Wednesday, January 1, 2020

He’s an ultra-Orthodox rabbi, she’s a secular Jew. They share a goal

https://blogs.timesofisrael.com/hes-an-ultra-orthodox-rabbi-shes-a-secular-jew-they-share-a-goal/


Neta first became aware of Israeli assimilation distress in her psychotherapy clinic. “I received the following phone call: ‘Don’t ask what just happened. We have to come in and talk.’ The frightened couple came in and had great difficulty believing that their son had brought home a non-Jewish girlfriend. As for the son? He did not have the slightest idea that this was even a problem. He did not want to cause his parents pain but he had no idea that this was important to them. He said, ‘Mom and Dad, you sent me to a public elementary school and, one day a week, to a Jewish Sunday school. Today I’m 25. What did you expect?’”

Should I Tell My Friend Her Husband Is Cheating on Her?

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/12/31/magazine/should-i-tell-my-friend-her-husband-is-cheating-on-her.html


Can it be wise to have someone live in a fool’s paradise? Many years ago, the philosopher Robert Nozick asked us to imagine an “experience machine,” which could deliver any experience you liked: Although you would actually be floating in a tank with electrodes attached to your brain, you wouldn’t know it — you would think that you were writing a great novel or making a friend. Should you get hooked up? Nozick was clear that you shouldn’t. It matters that we’re in touch with reality. All of which is to say that a cheerful life lived in ignorance of important facts about your situation is worse than a less agreeable one lived with the truth. In a sense, what you don’t know can hurt you. And — assuming your informant is reliable — it’s an important fact about your friend’s marriage that her husband has had a long-term extramarital relationship.

Drafting Non-Religious Girls Vs. Kiruv


BS"D

Drafting Non-Dati girls: Enemy of Outreach

by Binyomin Feinberg


4 Teves, 5780  °°  Jan. 1, '20


Question: In addition to all other considerations, if we're so interested in Outreach ("Kiruv") -  which we should be - why do we tolerate, even support a policy that systematically tramples on the legitimate needs of "non-Dati" girls for the same "automatic" exemption from Israeli military service that we (some of us) demand for religious girls?

Forcing girls into the immoral, exploitive military environment is one of the most effective ways of harming prospects for effective Kiruv (for some of the reasons that the girls are prohibited from enlisting to the extent of yai'horaig ve'al ya'avor).  The military environment takes a heavy spiritual/ religious toll on many religious soldiers, men and women. How much more so on those with a tenuous relationship with Judaism, or worse.

it's of course never too late for anyone who has a sincere desire to return to do so. But what are the prospects that someone who spends two years (or two weeks) in that promiscuous environment will opt to give up that lifestyle of hefkairus?

Secondly, how do you think those tens of thousands of non-"Dati" girls denied their legitimate needs to avoid conscription - into a notoriously exploitive military environment - feel about frum Jews? That we just care about ourselves, even when we have increased political power massively since the original draft issues arose about 70 years ago? 

Especially now, that the military is reneging on the initial status quo, and now pursuing religious girls (of all strata) with brazen indifference -- what substantive pretext do we really have to remain silent about the ongoing abomination of drafting girls of any type? 

Previously, some may have argued that those in Israel had sparse ability to organize major protests over "non-Dati" girls because that would endanger the protect status of religious girls.  [In reality, the argument initially probably was that, back in the early days of the State of Israel, most of the nonreligious girls wanted to enlist, so there simply weren't too many nonreligious girls for whom to fight. Now, that's changed radically. Many of them do not want want to serve in the military, for obvious reasons.]

That era clearly ended, as has been especially evident over the last year or two, under the faux rightwing government of Mr. Netanyahu.  Religious girls are no longer truly protected from conscription. [It's only a matter of time for everyone to wake up to that "new normal."] And we have reasonable expectation that that era will never return, especially with the ascension of religious parties to positions of massive "kabbolas tak'tzivim" (which we leave untranslated here). When Greed encounters Creed, the outcome is generally predictable. And that's even where the programs in question are totally legitimate.

We're now in the New Exploitive Order, where no type of girl, with the apparent but temporal exception of the politically connected communities, is safe from military conscription.  Thus, the argument for passivity that may have possibly once existed doesn't anymore. To the contrary, perhaps if the Maitav recruiters running after religious girls would realize that they're helping foment a united front (of sorts) - with religious Jews fighting for the nonreligious too - they'd step back, somewhat. Perhaps they would realize that they're undermining their own cause by fueling religious rage, via their antireligious focus on denying exemptions from religious girls. Thus, there is reason to fight for exemption for all girls even from a purely pragmatic perspective. So what are we waiting for?

For the First Time in Israel's History, Jewish Fertility Rate Surpasses That of Arabs

https://www.haaretz.com/israel-news/.premium-in-first-for-israel-jewish-fertility-rate-surpasses-that-of-arabs-1.8343039

Jewish Israeli women's fertility rate exceeded in 2018 that of their Arab peers, for the first time in the country's history, according to data released Tuesday by the Central Bureau of Statistics. 
 

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https://www.algemeiner.com/2019/12/31/palestinian-ngos-reject-european-aid-due-to-refusal-to-renounce-terror-ties/

Over 100 Palestinian NGOs have refused to sign an EU grant request because it demands that funds cannot be handed over to terrorist groups.
The director of the BDS organization Al-Haq, Shawan Jabarin, told The New Arab, “We demanded to include conditions stipulating that we do not have to recognize the criteria listed regarding terror groups.”

Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Republican Women Are in Crisis

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/12/31/opinion/republican-party-women.html

Acknowledging the party’s mistakes with female voters, the G.O.P. fielded female candidates in the 2014 midterms who could appeal more broadly. These candidates downplayed their social conservatism and leaned in to their biographies as glass-breaking female leaders. In 2014, Martha McSally, the nation’s first female fighter pilot to serve in combat, won the Republican primary in a swing district in Arizona. Elise Stefanik, then the youngest congresswoman ever elected, was chosen to be co-chairwoman of the party’s moderate caucus

With the exception of her endorsement of Senator Joni Ernst of Iowa, Ms. Palin played a minor role in the 2014 midterm victories. Her days as queen-maker seemed over. Most signs suggested that Republican pragmatism would prevail going forward.
The rise of Donald Trump eliminated any chance of that. The signs of women’s disillusionment with the party were immediate. One day after President Trump’s inauguration, an estimated four million people, mostly women, participated in hundreds of women’s marches throughout the United States. In the months that followed, women mobilized to defeat Republicans at the federal, state and local levels.

In the 2018 midterms, every Republican congresswoman from the 2014 class except for Ms. Stefanik lost. Martha McSally was defeated, though she was appointed by Arizona’s Republican governor to fill John McCain’s Senate seat after Mr. McCain died. She faces a tough election battle in 2020.
Despite winning three governors’ races and one open Senate seat in 2018, Republican women will end the decade with their governors and senators outnumbered two to one by their Democratic counterparts. Three of the four current female Republican senators running in 2020 face highly competitive elections in 2020. There are more than six times as many Democratic women as Republican women in the House.

AMI MAGAZINE marriage annulment


the recent Ami magazine had a cover story about marriage annulment - did anyone  who read the article  like to summarize the article?

 https://www.amimagazine.org/2019/12/25/preserving-the-sanctity-of-jewish-marriage-and-the-integrity-of-our-immutable-mesorah/<












 

Monday, December 30, 2019

President Trump Retweets Post Naming Alleged Ukraine Whistleblower


https://time.com/5756414/president-trump-retweets-ukraine-whistleblower/
 
President Donald Trump retweeted a post that included the alleged name of the anonymous whistleblower whose complaint ultimately led to his impeachment by the House.

Just before midnight Friday, Trump retweeted a message from Twitter user @Surfermom77, an account that claims to be a woman named Sophia who lives in California. The account shows some indications of automation, including an unusually high amount of activity and profile pictures featuring stock images from the internet.

Nancy Pelosi delays Trump Senate impeachment trial to her credit — and her peril

https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2019/12/23/trump-impeachment-trial-pelosi-mcconnell-constitutional-crisis-column/2714983001/

Among other matters, the 1986 rules provided that “the Senate shall have power to compel the attendance of witnesses.” When disagreement broke out about whether to call witnesses, the senators deliberated in private, and then publicly voted to depose witnesses. The senators heard videotaped deposition testimony from three witnesses. The trial lasted more than a month.

The 1986 rules are still in force. Yet Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell has declared his intent to ignore them and to run the trial according to whatever procedures the White House wants. Apparently, McConnell sees no conflict between swearing an oath to do justice according to law and then confessing that “Everything I do during this, I'm coordinating with the White House counsel. There will be no difference between the president's position and our position.”

Cyprus court finds British woman guilty of falsely accusing Israelis of gang rape


http://www.israelnationalnews.com/News/News.aspx/273838


A British woman who accused Israeli teens of gang-raping her earlier this year has been found guilty of fabricated the claims.

A court in Paralimni, Cyprus convicted the woman, who was 19 when she filed the false police report this summer, of public mischief Monday, finding that the British tourist had falsely accused 12 Israelis of gang-raping her in a hotel in the resort town of Ayia Napa on July 17th.

Judge Michalis Papathanasiou said the defendant did not tell the truth during her trial, and accused her of trying to deceive the court of “convenient” and “evasive” statements.

"The statements you have given were false," Papathanasiou said.

"He already made his decision! I thought we were asking for a fine," the defendant said to her lawyer.

More than a dozen female protesters were in court Monday, wearing white scarves with an image of lips sewn shut, AFP reported.

The woman, whose identity has not been released, could face up to one year in prison and a fine of 1,700 euros ($1,900).

The court set the date for sentencing for January 7th.

The “Genesis” of Chanuka By Rabbi Yehuda Levin



With the advent of Chanuka I find myself questioning how in our professional lives we always upgrade our knowledge in order to remain pertinent. Yet, too many of us are satisfied to make do with the same superficial understanding in the areas of Tefilah/Prayer, Yomim Tovim/Holidays, etc. that we acquired early in life.
Too many of us apply too much time, effort, and money towards enhancing the externalities of the holiday, such as, ‘presents’ and gourmet donuts. We should be endeavoring to enrich and increase our connection to Hashem through the spiritual opportunity provided to us by these the eight Holy Days.
In a prior Chanuka column I emphasized how Chanuka was also the celebration of the victorious civil war against our fellow Jewish Misyavnim/Hellenists. It was far more than a revolutionary war against our Syrian Greek interlocutors.
Let us now dig a little deeper. Reading Parshas Vayishlach we question how Esav’s spiritual agent managed to wound Yaaqov Avinu, the “B’chir ShebeAvos” (outstanding Patriarch), replacement value of Adam HaRishon, whose very visage is carved into the Mercavah/Throne of G-d Himself. To answer this, let’s go back to the creation of Chava.
The Medrash Rabbah posits that the limb from which Hashem crafted Chava was from Adam’s inner thigh bone/sinew. This is because the inner legs are usually together and covered connoting tznius/modesty. As Hashem constructed every limb, He enjoined it to be tzniuah/modest. One may suggest this yerech/thigh bone was actually the Gid Hanasheh or adjacent to it. Thus, as the Zohar teaches, when Chava betrayed Adam by having an intimate relationship with the snake and then coercing Adam to eat from the forbidden fruit, she turned her greatest asset into a cosmic liability. For Chava was supposed to be the “legs”/support system of her husband, who was to be the Prince of the Torah and spirituality. Instead, she virtually cut him off at the “legs”, betraying him and causing his spiritual collapse. She thus implanted into the very Creation a weakness relating to the Gid Hanasheh/thigh bone. Thus, Yaaqov, as the spiritual replacement of Adam inherited an intrinsic weakness in that area of his physicality and the Angel capitalized on it.
The nachash/snake represents all of the various stages of Golus/Exile including Eisav/Edom and yes, Yavan/Greece. We find in Sefer Daniel that Yavan is associated with nechoshesh/copper. Thus, what the snake did to Chava was an example of the horrific decree that whomever marries must first be intimate with the local hegman/governor. This precisely describes the relationship between the snake/Yavan and the first crossover Hellenist/ Misyavani, Chava, who then utilized her newfound “misyvaneekeit” to betray her husband and cause his downfall.
The Yavanim intended to physically contaminate the sanctity of the Jewish woman while also injecting anti-holiness into the very essence of the spiritual genetic code of Klal Yisroel. They largely succeeded in diminishing the amount of truly holy and loyal Jews. Thus, Rashi informs us in Parshas Vzos Habracha, that a super minority of Matisyahu and a handful of his progeny triggered the Hashmonaic Revolution and by extension the civil war against the Helenists.
Now, let us explore the Gid Hanasheh-Chanuka connection. The Shach Al HaTorah informs us that the reason Yaaqov went back for the pachim ketanim/small flasks was because the pach contained the miraculous shemen/olive oil with which Yaaqov anointed the Matzaiva/Monument, the location of the future Bais Hamikdash, when he left to travel to Lavan.
This miraculous oil was the same oil which would consecreate/anoint priests and kings, and would be a miracle source throughout the ages. Thus, the Shach(not the one who wrote a gloss on the Shulchan Aruch) says that this is the mysterious correlation of the caf of Yaaqov’s thigh and the pach/flask of oil; both are the letters chof/peh.
The healing of Yaaqov as the sun rose indicates and prognosticates that the antidote to the choshech/darkness of Yavan during that Golus/Exile will be by the sun/light and the flask of shemen representing the shining of the Oral Law/Mishnaic period. This was the spiritual spoils of war, the intellectual wisdom surrendered by the Greek antagonists co-opted by Shimon Hazadik and subsequent generations. This metamorphosized into the Chochmas HaTorah Shebaal Peh.
We now understand more deeply the reason for not eating the Gid Hanasheh. It’s because Chava, the very product of Adam’s Gid Hanasheh/thigh bone betrayed Adam by causing him to EAT the forbidden fruit. So, the Gid Hanasheh is forever associated with forbidden EATING. To elaborate further regarding the Chanuka connection and Chava’s creation from the Gid Hanasheh/thigh. Kabalistically, the two legs are Netzach/victory and Hod/glory. Chava was surely created from the leg of Hod and maybe from both legs. This is related to the attribute of Hodaah/thanking and viduy/confessing to Hashem that we don’t deserve all the largesse that He constantly bestows upon us.
This aforementioned approach answers a question Rav Chaim Kanievsky shlita asked his father, the Steipler ZT"L. Why according to the Zohar is Gid Hanasheh the commandment, which corresponds to Tisha B’Av? The Chidushei Harim also raises this issue. He responded, “the 365 laavin/negative commandments each correspond to one day of the solar year and thus the Zohar says one who eats from that sinew is as if he ate on Tisha B’Av”.
I humbly suggest that the Bais Hamikdash symbolizes Hashem residing amongst us collectively and individually. It is utopia and harkens back partially to Gan Eden before Adam’s sin. The Churban of the Bais Hamikdash, like the sin of the Golden Calf and every other transgression is ultimately sourced in the original sin of the Gid Hanasheh/Chava’s betrayal of Hashem and of her husband.
There is much more to convey and I urge you to see my other articles. I hope to expand on other Chanuka takeaways. Let us conclude with the following for now: Chanuka is a time to recharge our spiritual batteries during our prayers, particularly, Hallel and Al Hanisim. We should petition Hashem to enlighten us so that we may fully perceive and combat the outside and inside forces of Hellenism, secularism, materialism, and reading material, etc. We must fully realize that all that is touted as orthodox isn’t necessarily so.
On Chanuka, unlike the rest of the year, Hashem descends to below asara tefachim (ten handbreadths) to be with us and enlighten us in the midst of the darkness of the Diaspora in manifold ways including helping to perceive and identify the Misyavnim in our own camp.
Let us be inspired by the Nashim Tzidkunious throughout history. The Bnei Yisoscher says, every redemption was triggered by righteous women such as Yocheved, Miriam, Rus, Esther, and Yehudis. Thus, we see that the righteous women of the Chanuka epic led the men in instituting the Hashmonaic rebellion, that began with Yehudis, the daughter of Matisyahu the quintessential Jewish heroine named with Hod/Hodaah as an antidote to that which Chava cast asunder. She challenged her father and brothers to rebel against the Syrian Greek decrees, particularly in opposing the violation of the brides. Recall the Jewish women who circumcised their sons when it was punishable by death and then threw themselves off the ramparts of Yerushalayim (see Rav Eliyahu Kitov).
So too, the women of today, particularly during Chanuka can in some modest measure emulate their spiritual antecedents helping them eschew the aforementioned impediments to timeless holiness and to inspire their menfolk to an unsullied (shemen tohor) relationship with Hashem.
As we peer at the candles recall Chazal’s adage: “He who seeks wisdom should turn in the direction of the Menorah (Yadrim)”. Remember the famous Ramban, which states that the Menorah’s light is a virtual throwback to Aharon’s menorah. And therefore, we should pray for enlightenment, wisdom, and uncompromising Torah values for ourselves and our families.
Although it may seem difficult, Chanuka is a time of Hodaah/Viduy, expressing gratitude and confessing our shortcomings. It is an auspicious time when it is made easier to effectuate Teshuva/repentance. Just as the Jews returned to Hashem because of the miracles, Bayomim Hahaim/in those days, may we merit to do so B’zman Hazeh. He will then truly light up our lives.

Rabbi Yehuda Levin has entered his 5th decade of Torah activism, as he continues to represent his various mentors, the Gedolei Torah of yesteryear. He can be heard weekly on 620 AM Radio Thursday evenings at 11:00. He can be reached at rabbilevin@gmail.com. You can join his provocative chat by ‘what’s aping’ (718)469-6999.
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