM OF IGGEROT MOSHEH

In a series of sequential responsa, R. Moshe Feinstein, Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah I, nos. 98-103 addresses the conundrum of a married lady who has been instructed by her physicians that she cannot allow her inner ear to be moistened with water, such that the only way she can safely immerse in a mikveh is with a vasaline-coated cotton plug. R. Feinstein recognizes the gravity of the problem in the opening paragraph of his analysis by remarking that if no halakhic license is found to allow this lady to immerse with the earplug, then the lady will remain an “agunah,” viz. unable to return to shelom bayit with her husband. Fortuitously, R. Feinstein is able to proceed to argue that the lady may indeed permissibly immerse with the earplug, thus rescuing shelom bayit between husband and wife.
As posthumously chronicled by R. Moshe David Tendler,[9] R. Feinstein’s earplug responsum/responsa[10] (written during the years 5694-5695 when R. Feinstein resided in Luban) was/were[11] at odds with the countervailing responsum of R. Yechezkel Abramsky (who then resided in Slutzk). Accordingly, the report goes, these competing responsa of R. Feinstein and R. Abramsky were sent to R. Chaim Ozer Grodzinsky for adjudication. R. Grodzinsky concurred with R. Feinstein, and added the compliment that R. Feinstein had formulated an analysis more brilliant than that of which he [R. Grodzinsky] was personally capable.[12]
Of key interest within those responsa of R. Feinstein is the following passage in Yoreh De‘ah I, no. 101, found on p.186 of that volume of Iggerot Mosheh:

“And regarding that which my beloved friend wrote [in protest against me] ‘how are we authorized to rely on chiddushim – like these that I clarified – for a practical [halakhic] purpose, especially when it contradicts certain Acharonim?’ Behold I say [in response]: has there been an end and a limit to the Torah, chas ve-chalilah, that we can only rule based on that which is found in books, and when questions materialize that are not found in books we will not adjudicate them even when it is within our hands to adjudicate them? Certainly, in my humble opinion, it is forbidden to say so, because certainly “He will aggrandize Torah” [(Isaiah 60:21)] now, also, in our time. And [so] it is obligatory for everyone in whose hands is the capacity to adjudicate every law that comes before him according to his ability with rigorous investigation and interrogation in Shas and poskim with straightforward understanding and with correct proofs, even when it is a new law that is not addressed in the books. And even regarding a law found in the books, certainly the [halakhic] decisor must also understand it and adjudicate with his knowledge before he rules, and not to rule simply because it is found [printed in the books] as such, for such would constitute the equivalent of issuing a halakhic ruling from a Mishnah [without genuine comprehension of Gemara and apprenticeship of senior decisors], concerning which it is stated that the [so-called] ‘Tanna’im’ destroy the world, [referring not to actual Tanna’im but rather to pseudo-scholars] who issue halakhic rulings based on the Mishnah alone, [as explained] in Sotah 22a, see there in Rashi’s commentary. And even if [a qualified halakhic authority’s] ruling is against certain geniuses from our rabbis the Acharonim, what of it, behold certainly even we are authorized to argue on the Acharonim, and sometimes even on a few Rishonim, when there are correct proofs and [where] the principle [can be upheld] with correct reasons, and regarding this kind of situation [the Sages of the Gemara] said ‘a judge has only what his eyes see,’ as elucidated in Bava Batra 131a, see there in Rashbam, so long as it is not against the famous poskim, the masters of the Shulchan Arukh who are accepted in all our countries, and regarding this kind of situation it is stated [in the Gemara, Chullin 7a] ‘a place was left for me to be aggrandized’, and like the majority of the responsa of Acharonim that adjudicate with chiddushim a number of laws for practical [halakhic] purposes. Howbeit, he [the qualified halakhic authority of our era] may not be arrogant in decision-making, and he must avoid [decision-making] wherever possible, but in a place of great necessity, and all the more so in a case of iggun like this case, for sure even we are obligated to issue a ruling, [even] if it only seems to us [correct] to permit, and it is forbidden for us to be [excessively] humble and to chain a daughter of Israel or to cause a stumbling block with prohibitions or even to just cause [gratuitous] loss of the money of Israel. And see Gittin 56a [which records Rabbi Yochanan as remarking] ‘the humility of Rabbi Zechariah ben Avkulus destroyed our Beit ha-Mikdash,’ which is [a] difficult [statement]; why does he [Rabbi Yochanan] say ‘the humility of’? How is this relevant to humility? And see in Maharatz Chiyot a correct matter [of insight on this Gemara]. And [so] this [case of immersing with the cotton plug] is literally of the same nature, and we are required to issue a halakhic decision even in a practical sense when it appears to us with proofs and with straightforward understanding, and especially in a place of iggun like this, and to rescue from a stumbling block like this.”

  In employing the term iggun in this passage – just as in employing the term agunah in the opening paragraph of the first responsum – R. Feinstein is obviously deviating from the classic terminology of agunah/iggun. The classic terminology of agunah/iggun refers to a lady who seeks to remarry but is unable to do so, either because her long missing husband cannot be proven dead, or because her long estranged husband refuses to grant a get. Here, by contradistinction, R. Feinstein uses the term agunah/iggun in a fundamentally different way. Here, both the husband and wife are on the same wavelength; both husband and wife seek to return to shelom bayit, but there is a ritual question of Hilkhot Mikva’ot that is interfering with that quest. The iggun or “chaining” is the hindrance from the wife returning to her own husband and the husband returning to his own wife, as they both reciprocally seek.
As students of R. Feinstein, we can readily grasp why this case of aguanh/iggun – where the husband and wife are both on the same wavelength, and it is simply a question of ritual prohibition that is hindering their return to shelom bayit – should be markedly different than the classic case of agunah/iggun where the wife seeks to be freed from her original husband without that husband’s expressed consent. When the husband and wife are both on the same wavelength and the problem involves a halakhic question of ritual prohibition, one can sometimes argue that a minority view among the poskim to be lenient is sufficiently authoritative to serve as a basis for reliance in a time of duress (she‘at ha-dechak), as per the Gemara, Niddah 6b that “Rabbi Elazar is worthy for reliance in a time of duress.”[13] By contradistinction, in the classic case of agunah/iggun, when there is a contest between wife vs. husband, under no circumstances can one rely on a minority view among the poskim to [ostensibly] “rescue” the wife from her agunah condition. After all, the same way there is a she‘at ha-dechak for the wife, there is a countervailing she‘at ha-dechak for the husband.  Indeed, this principle is included within the Torah commandment “thou shall not favour a pauper in his dispute [with another litigant]” (Exodus 23:3). Viz., although the pauper is in a state of distress, the countervailing litigant is also in a state of distress, and so we cannot invoke Niddah 6b to favour one litigant over the other. Ergo, R. Feinstein never intended that his words in Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah I, no. 101 would apply to the classic agunah/iggun scenario.

B.    CRITIQUE BY MA‘ANEH LA-IGGEROT

In 5734, four decades after R. Moshe Feinstein originally composed his earplug responsa [presented in the previous section], R. Yom Tov ha-Levi Schwarz published Ma‘aneh la-Iggerot, a wide-ranging critique of numerous responsa of R. Feinstein.[14] To that effect, R. Schwarz, Ma‘aneh la-Iggerot nos. 122-124, challenges R. Feinstein’s earplug analysis. Interestingly, R. Schwarz actually concurs with R. Feinstein’s practical conclusion that the lady may indeed immerse in the mikveh; R. Schwarz’ only grievance against R. Feinstein is that he argues on the academic methodology of how to reach that same conclusion. [R. Schwarz does not relate to R. Grodzinsky’s reported congratulatory remarks for R. Feinstein’s responsum/responsa.[15]]
In Ma‘aneh la-Iggerot no. 123, R. Schwarz specifically targets the passage in Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah I, no. 101 where R. Feinstein allows resolving iggun problems using novel reasoning (viz. the same passage translated in full in Section A above). R. Schwarz remonstrates by citing R. Ezekiel Landau, Teshuvot Noda bi-Yehudah, Even ha-Ezer II, no. 75, who addresses a case of a lady where a question has arisen that she might have accidentally received kiddushin, thereby potentially rendering her an agunah. R. Landau responds by enumerating seven (sic!) independent reasons why there was no kiddushin in this particular case. R. Landau concludes his responsum with the declaration: “And based on these seven heterim, even if a problem will be found with one of them, in any event based on the others – and how much more so with the combination of them all – this betulah is permitted, and behold she is an unmarried betulah as she was before, and is permitted [to marry] any gentleman.” Ergo, argues R. Schwarz, we see from Noda bi-Yehudah that – contrary to R. Feinstein – we cannot resolve agunah problems based on novel reasoning, but rather only based on solid, time-honoured, unassailable reasoning.
R. Schwarz then continues his attack on R. Feinstein by citing a subsequent responsum of R. Landau, Teshuvot Noda bi-Yehudah, Even ha-Ezer II, no. 129, which address a case of a contested get. There [in a mathematically similar manner], R. Landau enumerates seven (sic!) independent reasons to validate the get, and concludes with the declaration:

“In the end of the matter, when all is considered, this lady is completely divorced, and she is permitted to marry any gentleman she wishes except a kohen. However, although her permission is clear for me, I do not want others to rely on me unless his honour, my father-in-law, the great genius, our master and teacher, Rabbi Yosef, chief rabbi and yeshivah teacher of Posen will agree with this heter, and likewise his honour the rabbi who is mesader[16] [will agree with this heter]. And then the lady can marry without someone protesting. And anyone who subsequently will question the validity of the get will know that the net of fence of Rabbeinu Tam [who pronounced an ostracism on those who gratuitously question the validity of gittin] is spread under his feet. And therefore everyone should be careful and listen to voice of halakhic decisors.”

So we see, argues R. Schwarz, that even with seven independent reasons to permit an agunah, in this latest case R. Landau refused to allow others to rely on his responsum unless two other Gedolim would agree in advance. Thus, continues R. Schwarz, once again contrary to R. Feinstein, we cannot resolve agunah problems based on novel reasoning, but rather only based on solid, time-honoured, unassailable reasoning.
R. Schwarz then proceeds to attack R. Feinstein from two different responsa published within Teshuvot Rabbi Akiva Eger, Vol. 1. In the first, viz. no. 105, final paragraph, R. Akiva Eger writes “we are orphans of orphans, [such that] because of a question we are not capable of overriding the words of the Rishonim whose waters we drink.” In the second, viz. no. 117, a response of R. Meir Posner to R. Akiva Eger, R. Posner writes: “This is my humble opinion [to be lenient]. However, it is nevertheless not intended for practice, for I am not worthy to argue on the Tzemach Tzedek [who is strict].” Ergo, claims R. Schwarz, we see from the words of R. Akiva Eger and R. Meir Posner – yet again contrary to R. Feinstein – that we cannot resolve agunah problems based on novel reasoning, but rather only based on solid, time-honoured, unassailable reasoning.
Alas, R. Schwarz has misunderstood R. Feinstein’s invocation of the terminology agunah/iggun in Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah I, no. 101. As we saw above, Section A, R. Feinstein never claimed that one can resolve classic agunah/iggun scenarios based on novel reasoning. Rather, R. Feinstein employed novel reasoning to address the case of a husband and wife who are both on the same wavelength and who both wish to return to shelom bayit yet are being hindered by a ritual prohibition. Thus, neither of R. Landau’s responsa (which grapple with classic agunah/iggun problems, where there is a contest between wife vs. husband) are relevant to R. Feinstein’s fact pattern. Likewise, R. Meir Posner’s responsum (which grapples with a classic agunah/iggun problem, where there is a contest between wife vs. husband) is not relevant to R. Feinstein’s fact pattern.
At the same time, a more formidable difficulty with R. Feinstein is posed by the responsum of R. Akiva Eger cited by R. Schwarz, because R. Akiva Eger does not address the classic agunah/iggun scenario. Nevertheless, it seems to this student that even here – with some degree of careful distinction-drawing – we can rescue it with R. Feinstein by positing that R. Akiva Eger addresses a special case which is different than R. Feinstein’s focus. Namely, R. Akiva Eger addresses a situation where a question had arisen based on flimsy testimony that perhaps a lady had committed adultery such that perhaps a child subsequently born to her would be a mamzer. Regarding this special case, R. Akiva Eger is answering that since there is a Teshuvat ha-Rashba [what R. Akiva Eger calls “the words of the Rishonim whose waters we drink”] which is lenient to uphold the innocence of the wife and hence the legitimacy of the born child, here we are required to follow the traditional approach of Rashba, and we are forbidden to innovate a stringency [contrary to Rashba] to delegitimize the newborn son. On this exceptional case described by Rashba and R. Akiva Eger, R. Feinstein never intended to argue. In other words, granted that novel reasoning can indeed sometimes be appropriate in reaching halakhic conclusions regarding ritual prohibitions [as explained above, Section A], nevertheless R. Feinstein will be forced to concede that this is not so if the novel reasoning will delegitimize a newborn child as a mamzer contrary to the traditional approach of one of the Rishonim [such as Teshuvot ha-Rashba].
  In summary, then, R. Schwarz misunderstood R. Feinstein’s invocation of the terminology agunah/iggun in Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah I, no. 101, such that R. Feinstein is not contradicted by the two responsa of R. Landau and the one responsum  sources that R. Schwarz marshals. Furthermore, while the responsum of R. Akiva Eger cited by R. Schwarz poses a greater difficulty against R. Feinstein, even there we can answer on behalf of R. Feinstein that he will not agree to employ novel reasoning when it delegitimizes a child as a mamzer contrary to the traditional approach of one of the Rishonim [such as Teshuvot ha-Rashba].

C. RESPONSUM OF BEIT AVI

            As we saw in the previous section, in 5734, Ma‘aneh la-Iggerot misinterpreted a responsum of R. Feinstein as claiming that classic agunah/iggun problems can be resolved on the basis of novel reasoning. In the following section, we will argue that the same misinterpretation of R. Feinstein was propagated a decade later, in 5745, with the publication of Teshuvot Beit Avi Vol. 4, by R. Yitzchak Isaac Liebes.
            R. Liebes, Teshuvot Beit Avi IV, no. 169, addresses the question of whether a get granted by a husband to avoid money being seized by a secular judge is a valid get.[17] R. Liebes acknowledges that the majority of Rishonim consider financial coercion to be coercion that would disqualify a get, but also points to a minority of Rishonim – viz. Rabbeinu Yerucham and possibly also Tashbetz – whom R. Liebes claims do not consider financial coercion to be coercion.[18] Therefore, continues R. Liebes, because the agunah/iggun crisis in the USA is an emergency, in a time of emergency we can rely on the minority opinion of Rabbeinu Yerucham [and possibly also Tashbetz] to validate the get.
            While R. Liebes does not reference R. Feinstein ever in this responsum, it would appear that R. Liebes’ argument is essentially predicated upon a misunderstanding of R. Feinstein, Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah no. 101 – the very same misunderstanding that had first been propagated by Ma‘aneh la-Iggerot. Namely, R. Liebes erroneously believes that R. Feinstein ruled that one can rely on a minority view to resolve a classic agunah/iggun scenario which classifies as a she‘at ha-dechak. Alas, R. Feinstein never intended such, and was only addressing a case of mikveh immersion. By contradistinction, when it comes to the classic agunah/iggun scenario, the same way there is a she‘at ha-dechak for the wife, so too there is a countervailing she‘at ha-dechak for the husband, such that Exodus 23:3 prohibits us from arbitrarily favouring the wife, as already explained above, Section A.
            Quite possibly, R. Liebes corrects for his own misunderstanding [of R. Feinstein] by adding two key limitations on R. Liebes’ own responsum: (a) R. Liebes will only validate the financially coerced get where a qualified Beth Din had previously ruled that the husband is obligated to deliver a get to the wife, and (b) even then, R. Liebes considers his responsum to only be theoretical until “two rabbis who are outstanding in halakhic decision-making who names are renowned will concur with me.” Nevertheless, even with these stated two limitations, the publication of R. Liebes’ fourth volume of Beit Avi may have reinforced the misperception of Iggerot Mosheh first professed by Ma‘aneh la-Iggerot.

D. ARTICLE BY RABBI BROYDE

            Three decades after the publication of the responsum of Beit Avi [analyzed in the previous section], R. Michael J. Broyde published an article “Plonit v. Ploni: The Get from the Man in a Permanent Vegetative State” in akirah Vol. 18 (Winter 2014). R. Broyde carefully introduces his article – which argues to validate a get from a PVS husband in a particular situation – with the caveat (p. 60) that “the author considers his English analysis tentative, as the literature continues to grow.” R. Broyde’s caveat would prove prescient, because several months later R. J. David Bleich would publish a countervailing article “The Get of efat” in Tradition 48:1 (Spring 2015), arguing to disqualify the same get.[19] [A comprehensive survey of the overall debate between R. Broyde vs. R. Bleich is beyond the scope of the present essay.]
            As a postscript to R. Broyde’s own article (p. 88), R. Broyde cites a letter of R. Moshe Mordekhai Farbstein in response to the Beth Din that arranged the get from a PVS husband. The letter reads as follows, as excellently translated by R. Broyde:

“It appears that you did not understand the purpose of my public statement on the matter. The intent was not to discuss the halakhic details with you but to express my anguish and protest on the great wrong of the three rabbinical judges who are not among the leading scholars of our generation and arrogantly decided to rely on their own judgment to permit a married woman [to marry another man] in a way that none of our great rabbis have ever done, and to publicize the matter only after the fact. Realize that even great leaders of the generation, like R. Akiva Eger, and others, did not rely on themselves–they made their rulings conditional on the approval of other Torah authorities. Before you actually issued the get, you should have written your conclusions and reasoning, and sent them to some of the leading halakhic authorities of the generation for approval.”[20]

            Then, as a counter-response to R. Farbstein, R. Broyde (p. 89) posits that “it is clear that R. Farbstein’s view is not the only view on such serious questions, and that R. Moshe Feinstein adopted a more liberal view of who is qualified to voice an opinion as a matter of normative halakhah in cases of iggun.” As evidence of this, R. Broyde cites Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah I, no. 101 [presented in Section A of this essay], inferring from R. Feinstein that novel reasoning can indeed be employed to resolve classic agunah/iggun scenarios.
Alas, like his predecessors Ma‘aneh la-Iggerot and Beit Avi, R. Broyde (be-mechilat Kevod Torato) has misunderstood R. Feinstein. Iggerot Mosheh refers to using novel reasoning to resolve a ritual prohibition where the wife and husband are both on the same wavelength and wish to return to shelom bayit. At no time does Iggerot Mosheh intend to employ novel reasoning to resolve a classic agunah/iggun situation involving a contest between wife vs. husband. [Hence, we can appreciate the cogency of R. Farbstein’s letter regarding the PVS get, as well as the cogency of R. Bleich’s subsequently published article arguing to disqualify the same get.[21]]
           
E. CUMULATIVE SUMMARY AND APPLICATION TO EPSTEIN VS. FRIEDMAN

            We have seen in the previous three sections that Ma‘aneh la-Iggerot, Beit Avi and R. Broyde all misunderstood Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah I, no. 101 as authorizing novel reasoning to resolve classic agunah/iggun scenarios. In fact, Iggerot Mosheh never intended this. Accordingly, we might hypothesize that when R. Shmuel Kamenetzky commented that R. Greenblatt is a sufficiently great authority for leniency in freeing Ms. Epstein from her iggun, R. Kamenetzky (be-mechilat Kevod Torato) may have been innocently misled by the above misinterpretation of those three scholars in how they read Iggerot Mosheh.           
            Indeed, addressing the case of Epstein vs. Friedman, R. Landesman (sec. 10 of his article) seems to comment to a parallel effect, as follows:

“One who examines the responsa of the great respondents in all the generations will find conclusively that even rabbis or batei din of great Ge’onim did not allow themselves to rely upon their own reasoning in laws of this nature, but rather only issued permissive rulings after the other giants of the generation concurred with them.”

            In a footnote to substantiate his thesis, R. Landesman points to the examples of Teshuvot Maharsham III, no. 16; VI, no. 159; and VIII, no. 133.
Admittedly, R. Landesman himself (be-mechilat Kevod Torato) has a chequered record on matters of gittin ve-kiddushin. On the one hand, R. Landesman opposition to R. Jacob Kamenetzky’s hypothetically proposed prenup was a demonstration of good judgement by R. Landesman, which paved the way for this student’s diamond-polished edition which corrected R. Jacob Kamenetzky’s oversight.[22] On the other hand, R. Landesman’s service as a Dayan on the Beth Din that granted R. Aryeh Malkiel Kotler a heter me’ah Rabbanim might benefit from correction [and this notwithstanding the fact that R. Kotler (be-mechilat Kevod Torato) has himself since been promoted to the Mo‘etzet Gedolei ha-Torah of Agudath Israel of America] – the correction for which has already been outlined in a footnote in a previous essay of this student.[23] Ergo, just because R. Landesman renders a judgement on gittin ve-kiddushin, it does not mean it is automatically normative. [Sometimes it is, and sometimes it is not.] But the cited responsa of Maharsham do prima facie appear to methodologically support R. Landesman regarding Epstein vs. Friedman. Likewise, R. Landesman prima facie seems to be methodologically supported [regarding Epstein vs. Friedman] by the two responsa of R. Landau and the one responsum of R. Posner cited by R. Schwarz [presented above, Section B].
In the end, it is not the place of this student [who lacks ordination in Shulchan Arukh Choshen Mishpat, and hence in matters of adjudicating mekach ta‘ut] to offer a verdict on Epstein vs. Friedman. In the hypothetical event that the halakhah follows the position of R. Cohen and R. David Feinstein that there was no mekach ta‘ut, it may also be hypothetically plausible to argue that the righteous Ms. Epstein has been anoosah pursuant to the Gemara, Shevu‘ot 26a,[24] for she was following the Beth Din of R. Nota Zvi Greenblatt in good conscience, and thus she should be allowed to return to shelom bayit with her righteous original husband Mr. Friedman.[25] As for the righteous second husband, since the RCA now converts 3 times as many ladies as gentlemen,[26] there should be no hypothetical difficulty swiftly finding him an excellent replacement shiddukh. Thus, all the righteous protagonists in this episode can be honoured and live happily ever after. Obviously, a practical question of this nature should optimally be referred to posek ha-dor, R. J. David Bleich. Until then, this unworthy student is satisfied that the present essay has clarified the meaning of Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah I, no. 101 regarding the methodology of resolving cases of iggun.
   



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[2] I am grateful to R. Daniel Eidensohn and R. David Eidensohn for bringing this Kovetz Ginat Veradim to my attention.

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[5] See Shalom C. Spira, “A Combination of Two Halakhically Kosher Prenuptial Agreements to Benefit the Jewish Wife,” footnote 3 (of that essay), available at . 

[6] See Shalom C. Spira, “The Halakhic Definition of Life in a Bioethical Context,” available at . Whereas R. Shmuel Kamenetzky is not explicitly identified by name in that essay, it is well known that R. Shmuel Kamenetzky [together with R. Feivel Cohen] asked R. Shlomo Zalman Auerbach and R. Joseph Shalom Eliashiv to issue a statement on 18 Menachem Av, 5751 that considers brain dead patients to be potentially alive. See R. David Shabtai, Defining the Moment: Understanding Brain Death in Halakhah (Shoresh Press, 2012), pp. 309-310.

[7] See “The Halakhic Definition of Life in a Bioethical Context,” op. cit., footnote 217 (of that essay) and accompanying text.

[8] <http://daattorah.blogspot.com/2016/01/rav-feivel-cohen-rules-heter-is.html> Furthermore, as can be seen there, R, Cohen’s ruling is countersigned by R. Shlomo Eliyahu Miller. This writer [who presently resides in Montreal, Canada] recalls how in early 5766, when R. Yonatan Binyamin Weiss (of Bnei Brak) immigrated to Canada and was formally “crowned” at a reception (se‘udat hakhtarah) in honour of his being appointed as a Dayan on the Beth Din of the Jewish Community Council of Montreal, a videotape containing congratulatory remarks by R. Shlomo Eliyahu Miller was played in order to demonstrate that R. Weiss is worthy to serve the Montreal community. Thus, R. Miller seems to be entitled to an opinion on matters of this nature (-were it not so, R. Miller’s endorsement of R. Weiss would be meaningless).

[9] R. Moshe David Tendler, Responsa of Rav Moshe Feinstein: Translation and Commentary (KTAV Publishing, 1996), p. 6.

[10] It is not clear from R. Tendler’s report whether the reference is to R. Feinstein’s initial responsum alone (i.e. Yoreh De‘ah I, no. 98) or to all of R. Feinstein’s sequential responsa on the same topic (i.e. Yoreh De‘ah I, nos. 98-103). For this reason, the main text presently adored by the footnotes is careful to specify “responsum/responsa”, in order to accommodate both hypothetical possibilities.

[11] See supra, note 10.

[12] Cf., however, the alternate version of this episode posthumously recounted by R. Shimon Finkelman, Reb Moshe: The Life and Ideals of HaGaon Rabbi Moshe Feinstein (Mesorah Publications, revised and expanded edition, 2011), p. 61, which does not identify the subject of dispute between R. Feinstein vs. R. Abramsky, and which instead claims that the dispute occurred during “the five years from 1925 to 1930” [corresponding to 5684/5-5689/90 on the Jewish calendar], in which case it could not have chronologically coincided with the composition of Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah I, nos. 98-103. It is unclear to this student whether this discrepancy between R. Tendler vs. R. Finkelman is due to a typographical error on R. Finkelman’s part (be-mechilat Kevod Torato), or due to other considerations.

[13] See R. Ovadiah Yosef, Teshuvot Yabi‘a Omer X, Yoreh De‘ah no. 43, for an elucidation of the parameters when this principle may be employed.
[14] <http://www.israel613.com/books/MEANE_IGROT-H.pdf>

[15] See also R. Simchah Bunim Lazerson, Shulchan Shelomoh, Erkei Refu’ah III (Jerusalem, 5766), pp. 12-13, who cites R. Shlomo Zalman Auerbach as allowing a lady with a cotton earplug to immerse in the mikveh (at least under certain circumstances). Neither R. Feinstein nor R. Schwarz nor R. Grodzinsky are cited there as having preceded R. Auerbach on this matter.

[16] Presumably, R. Landau means the future rabbi who will serve as the mesader kiddushin when the lady attempts to remarry. [It is also hypothetically possible, though much less likely, that R. Landau means the rabbi who was mesader the contested get.]

[17] As already mentioned in the main text, the Beit Avi volume in which this responsum appears was published in 5745 (corresponding on the secular calendar to 1984/5), several years before the 1992 New York Get Law was legislated. Furthermore, even the subsequent Beit Avi volume (i.e. Vol. 5) published by R. Liebes – the very final volume that R. Liebes would ever publish in his physical lifetime – was published in 5750 (corresponding on the secular calendar to 1989/1990), a couple of years prior to the legislation of the 1992 New York Get Law. Thus, at no time did R. Liebes ever publish any responsum halakhah le-ma‘aseh validating gittin granted as a consequence of the 1992 New York Get Law.
  Nevertheless, because the issues that R. Liebes raises are conceptually relevant to the future 1992 New York Get Law, some have attempted to argue that R. Liebes’ responsum in Beit Avi IV, no. 169 de facto validates gittin granted following the future passage of the 1992 New York Get Law. That attempted argument is refuted by this student in “A Combination of Two Halakhically Kosher Prenuptial Agreements to Benefit the Jewish Wife,” available at .

[18] See, however, “A Combination of Two Halakhically Kosher Prenuptial Agreements to Benefit the Jewish Wife,” op. cit., Section B (of that essay), for evidence that even Rabbeinu Yerucham and Tashbetz might consider financial coercion to constitute coercion which would disqualify a get.

[19] R. Bleich’s article would benefit from two typographical corrections. On p. 36, the reference in footnote 9 should read “Yated Ne’eman, 19 Sivan 5774” (not 5744). On p. 75, the reference in line 5 should read “Tosafot, Zevaim 2b” (not 2a).
More conceptually, an objection can be raised against the distinction R. Bleich (be-mechilat Kevod Torato) draws on pp. 60-61 between patients who are mentally ill due to physiological reasons vs. due to trauma. R. Bleich writes that “physiological illness is curable by medication; destroyed neural tissue is irreplaceable.” Yet, R. Moshe Feinstein, Iggerot Mosheh, Yoreh De‘ah II, no. 146, p. 248, right-hand column, lines 12-18, surmises that patients who are mentally ill – even due to destroyed neural tissue by trauma – might be healed through medical therapy that has not yet been discovered, as well as through prayer. [How paradoxically ironic, then, that R. Feinstein takes a more optimistic approach to the prognosis of mentally ill patients than R. Bleich, when in fact – on the matter of defining brain death – it is R. Bleich who is more optimistic (in the sense that he deems brain dead patients to be alive) than R. Feinstein (who – according to a substantial school of reporters within the oral record – deems brain dead patients to be dead; see “The Halakhic Definition of Life in a Bioethical Context,” op. cit.)] In any event, this more conceptual objection to R. Bleich’s article does not necessarily detract from R. Bleich’s overall thesis to disqualify the PVS get. After all, R. Bleich’s thesis is based on nine distinct sfekot le-chumra (tabulated on pp. 101-102 of his article). The conceptual objection that this student is raising would negate only one of those nine sfekot le-chumra (viz. safek le-chumra no. 6 on R. Bleich’s list).

[20] In a footnote adorning his translation [-the same translation which has been adapted, with appropriate credit given to R. Broyde, in the main text of the present essay], R. Broyde remarks:

“Of course, R. Farbstein’s criticism presumes that R. Zalman Nehemiah Goldberg’s approbation was inauthentic. But if R. Goldberg’s approval was in fact validly given (or not completely retracted; see previous note), then criticism of the judges for failing to consult with any gedolim is inapt.”

               Alas, R. Broyde (be-mechilat Kevod Torato) has not read R. Farbstein’s letter with sufficient care. R. Farbstein did not criticize the judges for failing to consult with any gedolim. Rather, R. Farbstein criticized the judges for failing to consult with a number of gedolim [-in the original Hebrew, itself cited by R. Broyde in his article, R. Farbstein’s expression is “kamah ve-khamah mi-gedolei ha-poskim she-bi-zmanenu.”] Thus, even consulting with R. Goldberg alone would not satisfy R. Farbstein.

[21] A comprehensive survey of the overall debate between R. Broyde vs. R. Bleich is beyond the scope of this essay. However, if one were to hypothetically accept R. Bleich’s conclusion, then one would have to grapple with an urgent bioethical problem that R. Broyde raises in his article. Viz., R. Broyde (p.83) quotes the suggestion of R. Yitzchak Yosef that medical attention be withdrawn from the PVS husband so that he can die and the agunah be freed. Now, R. Broyde – refusing to authorize such passive euthanasia – infers from R. Yosef’s passive euthanasia suggestion that it is actually a benefit to the PVS husband for us to deliver a get on his behalf to his agunah wife, so that no one will actually contemplate following R. Yosef’s passive euthanasia proposal. Since, however, R. Bleich rejects in principle [contrary to R. Broyde] the possibility of a get in this situation, if one were to hypothetically accept R. Bleich conclusion, then one would then need to grapple that we are left with R. Yosef’s proposal for passive euthanasia. Should R. Yosef’s proposal then be followed?
It seems to this student that the answer has already been provided by R. Eliezer Yehudah Waldenberg, Teshuvot Tzitz Eliezer XVIII, no.19. Viz., R. Waldenberg rules that heroic medical measures must be employed to resuscitate a PVS patient, even though this will prolong the agunah plight of his wife, concluding as follows:

“…It is clear, therefore, that since to resuscitate him is encompassed within piku’ach nefesh, that one cannot take into account in this case that which on the other side the lady will continue through this [resuscitation] to be an agunah many years, with all the pain and suffering and sympathy for her travail, because piku’acḥ nefesh overrides everything, and it is incumbent upon her to accept the judgement of Heaven with love.”

               In truth, R. Waldenberg’s words require qualification. One certainly cannot demand of the agunah wife herself to resuscitate (or otherwise provide medical care for) her PVS husband with her own hands. After all, her doing so [thereby prolonging her husband’s life, thereby ipso facto prolonging her own agunah status] imposes intense emotional suffering upon herself, and she could plausibly argue that she is not required to endure such suffering in order to fulfill the mitzvah of piku’ach nefesh. As R. J. David Bleich, Be-Netivot ha-Halakhah III (KTAV Publishing, 2000), pp. 171-175 demonstrates, no bystander is required to experience suffering worth more that the entire value of his/her wealth in order to fulfill the mitzvah of piku’ach nefesh. The agunah wife is thus entitled to say, “I can’t be expected to impose such iggun suffering upon myself by prolonging my PVS husband’s life. I would be willing more than all of my wealth to be freed from my iggun.” By contradistinction, all other bystanders (not being the agunah wife) experience no such suffering in resuscitating (and/or medically treating) the PVS husband [or at least they cannot be said to be experiencing suffering the magnitude of which exceeds their entire wealth], and so those other bystanders are indeed obligated to resuscitate and/or medically treat the PVS husband by virtue of piku’ach nefesh.
This paradox, viz. the fact that the wife is exempt from saving her husband’s life but that no one else is, raises an intriguing corollary question. Would the wife be halakhically allowed to use force (e.g. a mandatory police-enforced DNR order) to prevent all other bystanders from saving her husband’s life, thereby optimizing her chances of being freed from her agunah status? At first glance, one might creatively justify such a course of action, pursuant to the following precedent. Shakh on Shulchan Arukh, Choshen Mishpat 163, se‘if katan 18 [as elaborated by Gilyon Yad Avraham to Shulchan Arukh, Yoreh De‘ah 157:1] rules (together with several other poskim) – based on the Gemara, Yevamot 79a – that when a Jew is captured by a gentile ruler, then he/she can rescue himself even though it will cause the gentile ruler to capture someone else in his/her place. So, if a wife is trapped in functionally dead marriage to a PVS patient, one could creatively argue that Shakh et al. authorize the wife to free herself by using force to prevent anyone from saving her husband’s life. Nevertheless, this creative argument – while praiseworthy in an academic sense for expanding the horizons of our Torah study – is unsuccessful halakhah le-ma‘aseh. This is because, as explained by Shalom C. Spira and Mark A. Wainberg, “HIV Vaccine Triage: Halakhic Considerations,” Jewish Law Annual XX (2013), pp. 237-243, Shakh et al.’s approach is disputed by Rema to Shulḥan Arukh, Ḥoshen Mishpat 388:2 and other poskim. Thus, the principle that safek de-Oraita le-chumra dictates that the agunah wife may not follow Shakh et al. in practice.

[22] See “A Combination of Two Halakhically Kosher Prenuptial Agreements to Benefit the Jewish Wife,” op. cit., footnote 85 (of that essay).
It may be noted that neither R. Jacob Kamenetzky nor any other mesader kiddushin has ever attempted to employ the original draft of the prenup, such that no mishap actually arose from R. Jacob Kamenetzky’s oversight. [N.B. According to the testimony of R. J. David Bleich, personally recounted to this student in a telephone conversation, R. Jacob Kamenetzky did not concur with R. Landesman’s objection, calling the objection “gibberish.” However, this student humbly disagrees with R. Jacob Kamenetzky, and does believe that R. Landesman’s objection is appropriate, for the reasoning explained in the aforementioned footnote 85 of “A Combination of Two Halakhically Kosher Prenuptial Agreements to Benefit the Jewish Wife,” op. cit.]

[23] See “The Halakhic Definition of Life in a Bioethical Context,” op. cit., footnote 238 (of that essay).

[24] That Gemara expounds upon Leviticus 5:4 to exculpate a person who becomes confused by honest emotions beyond his/her control. Or Zaru'a, Hilkhot Yibbum ve-Kiddushin no. 637, employs this very exposition to exonerate from all sacrificial liability a gentleman who waits the statutory three months of clarification after his (apparently) childless brother died to wed the widow through levirate marriage, and then some time later discovers that the widow had been pregnant all along from her original husband, with the fetus being concealed. Since the brother acted in good faith, his unlawful incest is deemed to be anoose (an innocent accident for which no atonement is required), as opposed to shogeg (an inadvertent transgression for which atonement is required). 

[25] Indeed, if this is hypothetically the case, then it is a mitzvah to encourage this practical solution. After all, the Gemara, Yoma 9a-b, derives from I Samuel 2:22 that because Chofni and Pinchas (the two kohanim officiating at Shiloh, sons of the High Priest) delayed from bringing shelom bayit between wives and husbands, Scripture regards Chofni and Pinchas as though they (chas ve-chalilah) committed gilui arayot. [See also R. Yitzchak Zilberstein, Chashukei Chemed al Mesekhet Ketubot (5767), pp. 349-351, who rules that a person is obligated to spend up to a fifth of his wealth in order to fulfill the mitzvah of bringing peace between a husband and wife.]

[26] See Shalom C. Spira, “A Census of Sherbrooke Street for Purposes of Hilkhot Eiruvin,” footnote 4 (of that essay), available at .


Thursday, August 30, 2018

Justice Ministry’s Legal Aid Unit Drops Assistance For Woman Refusing To Accept Ge

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A Haifa Rabbinate beis din has for some time been dealing with a case in which the wife has refused to accept a get, now for four years. This has resulted in the beis din placing sanctions on her, including a prohibition from leaving the country and barring her from maintaining a bank account, albeit to no avail.

No more shame: Abuse and infidelity in the Jewish home


Shifra" married the man who spoke so beautifully about building relationships through Torah. But the charismatic chessed-activist turned out to be an abuser -- and unfaithful.
A web of lies and secrets was carefully woven within her own home, where her children were being told that Shifra was crazy, and "Don't tell Mommy" was the mantra.
It was the wise advice of an elderly rabbi and his wife that set Shifra and her family free. "Lashon Harah (avoiding speaking negatively of others) was never meant to protect the guilty," he instructed her.
Despite the fear of the reaction of the community, despite the humiliation Shifra brought upon herself, and despite the mountains she needed to climb, she was finally free to share the secrets, free to seek a divorce, and free to believe in herself.
It took six years for Shifra to acquire a Get (Jewish writ of divorce), and many more years to heal herself and her family. She not only survived, but thrived, as did her children, as they rebuilt their lives together and individually.
Shifra tells her painful story, gives tips on how to recognize an abuser early on, and asks the readers for feedback on her pending book on the subject.

Wednesday, August 29, 2018

Trump warns of violence if GOP loses midterms

newsweek


It's not a question of like or dislike, it's a question that they will overturn everything that we've done and they will do it quickly and violently. And violently. There is violence. When you look at Antifa—these are violent people,” he continued.
“You have tremendous power,” the president told the pastors, who were gathered in the White House for a meal honoring evangelicals. “You were saying, in this room, you have people who preach to almost 200 million people. Depending on which Sunday we're talking about."
But the president’s comments were branded racist, with CNN’s Jeffrey Toobin commenting on Tuesday night that Trump’s decision to suggest Antifa would react violently smacked of discrimination.

“Let’s be clear also about what’s going on here,” Toobin said in a panel discussion with Wolf Blitzer. “The theme here is, ‘I’m Donald Trump and I’ll protect you from the scary black people.’ Antifa is widely perceived as an African-American organization, and this is just part of the same story of LeBron James and Don Lemon and Maxine Waters and the NFL players and the UCLA basketball players.


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Tuesday, August 28, 2018

Bestselling US author: ‘Russian asset’ Trump doesn’t truly care for Israel, Jews

.times of Israel


In his new book, “House of Trump, House of Putin,” which was published last week, Unger sets out to show how, through the decades, first the Russian mafia, and then the Russian oligarchs, built a network of relationships with Trump and with Trump’s business empire, which centrally included buying hundreds upon hundreds of luxury apartments in Trump’s dozens of residential towers. That vast income for Trump — Russian money which, Unger claims, was essentially laundered via Trump companies using the loopholes of America’s “virtually unregulated” real estate industry — played a vital role in the resurgence of his ailing and failing businesses, helping Trump rise from the financial ashes to begin the journey that ultimately took him all the way to the White House.

En route, Unger charges with incendiary detail in the book, Trump became nothing less than “a Russian asset”: The Russians saved him from financial ruin; Russian mafia bosses made their homes in Trump Tower on 5th Avenue in Manhattan; and an international real estate firm called Bayrock, “staffed, owned and financed by émigrés from Russia and the former Soviet Union, operated out of the building.”
“I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH RUSSIA,” Trump tweeted in January 2017. “NO DEALS, NO LOANS, NO NOTHING.” In fact, Unger shows, Trump became entangled with dozens of individuals tied to the Russians — some of them notorious criminals, some of them alleged criminals, some of them neither.
But Unger’s revelations directly impact Israel as well. About half of those 59 named “Russia Connections” are Jewish, and about a dozen of the 59 are Israeli citizens and/or have deep connections to Israel. (Several of those he names, such as Lev Leviev, Alexander Mashkevich and Mikhail Chernoy, are very wealthy and prominent businessmen with direct access to the highest levels of Israel’s elected leadership.)
Those numbers necessarily raise questions about whether Israel too is being compromised by Putin’s Russia — about whether unsavory characters are exploiting Israel’s Law of Return to gain Israeli citizenship and by extension access to the West; about whether Israel, with its own lax financial regulations and inadequate law enforcement, is serving as a conduit for money laundering by Moscow-linked individuals and companies; and about whether Moscow is building strategic relationships with Israeli politicians — as Unger charges it has done to such phenomenal effect with the president of the United States — in order to influence and if necessary subvert Israeli policies in its interest.


Sunday, August 26, 2018

White farmers: how a far-right idea was planted in Donald Trump's mind

During the insert of more than six minutes, Carlson lambasted the State Department, panning their official reaction to a query from his show and asked why his country's government said nothing about South Africa's amendment to its Constitution (there has been no amendment to the Constitution).
Carlson also interviewed Marian Tupy, an analyst at the Cato Institute, a think tank in Washington.
Earlier this year, AfriForum's Kallie Kriel and Ernst Roets both visited the Cato Institute, while Roets was interviewed on Carlson's show. During the interview, Roets said a motion was carried in Parliament to change the Constitution, while in actual fact, that did not happen.
He backpedalled later in the interview and said there was an ongoing parliamentary process but did not correct Carlson's false statements.
During Wednesday's broadcast, Carlson started by declaring that Ramaphosa "started seizing land from his own citizens without compensation because they are the wrong skin colour".
However, no farms have been seized and no expropriation without compensation has taken place since the start of the national debate about land reform.

OVERVIEW: 'There's a black genocide in SA and US' - EFF hits back at Trump following Twitter storm
news24.
cnn
vox

On Wednesday night, the Fox News presenter Tucker Carlson once again talked about the alleged plight of white South African farmers on his Fox News program.
On Twitter, Donald Trump indicated that he had been watching. The president’s tweet called for further study, but treated the “large scale killing of farmers” as a settled fact, when reporting indicates that against the background of a generally high murder rate in South Africa, there is no evidence of white farmers being specifically targeted.
But Trump’s tweet came at the end of a long process whereby the far-right idea of “white genocide” in South Africa had been mainstreamed, working its way from far-right websites and forums, into the rightward edge of mainstream media, and then into policy proposals. News Corp outlets have played an outsized role in that process.


The conspiracy theory of “white genocide” has been a staple of the racist far right for decades. It has taken many forms, but all of them imagine that there is a plot to either replace, remove or simply liquidate white populations.
South Africa and Zimbabwe in particular have exerted a fascination on the racist far right because in the mind of white nationalists, they show what happens to a white minority after they lose control of countries they once ruled.
The Charleston shooter Dylann Roof was obsessed, like many other white supremacists, with “Rhodesia”, as Zimbabwe was known under white minority rule. As the Christian Science Monitor reported in the wake of his massacre, the fates of the two countries are “held up as proof of the racial inferiority of blacks; and the diminished stature of whites is presented as an ongoing genocide that must be fought”.

Rav Yakov Kaminetsky - seeing spouse as having imperfections sign marriage is not working



JOHN MCCAIN, ISRAEL ADVOCATE AND FOREIGN POLICY HAWK, DIES AT 81


McCain was a powerful political figure and a strong advocate of Israel. The vacancy created by his death narrowed the Republican majority in the U.S. Senate to 50 seats in the 100-member upper chamber, with Democrats controlling 49 seats. 

Alternatively affable and cantankerous, McCain had been in the public eye since the 1960s, when as a naval aviator he was shot down during the Vietnam War and tortured by his North Vietnamese communist captors during 5-1/2 years as a prisoner.

He supported Israel's military action in Gaza against Hamas in 2014, aggressively opposed the nuclear deal brokered between six world powers and Iran in 2015 and passionately criticized the Obama administration's decision not to veto a UN Security Council resolution condemning Israeli settlement activity in 2016.

It Really Is Our Trial By Rabbi Yakov Horowitz

The slander lawsuit brought against me in Israel by convicted sex offender Yona Weinberg is well into its third year and the next hearing in this case will be October 25, 2018 in Jerusalem.

I will be honored to be there defending the right of Israeli children whose parents desperately need to be warned when sex offenders like Weinberg, (who iscurrently living freely in Israel and no one seems to know where he is), move near them.

What is most remarkable on a personal level is how so many thousands of Jews worldwide feel a personal connection to this saga. Everywhere I go, people inquire about it and express genuine solidarity with this effort.

To all of you, thank you for your interest and caring, and we will use this email list and social media to keep you updated.

Saturday, August 25, 2018

QUESTION wife neglects husband claiming the children need her more than her husband can he demand attention from his wife at the expense of the children??

1.IS THIS A VALID EXCUSE IF SHE INDEED IS A DEVOTED MOTHER
2. does the wife in fact have any obligations to the children?
3. IS this legitimate grounds for divorce?

4. What if one or more of the children are sick or handicapped can the husband demand full attention from the wife at the expense of the children


Parents will raise happier children 'if they put them second to their marriage'

US therapist David Code argues that an over-focus on kids creates demanding offspring and anxious, exhausted parents

Want better-adjusted, more successful children? The answer is not to cram their free hours with Kumon maths, Mandarin lessons and violin classes. Nor is it to be a "helicopter parent", forever hovering.
Devoted parents do not produce happy children, says a new book that has become a bestseller in America and is about to be published in the UK. Adults who want the best for their children should spend less time trying to be the perfect parent and more time striving to be the perfect spouse, according to David Code, author of To Raise Happy Kids, Put Your Marriage First.

'Chaining grandpa' fined for blocking daughter-in-law's divorce

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The Rabbinical Court in Tel Aviv issued a fine against an American haredi businessman of NIS 5,000 ($1,370) for every day his daughter-in-law remains an Agunah (chained wife) and does not receive a Get (religious divorce). In addition, the court ordered the father-in-law to pay NIS 50,000 ($13,700) in court expenses, and his attorneys were charged NIS 10,000 ($2,740) each.
The fine was issued after the father-in-law petitioned the court against an order prohibiting his departure from Israel. The restrictions remained in place.
The businessman's daughter-in-law suffered a stroke several years after she married his son. As a result of her poor health, her husband abandoned her and fled to the US, leaving her alone with her two small children.
The son has worked in his father's business since fleeing Israel, and his father is believed to be responsible for the decision not to give his wife a divorce last 13 years.
Last year, the High Court of Justice rejected the father-in-law's petition to cancel the order prohibiting him from leaving Israel and the 30-day prison sentence imposed by the Rabbinical Court when he and his wife arrived in Israel for a visit.