Friday, January 25, 2013

Weberman case: Satmar raising $1 million for Dershowitz appeal

BHOL   After the verdict yesterday (Tuesday) which sent Nehemiah Weberman to prison for rest of his life, Satmar went out on an operation to recruit huge donations for funding his court case.

The Brooklyn Court sent Weberman to serve 103 years in prison and under the heading "Redemption of Prisoners", Satmar chassidus is trying to recruit a total of a million dollars to appeal against the decision.

The goal is to harness for the appeal the senior lawyer Alan Dershowitz, who is signed on some spinning legal successes in the United States.

Chareidi father who forced sons into girl's school - more problems

BHOL   If the petition filed by Moshe Aryeh Friedman against the school, Bnos Yerushalayim, of Belze was not enough, following which the girls school was required to allow the two sons of Friedman to study together with students of the school, coming next: This coming Thursday the Antwerp Court is expected to decide on the petition Friedman filed demanding that the three older daughters will be accepted at the Yavne school, in the city.

In addition, the following Monday will be the first hearing in the appeal filed by the school administration 'Bnos Yerushalayim' - where Friedman's two sons are currently learning, against the court's decision which was received earlier this month that the school must enroll the boys in school, despite being designed for girls only, by virtue of the law.[....]

Mr. Rosenberg said in a conversation with B'Chadrei Charedim, that he presented before the State Attorney's Office several arguments, including the fact that the children are forced to migrate from apartment to apartment, after the second time it turned out that their father took a lease fraud and refuses to pay the rent.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Rabbi Padwa recorded saying not to go to police

Times of Israel   The leader of Britain’s Haredi community has been caught on video advising an alleged victim of sexual abuse not to report the claim to police.

Rabbi Ephraim Padwa, head of the Union of Orthodox Hebrew Congregations, was recorded by a community member using a hidden camera as part of a Channel 4 documentary on Haredi child abuse.

In a scene that will air Wednesday, the insider, who hails from the Haredi London neighborhood of Stamford Hill, tells Padwa, “Someone who you may know of . . . sexually abused me when I was younger, when I was a child,” and asks how to proceed.

After Padwa responds, “We are dealing with this,” the insider asks whether he should go to the police.

“Oh no,” Padwa answers, explaining that doing so would constitute “mesirah,” or turning a Jew over to secular authorities. He adds in Yiddish, “People mustn’t tell tales.”

Asked to comment by The Times of Israel, a spokesman for Padwa questioned the credibility of Channel 4’s undercover insider, saying the allegations had already been investigated and dismissed as “malicious” by social services in the borough of Hackney. They were investigated again in 2007.

Padwa’s on-camera advice about avoiding the police was made, the spokesman said, with that in mind.

Winds of change: Meet new MK Ayelet Shaked

Guest post from RaP The next Knesset is going to have 53 new members, and they are educated, sophisticated and many are accomplished social activists and have big hearts with great dreams for the success of the Jewish people.

Mercifully, the wild-eyed Amnon Yitzhak has been kept out of the Knesset, but there will be saner Jewish voices preaching traditional Jewish values from some very unlikely sources, such as from Knesset newcomer the dynamic Ayelet Shaked (born 1976) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ayelet_Shaked a symbol of the "winds of change" that will blow in the new Knesset.

She is a leader in Naftali Bennett's Bayit HaYehudi party that is trying to be a more open version of the old National Religious Party. She is not frum but respects the religious. Her guide is former IDF chief rabbi Ronsky. See the fascinating interview with her at http://www.algemeiner.com/2012/08/16/an-interview-with-ayelet-shaked-the-secular-candidate/     "An Interview With Ayelet Shaked - ..." (Algemeiner, August 16, 2012) and best of all watch her talk for four minutes as she gets a prize for her views about the problems with the Israeli media: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YRCLE3ySrns

(4 minutes. In Hebrew with English sub-titles)

Benefit of study Agada & Kabbala - even without understanding/ Noda B' Yehuda



Tzlach (Introduction): There is a critically important benefit of learning agada of the Talmud and medrashim - the profound thoughts of our Sages - which they presented in a concealed and obscure manner. They obviously were fully aware that such profound secrets would not be totally comprehended even by a very wise man. Nevertheless despite all the concealment there is in fact a major benefit when we should merit that it should be fulfilled in us  "He kissed me with the kisses of His mouth". And that the exalted spirit manifests itself in us and we hear the words of the Living G-d. Then we will comprehend and know the great good which we obtain by the means of our study of the words of agada even though we don’t properly understand them.  
 
 Let me explain how one can benefit from studying material he doesn't understand. A child when he starts school - the first thing the teacher does before beginning formal learning - is to teach him the forms of the letters.  He teaches him what letter is an aleph and which is a beis - as well as all the rest of the letters. Once the child has mastered the letters he teaches him the different vowel sounds. When the child has mastered the letters and the vowels he teaches him the combination of the letters and the vowels. All this requires tremendous effort to master something which seems to have no inherent value. In fact in the child had a mature intellect he would find this study boring and repulsive. He would view himself as slave occupied in a totally meaningless task. He would object and say that he sees no significance in knowing whether the letter is read as oh or ah. He would protest simply because he is not able to comprehend the great accomplishment of knowing how to read. Therefore ironically we find that a child - because of his inferior understanding - is actually superior to this task to a mature mind. He is able because the weakness of his understanding to study the letters with great enthusiasm and fully master them This is obviously a critically important accomplishment. 

In fact there is a true story in which there were highly educated men traveling on a ship and with them was a pregnant woman. When the ship was well out to sea a great storm arose that transported the ship to a certain place which was uninhabited and had never been seen by man before. In that isolated place the ship broke up and the men and the woman were saved by going on the dry land. The remained there many days. After the passage of time the woman  gave birth to a boy. He grew up there. The men did not have any books with them. Nor did they have any writing material. When the boy grew up he was taught various knowledge by the men. The boy did not know anything about reading and writing at all - since he never saw it. Then one day one of the men came to him and said to him - I am going to teach you something. He began by teaching him the letters of the alphabet and how to pronounce them. He taught the boy in the same way the small children who first start school are taught the letters. However this boy who was born in the ship who already had grown up. He objected and demanded to know what the significance of this study was. He began to angrily argue with the teacher and denounced the study as a complete waste of time. He demanded to know what possible benefit came from studying the letters since it was pure mechanical memorization without any wisdom or intelligence. However the teacher told him that when they returned to civilization the boy would be able to read books as a result of mastering the alphabet and then he would appreciate the great good that is the result of this knowledge. Consequently he forced the boy to learn despite his objections - until the boy had mastered the alphabet. Eventually G-d had mercy on these people and they saw a ship which rescued them. When the boy returned to civilization he found there books of profound wisdom which he was able to study because of his mastery of the alphabet. He learned new things which he had never conceived of. Only then he realized and appreciated having learned the alphabet. He expressed his deep appreciation and gratitude to the teacher who had forced him to learn the alphabet. 

This is the moshol. This itself is the nimshol regarding Agada which have been taught to us by our Sages. All of them are in fact allegory which conceal within them great light. We unfortunately lack the ability to see this light and understand it. However without the superficial awareness we have from the agada it would be impossible for us to see this light and understand it in the future. In other words the agada is the material for the form that will be comprehended in the future. Nevertheless we have to realize that the agada which introduces us to this wisdom is in fact very far from being the wisdom itself. It is comparable to the relationship of the alphabet that the child learns to the wisdom contained in the holy books. In the future when the material is separated from its form then we will grasp and understand how wonderful it is that we learned the relatively superficial lesson of the agada. Without the preliminary superficial understanding obtained from the agada it would be impossible to understand - when we are in Heaven - the words of the Living G-d which are concealed in the agada. It will be at that time that we will understand and give thanks to our Sages who taught us the agada. We will then be able to recognize the great good that has done for us through the study of agada that are included in the Talmud and medrashim. 

Similar to this I heard in my youth from the great tzadik Rabbi Noach Levi of Brody concerning the 10 Sefiros and other issues of kabbala - all of them are merely introductions that are comparable to learning the alphabet with a child. By means of our exposure to them in this world we will merit in the Future World when the materialistic aspects have been removed from us - we will be capable of grasping and understanding their wisdom and give praise and appreciation to our G-d. It is then we will truly comprehend the profound secrets of the Torah. We will  know the truth. The ways of G-d are upright and the righteous go in them. Amen

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Rabbi Moshe Ben-Chaim: Invitation to discuss Zohar & Kabbala

Rabbi Moshe Ben-Chaim basically disagreed with the Kabbala/Zohar discussion that Rabbi Tzadok has posted. I invited him to write a guest post to present his views. He initially agreed to do so but I just received the following e-mail from him. It is an invitation to move the discussion to his website.
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This Blog's author was gracious enough to invite my words regarding this recent Zoharic/Kabbala debate, which cannot be decided based on a halachik mechanism of "majority rule". My thoughts grew to more than a page in length, so I have posted it here for those of you interested in reviewing my thoughts: http://www.mesora.org/ZoharsDeviation.html

I also cannot seem to subscribe here, as I see no "email" link on my Mac/Safari browser. Therefore, I am happy to continue on the Mesora website in the Discussions tab: http://www.mesora.org/Discussions  under the forum: Judaism's Fundamentals>Zohar & Kabbala: The Heresy

May we each cleave to emess, abandon falsehood when we realize it, and adhere meticulously to God's words. May we each show kavod to God's habriyos and learn in order to help others, not for self-aggrandizement, and certainly not l'kantare. may God show us all His intelligent truths.


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Jerusalem man indicted on abusing chareidi kids

JPost   A 43-year-old Jerusalem man was indicted by the Jerusalem District Court Wednesday morning on two counts of sodomy and other indecent acts with young children.

Binyamin Schatz, who lived alone on Hanatziv Street in a haredi neighborhood of the capital, confessed to police that he had abused children around his current apartment and in another neighborhood in Jerusalem where he used to live. He said when his neighbors found out that he was a serial child molester, they forced him to move to another area of the city or they would report him to the police.

After his arrest, other parents came to the police station and reported more instances of abuse and sodomy with their children.

Elections: Bibi - Religious or Secular government?



haaretz   Likud-Yisrael Beiteinu claimed 31 seats, Yesh Atid 19, Labor 15, Shas 11, Habayit Hayehudi 11, United Torah Judaism 7, Hatnuah 6, Meretz 6, United Arab List-Ta’al 5, Balad 3, and Kadima likely to win 2 seats.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Weberman sentenced to 103 years for abuse

NyTimes    An unlicensed therapist who was a prominent member of an ultra-Orthodox Jewish community in Brooklyn was sentenced on Tuesday to 103 years in prison for repeatedly sexually abusing a young woman, beginning the attacks when she was 12. 

Nechemya Weberman, 54, a member of the Satmar Hasidic community of Williamsburg, did not react as the judge sentenced him. The victim, now 18, who delivered an impassioned statement asking for maximum sentence to be imposed, dabbed away tears.

“The message should go out to all victims of sexual abuse that your cries will be heard and justice will be done,” said State Supreme Court Justice John G. Ingram before imposing the sentence, close to the longest permissible to him by law. He praised the young victim’s “courage and bravery in coming forward.” 

Mr. Weberman, who wore his traditional black suit and head covering, did not speak before the sentencing, but his lawyer, George Farkas, said he was “innocent of the crimes charged.” The defense is planning to appeal.

Church documents reveal high-level abuse coverup

NYTIMES   The retired archbishop of Los Angeles, Cardinal Roger M. Mahony, and other high-ranking clergymen in the archdiocese worked quietly to keep evidence of child molesting away from law enforcement officials and shield abusive priests from criminal prosecution more than a decade before the scandal became public, according to confidential church records. 

The documents, filed in court as part of lawsuit against the archdiocese and posted online by The Los Angeles Times on Monday, offer the clearest glimpse yet of how the archdiocese dealt with abusive priests in the decades before the scandal broke, including Cardinal Mahony’s personal involvement in covering up their crimes.  

Rather than defrocking priests and contacting the police, the archdiocese sent priests who had molested children to out-of-state treatment facilities, in large part because therapists in California were legally obligated to report any evidence of child abuse to the police, the files make clear.  [...]

In a written statement released on Monday, Cardinal Mahony, who took over the Archdiocese of Los Angeles in 1985 and retired in 2011, apologized to the victims of the sexual abuse. 

“Various steps toward safeguarding all children in the church began here in 1987 and progressed year by year as we learned more about those who abused and the ineffectiveness of so-called ‘treatments’ at the time,” the statement said. “Nonetheless, even as we began to confront the problem, I remained naïve myself about the full and lasting impact these horrible acts would have on the lives of those who were abused by men who were supposed to be their spiritual guides.” 

Cardinal Mahony said he came to understand that impact only two decades later, when he met with almost 100 victims of sexual abuse by priests under his charge. He now keeps an index card for each one of those victims, praying for each one every day, he said in the statement.

Danish Haircuts - Gender Equality vs Commonsense

Reuters       Denmark, which like its Nordic neighbors prides itself on promoting equal treatment for men and women, is taking gender equality all the way to the beauty salon. 

The Board of Equal Treatment effectively ruled last month that price differences between men's and women's haircuts were illegal. It ordered a salon advertising women's haircuts for 528 crowns ($94) and men's haircuts for 428 crowns - plus an extra fee for long hair - to pay 2,500 crowns ($450) to a woman who had filed a complaint.

Now, a trade organization for hairdressers has called the decision absurd, saying it will become a nightmare to set prices for customers and warning of "pricing chaos".

"It takes, quite simply, longer time with women," Connie Mikkelsen, chairwoman of the Danish organization for independent hairdressers and cosmeticians, said in a statement on Monday.

The board's decision has been appealed and a court will determine whether hairdressers need to find a new way to charge for their services, in the length of time, or the standard of the cut.

"Measuring time will lead to a discussion of hair length - what is medium length, and what is long. It will end in a series of conflicts with customers," Mikkelsen said.

Monday, January 21, 2013

Teaching Torah to gentiles | Rav Aharon Kahn | Orthodox Union




  Content Description: Teaching Torah to gentiles. Analysis of commentaries on gemara Chagigah 13a, which focus on the pasuk brought to support the prohibition of teaching Torah to gentiles. Who ‘owns’ the Torah? Do I have a partial, but individual ownership? Or do I individually own nothing of Torah, but rather, as a part of Klal Yisroel, it is group-owned? An understanding of the word: “morasha”--nuances of ‘yerushas kehillas Yaakov’ in contrast to ‘morasha kehillas Yaakov.’

Citations: Gemara Chagigah 13a with Tosfos, found in the source packets on page 1, and Turei Even on that Tosfos, found in the source packets on pages 1-3, and Sfas Emes (Chagigah 13a) found in the source packets on page 3.

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Weberman: 10 more victims reported/ Sentencing Tuesday

NY Daily News She wasn't the only one.

Nechemya Weberman, the unlicensed Hasidic counselor slated to be sentenced Tuesday for sexually abusing a Brooklyn girl, violated at least 10 others — including teens and married women he counseled, a Daily News investigation revealed.

The self-proclaimed religious adviser even invoked Kabbalah — a form of Jewish mysticism — to convince his victims that having sex with him was kosher.

“He’s a monster,” said a man whose daughter was repeatedly brutalized by Weberman a couple of years before the victim at trial came forward.


Nodah B'Yehuda & Kabbala - private & public view by Rabbi Dr. David Katz

The follow is an excerpt from Rabbi David Katz' doctoral dissertaion on the Nodah B'Yehuda. Rabbi Katz is a rav in Baltimore and is a very well respected talmid chachom as well as very knowledgable about many other things. The full dissertation can be downloaded here from the University of Maryland. The main point is that the Nodah B'Yehuda had a negative public attitude towards Kabbala but privately he had a strongly positive one. This also was true of Rav Yaakov Emden, Chasam Sofer and others. This duality was resulted from the concern for the followers of Shabtsai Tzvi and the Frankists as well as the well founded fear of the ignorant studying kabbala without a proper teacher or foundation.

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Kabbala & Prof Scholem: Ask no questions

For those who want to understand the important differences between an academic study of Kabbalah and the real thing - there is an interesting article by Boaz Huss Ask No Questions Gershom Scholem & the Study of Contemporary_Jewish_Mysticism. 

Scholem insisted on approaching kabbala as an "it" - something to be examined from outside and something which lacked vitality. He had no interest in contemporary kabbalists and having failed to have any  mystical experiences [Idel - New Perspectives in Kabbala ] insisted on dealing with kabbala as something entombed in the letters of musty old texts rather than  a living entity touching the souls of profound and complex men. I bring this up because it is obvious that many who have been commenting on these issues - come from his perspective. A related attitude was expressed by Shaul Leiberman who said
"In an introduction to a lecture Scholem delivered at the seminary, Lieberman said that several years earlier, some students asked to have a course here in which they could study kabbalistic texts. He had told them that it was not possible, but if they wished they could have a course on the history of kabbalah. For at a university, Lieberman said, "it is forbidden to have a course in nonsense. But the history of nonsense, that is scholarship." wikipedia
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By way of introduction, let me recount something that happened to a young acquaintance of mine in 1924. The fellow came to Jerusalem,unpretentiously bearing his training in philology and modern history,and sought to get in touch with a circle of latter-day kabbalists who had preserved, for over 200 years, the traditional mystical teachings of the Jews of eastern lands. Eventually, he met a kabbalist who told him:“I am prepared to teach you Kabbalah, but on one condition that I’m not sure you’ll be able to fulfill.” Some of my readers may not guess that condition: “Ask no questions.”1 
 Gershom Scholem used this mythical tale to open his lecture“Kabbalah and Myth” at the Eranos Conference in Ascona, Switzerland,in 1949—the first time he lectured at that conference. In a 1974 interview with Muki Zur, Scholem disclosed that he himself was the young man in the story, a fact that had no doubt been clear to his audience at Eranos. He went on to tell of his reaction to the condition imposed by R. Gershon Vilner, the aged Ashkenazi kabbalist from the “Bet-El”yeshiva, a reaction that was likewise unsurprising: “I told him I wanted to consider it. And then I told him I couldn’t do it.”2
Paradoxically enough, by his negative response Scholem effectively accepted the condition proposed by the kabbalist, for he chose not to ask questions about—and not to study—Kabbalah as a living, contemporary phenomenon.3
In his partial autobiography From Berlin to Jerusalem , Scholem mentions several more encounters with kabbalists and mystics, but he presents these meetings anecdotally, never raising the possibility that these mystics might be the subjects of study or research. 4

Indeed, Scholem’s meeting with contemporary kabbalists left no impression whatsoever on his vast corpus of scholarly work. He labored to examine the most out-of-the-way kabbalistic manuscripts he could find, but he devoted not a single study to the Bet-El kabbalists or any other kabbalistic stream of his own time. The kabbalistic yeshivas that functioned in Jerusalem during Scholem’s time (“Bet-El,” “Rehovot ha-Nahar,” and“Sha‘ar ha-Shamayim”) and prominent kabbalists, most of them likewise in Jerusalem during Scholem’s period, such as R. Saul ha-Kohen Dwlck, R. Judah Petaiah, R. Solomon Eliashov, and R. Judah Ashlag, go nearly unmentioned in Scholem’s studies. That is the case as well with respect to the few mystics of his generation for whom Scholem expressed esteem—Rabbi Kook, R. Menahem Mendel Schneerson,and R. Ahrele Roth.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Rav Kook suggested studying kabbala in Telz Yeshiva

Making of a Godol page 979. Sometime after the Hasman tenure - probably before R' Katz took the post and certainly before R' Luft did - R' Laizer tried to strike out in a direction other than Musar by offering the post of mashgiah to R' Avraham-Yitzhaq Kook, then serving as Rav of Boisk. The latter spent several days in Telz before turning down the position because the post of Rav of Jaffa, in Eretz Yisrael, was offered him at the same time - but not before making the revolutionary suggestion to R' Gordon that "the yeshiva institute classes in Tnakh, Midrash, Zohar, Kuzari, שמונה פרקים and the like ''. (Regarding the suggestion that yeshiva bahurim study Zohar, cf....  where, in a letter to .... dated Rosh Hodesh Elul 5673 (September 3, 1913), about a decade after R' Kook's visit to Telz, he defends studying Kabala before being "full with the bread and meat" of Talmudic studies.)

Egyptian president is anti-Semite - anyone suprised?


NY Times   Nearly three years ago, a leader of the Muslim Brotherhood delivered a speech urging Egyptians to “nurse our children and our grandchildren on hatred” for Jews and Zionists. In a television interview around that time, the same leader described Zionists as “these bloodsuckers who attack the Palestinians, these warmongers, the descendants of apes and pigs.” 

That leader, Mohamed Morsi, is now president of Egypt — and his comments may be coming back to haunt him.

Since beginning his campaign for president, Mr. Morsi has promised to uphold Egypt’s treaty with Israel and to seek peace in the region. In recent months, he has begun to forge a personal bond with President Obama around their successful efforts to broker a truce between Israel and Palestinian militants of the Gaza Strip. 

But the exposure this month of his virulent comments from early 2010, both documented on video, have revealed sharp anti-Semitic and anti-Western sentiments, raising questions about Mr. Morsi’s efforts to present himself as a force for moderation and stability. Instead, the disclosures have strengthened the position of those who say Israel’s Arab neighbors are unwilling to commit to peace with the Jewish state.

Zohar's concerns about marrying a widow? - Rav Sternbuch

Rav Sternbuch( 4:279): Should one avoid marrying a widow?







This that you ask regarding marrying a widow, we find in the holy Zohar in parshas Mishpatim about taking another wife -
Zohar (2:102a): ‘What, then, becomes of the spirit of an ordinary man whose widow has married.again? Come ye and see the wonderful and mighty works of the Holy King! Who can utter them? When.the second husband's spirit enters into the body of the woman the spirit of the first husband contends with.it, and they cannot dwell in peace together, so that the woman is never altogether happy with the second.husband, because the spirit of the first one is always pricking her, his memory is always with her, causing.her to weep and sigh over him. In fact, his spirit writhes within her like a serpent. And so it goes on for a.long time. If the second spirit prevails over the first one, then the latter goes out. But if, as sometimes.happens, the first conquers the second, it means the death of the second husband. Therefore we are taught.that after a woman has been twice widowed no one should marry her again, for the angel of death has taken.possession of her, though most people do not know this. Friends, I am aware that on this point you may.well object that in that case the second husband's death was not in accordance with Divine judgement. It is.not so, however. It is all decided by fair trial, whether the one spirit should prevail over the other or be at.peace with it; but he who marries a widow is like unto one who ventures to.brave the ocean during a storm without a rudder and without sails, and knows not whether he will cross.safely or sink into the depths. ‘
In Jerusalem many have the practice of marrying a widow only after they have done the Tikun of the Rashash. However in the majority of communities there is absolutely no concern about this and they marry directly without the Tikkun. Your question is whether one should in fact be concerned about this?

It would seem that in our days that there is a basis to be lenient in spite of the Zohar. The basis of the Zohar's concern is the joining of the souls of the husband and wife in the first marriage. That means that each one has kedusha created in his soul through their joining together in the first marriage. Consequently the Zohar writes that the soul of the woman now is bound together with the first husband. Consequently his spirit strongly impacts her even after he has died and therefore no one else should marry her. However it is known from the commentaries that today marriage is always considered zivug sheini (a second marriage). That is because we all are reincarnations from a previous existence since our souls have not achieved the proper perfection. Therefore the marriage is according to one's deeds and therefore it is alright to marry a widow and I have never heard anyone saying otherwise. In addition I have never heard or seen outside of Israel that anyone insisted on during the Tikun of the Rashah. Therefore it would seem that even according to the Zohar it is not necessary in our day since the nature of the marriage is different and therefore the reason for concern of the Zohar doesn't apply anymore. Consequently the poskim don't even mention this issue.

In fact it would seem that the main concern of the Zohar is when the first husband is a great talmid chachom and now the widow is marry a person who is truly ignorant of Torah. In that case the spirit of the first husband would disturb her and would not find peace. However if the second husband is a talmid chachom or at least a G-d fearing man who observes all the mitzvos properly - then this would not arouse the objection of the deceased husband. Because there is no question that we have no desire to keep her unmarried for the rest of her life. In fact I heard that the Gra married a widow and had no concerns. That is because the first husband obviously had no objection for his widow to marry such a great Torah scholar and in such a case the husband's spirit would not disturb his widow. Even though we in truth find kabbalists in mishnas chassidim who warned not to marry a widow (see Chavis Ya'ir #197)  -nevertheless since the established practice is not to be concerned with this we say "G-d guards the fools" and one should not be concerned at all about this.

However since one can in fact readily take care of even this ignored concerned then I would advise that the second couple should request of the kabbalists in Jerusalem  to do the Tikun of the Rashash - and this is the right way to act.  If this is done there is absolutely no concern at all but they should get married and have a wonderful life together with G-d's help. The main thing is to direct ones deeds according to the Shulchan Aruch and poskim.

Furthermore the Chida writes that the Zohar's concern only apply in the first 12 month of the first husband's death and this is also mentioned in the Maharasham (2:141) who says he receives this from the Shinover. In the new Maaseh Rav of the Gra he writes, In the Zohar parshas Mishpatim we find that it is very strongly against marrying a widow. There is a leniency that after 12 months of the death of the first husband there is not so much of a danger since his spirit has left from there. And this is what I have observed amongst distinguished rabbis of our day. ... We see from there that as long as the second marriage be done for the sake of Heaven that a frum person has nothing to fear and there is absolutely no concern for this issue. Consequently according to all this if he has an alternative to marrying a widow even after 12 months perhaps it is best if he take it since he is protected only if he does it for the sake of Heaven. See there that some say that the concern for the spirit of the first husband returning is only for special individuals and very holy people but not for others. Some are insistent that on the day of the wedding to give charity for the elevation of the soul of the first husband and that is sufficient.

You should also be aware that in the case of marrying a widow I am very stringent to insist that the yichud should be in a room in which there is a bed so that it possible to have sexual intercourse. That  is because a widow requires either intercourse or at least the chupah should be possible to actually have intercourse. I am also very insistent that the time of yichud should be extra long (at least 10 minutes) before others entere the yichud room. In this manner the chupah and marriage are absolutely not problematic. In contrast with a virgin it just depends on being secluded for a short time as is explained in Sotah (4b). ... and it is necessary to remain in the yichud room for the amount of time that sexual intercourse takes according to many poskim.

Monday, January 14, 2013

R' Amnon Yitzchok says Rav Ovadiya Yosef faked stroke

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ר' אמנון יצחק ממשיך במתקפה חסרת תקדים נגד תנועת ש"ס המונהגת על ידי מרן פוסק הדור רבי עובדיה יוסף.

כמו בשיעוריו הקודמים טען הרב יצחק כי הוא אינו נגד מרן הרב עובדיה יוסף אולם במתקפה נגד תנועת ש"ס.

הרב יצחק התייחס לטענות שהופנו בסוף השבוע (מוצ"ש) על ידי מקורבי הרב עובדיה יוסף, לפיהם מרן הגר"ע יוסף לקח באופן אישי וקשה את האמירות של הרב יצחק נגדו.

הרב אמנון יצחק אמר במהלך הרצאה שנשא: "אמנם שלושה עיתונים חרדים, לא התפתו ולא כתבו בכלל, כי הם חושבים שזה (הארוע מוחי שמרן הגר"ע יוסף עבר ק.ר) גם היה מבויים".

"הם (בני ביתו המסורים של הגר"ע יוסף ואנשי ש"ס ק.ר) מסוגלים גם להסיע את הרב בשבת בשביל להצליח במפלגה" אמר הרב אמנון יצחק.

האדמו"ר מביאלה בני-ברק חויב לשלם יותר מ-3 מיליון שקלים לבנק ירושלים

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האדמו"ר מביאלה-בני ברק חויב לפני שבועיים לשלם יותר מ-3 מיליון שקלים לבנק ירושלים. זאת לאחר שהתברר כי היה שותף למרמה נגד הבנק. כך עולה מפסק-דין שניתן בבית המשפט המחוזי מרכז.

תחילה קצת רקע: במרכז הפרשה עומד נכס נדל"ן הממוקם ברחוב ירושלים 34 בבני-ברק. הנכס שייך לעמותת 'אור קדושים' של חסידות ביאלה ובמשך שנים הוא עובר בירושה מדור לדור. תחילתו של הסיפור בשנת 2002, אז העמיד 'בנק ירושלים' הלוואה בסך 3 מיליון שקל לטובת משה לבקוביץ.

כפי שסוכם בשעת מתן ההלוואה בין הבנק לבין לבקוביץ, הלוואה נועדה להיפרע בתשלומים חודשיים רצופים במשך 360 חודשים. אלא שהסיבוך החל כאשר כביטחון לפירעון ההלוואה נרשמה לכאורה משכנתא על הנכס שבבעלות העמותה.

במשך שנה שלימה שולמו החזרי ההלוואה החודשיים על סכום של 20,000 שקלים מתוך חשבונו של משה לבקוביץ. בחלוף 12 חודשים, נתן לבקוביץ הוראת ביטול, והחזרי ההלוואה פסקו. נוכח הפסקת החזר ההלוואה, החל הבנק לנקוט הליכים משפטיים למימוש המשכנתא. אלא שאז, בסמוך למועד שנקבע לפינוי הנכס, הגישה העמותה של החסידות לבית המשפט המחוזי תל-אביב, את התובענה שבה היא מבקשת לבטל את רישום המשכנתא על הנכס. 

"Rabbi" used courts to force his sons into Chareidi school





With a soft smile and two young boys in tow, a mild-mannered Moshe Aryeh Friedman appeared undeserving of his reputation as the scourge of the local haredi ultra-Orthodox community as he walked his sons to school on Monday.

Until, that is, he led them straight into Benoth Jerusalem, a girls-only public school that was forced by a judge to admit Friedman's boys on the grounds that Belgian schools cannot discriminate on the basis of gender.

In the haredi community, gender segregation is the norm, and Friedman's push for admission is considered so sensitive that Belgian police assigned an escort, lest the Friedman boys be attacked upon their arrival.

“This is a fascinating development in our society,” Friedman told the 15 or so Belgian journalists who had turned out to see his sons - Jacob, 11, and Josef, 7 - attend their new school. “Finally boys and girls can study together, ending centuries of discrimination.” [....]
 

Breaking engagement when she doesn't love him - Rav Sternbuch

Rav Sternbuch (4:277): Dealing  with a broken engagement

Question: I received a letter regarding a woman who had broken her engagement just before the wedding. The normal practice is to ask him for forgiveness and he should give a document of forgiveness to her. See what I have written in volume I # 775.  However I am being asked regarding a case where the man has already married another woman and stubbornly refuses to forgive her. The woman has had many tragedies and she attributes this to the sin of embarrassing him by breaking the engagement. In addition she has not succeeded in finding another match.

Answer: It is well known that there is an ancient cherem not to break an engagement. See Shulchan Aruch (E.H. 50:6) as well as (Y.D. 236:6) and the Taz ... See also the Maharsham (vol 4) that there is concern that there is a cherem from Sanhedrin. However in our times the normal practice is not to write a cherem. Nevertheless perhaps in Heaven this is considered a serious sin and she would be placed in nidoi. I suggested that she request from three bnei Torah that they release her from the cherem. They should give some reason and justification and then they should release her from the cherem and they should say just as we release you in the beis din below so should the Heavenly beis din release you. They should fine her an amount to give to charity according to her ability to pay and this should help with Heavens help.

Their is another suggestion for this woman who is now a baalas teshuva and has realized that the breaking of the engagement was a mistake. The reason that she broke the engagement was because she was influenced by "enlightened" people that require that an engagement be based on having a strong personal connection - and even being in love with each other - before it is correct to get married - Gd forbid! It also seems that she was reading secular newspapers at that times or she was associating at that time with girls - even religious ones - who influences her with their incorrect views - G-d forbid! Now this woman is aware that family life according to the Torah is totally different and that is the beneficial and truly rewarding path to go.

Consequently in regards to Heaven  if she will now change her way and reduce the number of dates prior to engagement  as well as afterwards before marriage - and both are matched in their values concerning building a home of Torah - there is no greater teshuva than this.

Regarding the man who already has married and yet refuses to forgive her - he is cruel and heartless. That punishment that the Torah required for her for what she did to him - is now on him. G-d should quickly help her and she should get pleasure and happiness in life and with a proper and pleasant marriage.

Sunday, January 13, 2013

Rav Hirsch's attitude towards Kabbala - Rav Elias

The following comments by Rav Joseph Elias appeared in  Jewish Action Magazine 1996 as a response to Rav Shlomo Danziger's review of Rav Hirsch's 19 Letters published in translation by Feldheim with Rabbi Elias' notes.
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Concerning kabbalah the Nineteen Letters are very clear:  "One aspect of Judaism, the actual repository of its spirit (my italics), was studied in such an   uncomprehending way as to reduce this spirit to physical   terms, as man's inner and outer endeavors came to   be interpreted as a mere mechanical, magical dynamic   building of cosmic worlds - thereby often reducing all   those activities ... to mere preoccupation with amulets"   (p. 144).  "If I properly understand that which I believe   I do comprehend, then it is indeed an invaluable repository   of the Tanach and the Talmud, but it was also   unfortunately misunderstood ... Had it been correctly   comprehended, it might perhaps have imbued the practice   of Judaism with spirituality" (p. 267).  

In which way was kabbalah misunderstood? It  deals with the profoundest philosophical and ethical   issues facing man: the relationship between God and world, the working of Divine Providence, and the inter- Rabbi   action between God and man. These are questions that, by their very nature, transcend the realm of the worldly and mundane. Yet we have no way to describe and dis cuss them except in our mundane language. Therein ,  lies a grave danger: just as we must not, God forbid, take "the hand of God" in a literal, physical sense, so too the expressions and descriptions used by kabbalah must not be taken in a literal mundane way. Yet, this was almost unavoidable when kabbalah became popularized (hence the restrictions imposed by the Rabbis as to who was permitted to study it). Very clearly this is what   Rav Hirsch referred to when he wrote that "what was to be understood as inner perception was seen as dis external   dreamworlds," to be manipulated by "amuletic does   practices" and the "magical building of cosmic worlds."  There is not the slightest indication that he ever questioned the validity of the essence of kabbalah, its extra-mundane teachings (properly understood), and its interpretation of "man's inner and outer endeavors."
           
          But this is not Rabbi Danziger's understanding. He puts forth his own idea on what kabbalah is, which he seeks to read into Rav Hirsch’s words. Thus he equates kabbalah and aggadah as merely being “both, in his view, rhetorical and metaphorical works”; the proper understanding of kabbalah (Rabbi Danizer’s italics) should have been ethical, not extramundane.” “It is in this midrashic, metaphorical sense that Rav Hirsch considered kabbalah ‘an invaluable repository of the spirit of Tanach and Talmud.”” Very clearly Rabbi Danizer excludes here the extramundate foundations of kabbalah.  We must ask: which Torah authority, of whater camp, has ever put forward this interpretation of kabbalah? Certainly Rabbi Joseph Caro, the Shelah, the Vilna Gaon, or the Nefesh HaChaim did not. Nor did the poskim who considered kabbalah (unlike aggadah) in their halachic deliberations, from the Remah down to the Mishnah Berurah (which contains more than 200 references to kabbalah). Yet Rabbi Danizer ascribes this view to Rav Hirsch without the slightest shred of evidence. True, Rav Hirsch consistently chose to offer rational ethical explanations in his work. (The reasons for this decision of his are discussed at length in my commentary.) But nowhere does he indicate that he considered his rationalistic interpretation of the mitzvos as negating kabbalah, rather than an alternative to it. In fact Rav Breuer quoted Grosswardeiner Rav, Rabbi Mosheh Fuchs, as saying   that anybody who knows kabbalah will find kabbalistic ideas throughout Rav Hirsch's Chumash commentary,   though clothed in rationalistic terms. Moreover, there are in it actual outright quotations from the Zohar (albeit unattributed), such as to Bereshis 2: 15.  

Rabbi Danziger mentions Rav Hirsch's objection to philosophical speculation about God, "mystical as well as philosophical.” " In the first place, his primary objection was to the religious philosophers because their efforts to remove any thought of Divine corporeality “in the end run very nearly into the dangers of losing all ideas of the personality of God” (Bereshis 6:6). While he was surely not in favor of philosophizing about the essence of God, there are many passages in Rav Hirsch’s writings that speak about God’s attributes, closely following kabbalistic ideas (e.g., Shemos 15:6, about God’s “right hand” and “left hand,” or Tehillim 104:1 and 145:6). These are good examples of how the ethical teachings that Ra Hirsch draws from kabbalah are deeply rooted in its extramundane essence.
            There is indeed one verse (Vayikrah  7:38), quoted by Rabbi Danzinger, which suggests an outright rejection of kabbalah, the korbanos “do not form a chapter of kabbalistic, magic mysteries.” Howerver, lo and behold, Rav Hirsch never wrote this. The word “kabbalistic” was inserted by Dr. Levy in his English translation. The original German text read “[noch] bilden sie fuer sich ein Kapital thaumaturgisher, magischer Mysterien.” “they do not form, by themselves a chapter of thaumaturgic, magical mysteries.”   According to Webster, thaumaturgic means magical miracle working – all we have he is a repetition of the worlds which Rav Hirsch used to describe the misuse of  kabbalah.  There is no indication whatsoever, then, that Rav Hirsch rejected or denied the transmundane aspect of kabbalah. It may be revealing, in this context, to note that Dr. Isaac Beruer, grandson and loyal disciple of Rav Hirsch, introduces kabbalistic concepts in his Neue Kusari, notably the Sefiros (see his Concepts of Judaism, edited by J.S. Levinger).
Yet Rabbis Danziger is so convinced of his own ideas about kabbalah that he accuses such eminent Hirschian interpreters as Dayan Grunfeld, and YaakovRosenheim (and by implication Rav Schwab who shared their views on this subject) of falsifying Rav Hirsch's teachings "in the interests of ideological correctness." What about Rav Hirsch's preparatory notes for the Horeb drawn from the Zohar, and the "echoes and parallels to kabbalistic literature" in his works? Rabbi Danziger replies that "they were put to use only in the kind of rational concepts we find in the Horeb."Yet these notes as well as the "echoes and parallels" are so clearly rooted in the essential transmundane substance of the Zohar (as mentioned above) that obviously Rav Hirsch could not have negated the latter. For another matter, if Rav Hirsch only drew upon kabbalah for midrashic metaphorical purposes, how do we understand his praise of the Ramban's understanding of the spirit of Judaism, considering that the Ramban's whole approach was pervaded by kaballah? And finally, what about the kabbalistic marginal notes in Rav Hirsch's siddur which Dayan Grunfeld reported he himself saw? Can they reasonably be explained away as mere homiletic inspirational ideas? In short, with all due respect to Rabbi Danziger, I do not believe that we are the ones misinterpreting Rav Hirsch's position.