Shulchan Arukh Orach Chaim 685:7 requires all Jewish gentlemen [and according to some interpretations, Jewish ladies as well] to attend synagogue for Shabbat Zakhor, because the special maftir Torah reading constitutes a binding obligation on every individual. Remarkably, the haftarah reading from the Prophets that immediately follows this maftir, while not as weighty in terms of attendance duty, is of special interest to the agunah problem.
"And Saul came to the City of Amalek, and he waged war in the nachal [wadi]" (I Samuel 15:5). The Gemara, Yoma 22b elaborates on "nachal" to mean that Saul's conscience struggled with the morality of waging war against Amalek in light of the mitzvah of the eglah arufah which is performed in a wadi called nachal eitan (as per Deut. 21:4). Specifically, says the Gemara, Saul contended as follows:
"If for one soul [that is the victim of homicide] the Torah says to bring an eglah arufah, then how much more so for all these souls [in the City of Amalek]. And if the people sinned, how did the animals sin? And if the grown-ups sinned, how did the minors sin?"
The Gemara concludes that a Heavenly voice answered Saul "do not be overly righteous" (Ecclesiastes 7:16). Namely, since the Holy One, Blessed Be He, specifically commanded Saul [via Samuel the Prophet] to wage war against Amalek [including children and livestock], therefore by definition the command is perfectly ethical.
Now, by contradistinction, when we deal with the agunah problem, there is obviously no bloodshed in progress [witticisms about the sequence of Tractates Gittin and Kiddushin left aside], and hence it is fortuitously not as high-intensity an emotional drama. But the same answer that the Heavenly voice gave Saul indeed represents the appropriate repudiation to heterodox groups who insist on every agunah being entitled to leave her husband [no matter whether the husband is guilty or innocent of wrongdoing]: "do not be overly righteous." It is not possible to be more ethical than the Holy One, Blessed Be He, Who Has commanded us as Orthodox Jews to respect the sanctity of kiddushin.
There is, of course, a class of delinquent husbands who must be told or even coerced to deliver a get, as per Shulchan Arukh Even ha-Ezer nos. 77 and 154, but this concerns only some [and not all] marital discord situations. A qualified Beth Din must adjudicate these on a case by case basis.
The above message is eloquently captured in the following 1975 remarks of R. Joseph Ber Soloveitchik [recorded at <https://www.yutorah.org/
"The truth is attained from within in accord with the methodology given to Moses and passed on from generation to generation. The truth can be discovered only through joining the ranks of the chakhmei ha-mesorah. It's ridiculous to say 'I have discovered something which the Rashba didn't know, the Ketzos didn't know, the Vilna Ga'on had no knowledge. I have discovered an approach to the interpretation of Torah which is completely new.' [It's] ridiculous. In order to join the ranks of the chakhmei ha-mesorah – Chazal, Rishonim, Acharonim – we must not try to rationalize from without the Chukei ha-Torah, and we must not judge chukim u-mishpatim with the secular system of man."
Some confusion appears to have been generated by a recent article published by R. Yonah Reiss claiming that there is a tradition of numerous poskim to find an escape-mechanism for every agunah. In the text accompanying footnote 7 of <https://bethdin.org/the-
"For the past one hundred plus years, there have been sustained efforts by numerous Jewish law authorities to formulate a type of prenuptial agreement that would address an additional area of concern within the Jewish community, namely the problem of Agunot (women whose husbands refuse to give them a Get despite the non-viability of their marriage). Since there is a long tradition of employing prenuptial agreements for the protection of a woman’s interests, including sustaining a marriage when in her best interests, or providing support for a woman in a troubled marriage, it seemed logical to use this time-honored device towards the age-old rabbinic desideratum of preventing women from being Agunot."
The reference in footnote 7 for the above text is as follows:
"See the lengthy discussion in the article “Ein T’nai B’nisuin” by R. Tzvi Gartner and R. Betzalel Karlinsky, published in Yeshurun, volumes 8-10."
Alas, be-mechilat Kevod Torato, Rabbi Reiss is mistaken. The three parts of the Gartner & Karlinsky article [available at <https://hebrewbooks.org/
Importantly, Rabbis Gartner and Karlinsky cite (in footnote 103 of the second tier of their article) Rabbi Dr. Bernard Revel, first president of Yeshiva University, as being one of the many rabbis who put a cherem on any mesader kiddushin, groom, bride or witness who participates in a wedding with the heterodox proposal of appointing a shali'ach for a future agunah-rescuing get at the time of the chuppah. This pro-familialism message of President Revel underscores the reality that an agunah who graduates YU has exactly the same halakhah as an agunah who graduates Lakewood or Kiryas Joel.
To be sure, there is one prenup which the Oral Torah does authorize to help agunot, as I have showcased at <https://daattorah.blogspot.
"There is no wisdom and no understanding and no counsel against Ha-Shem" (Proverbs 21:30 cited by Eruvin 63a). The secular values of the street must necessarily defer to the sanctified values of Orthodox Judaism. It was my father's wish that his legacy be perpetuated through the recognition that the kiddushin which Reb Aharon Friedman offered Ms. Tamar Epstein was [and remains] valid, as discussed at <https://daattorah.blogspot.
Rabbi Spira works as the Editor of Manuscripts and Grants at the Lady Davis Institute for Medical Research, a Pavilion of the Jewish General Hospital in Montreal, Canada.
