Abuse: The Parent Trapped

NYTimes

I WANT to believe I have little in common with Julie Schenecker, who the police say confessed to killing her two “mouthy” teenagers.

Ms. Schenecker, who was indicted on charges of first-degree murder on Thursday, lives in Tampa, and is married to an Army colonel. I live near San Francisco, and am married to a newspaper editor.

Relationship between G-d & man/Man being god over lower realms

Bereishis Rabbah[1](79:8): He set up an altar and he called it G‑d, the G‑d of Israel (Bereishis 33:20). … Yaakov said to G‑d, “You are G‑d in Heaven and I am god in the lower realm. Reish Lakish said that G‑d criticized him saying, “Even the supervisor of a synagogue does not take authority by himself. However you have taken power to yourself by this statement. Tomorrow your daughter will go out and be raped.” That happened as we see in Bereishis (34:1).

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[1]  בראשית רבה (עט:ח): ויצב שם מזבח ויקרא לו אל [בראשית לג:כ] אר"ל ויקרא לו אל אלהי ישראל אמר אתה אלוה בעליונים ואני אלוה בתחתונים ר' הונא בשם ריש לקיש אמר אפילו חזן הכנסת אינו נוטל שררה לעצמו ואתה היית נוטל שררה לעצמך מחר בתך יוצאה ומתענה הה"ד ותצא דינה בת לאה:

Army conversions - attempts to resolving dispute

 
YNET  

הפשרה החרדית: נכיר במתגיירים - אם לא יתחתנו

ניסיונות פשרה ערב הפגנת ההמונים נגד ההכרה בגיור: מן הצד הספרדי - דרישה לבדיקה מדוקדקת של פסיקת הרב עובדיה. מן הצד האשכנזי - דרישה להכרה בגיור "לחומרא". המשמעות: הגרים ייאלצו להתגרש בבתי הדין הרבניים, אך לא יוכלו להינשא

Rav Sternbuch: Giving it All

Rebtzn Ruth Blau:No stranger to controversy

Jerusalem Post


 The son of Ruth Blau, one of the most colorful figures in Natorei Karta, breaks his silence after her death --

For some 40 years, Uriel Ben-David has lived in the shadow of notoriety while carefully guarding his privacy and that of his family, and stubbornly resisting all attempts by the media to interview him. Only after the death of his 80-year-old mother in January did Ben-David agree to lift the veil of silence.

His mother was Ruth Blau who became infamous worldwide in the early 1960s for her role in what become known as the "Yossele Affair." The story of Yossele Schuchmacher revolved around the kidnapping of the young son of Russian immigrants at the behest of his haredi grandfather, Nahman Shtarkes, who feared the boy's Communist-influenced parents would not provide the child with an adequate Jewish environment and education. It was Blau, at the behest of Shtarke's friend Rabbi Maisels, who spirited the six-year-old boy out of the country, dressed up as a little girl and traveling as her daughter on a false passport.

Rav Eliashiv & Rav Yosef unite against girls seminary alleged to be cult

YNET
 
סערה חרדית: בכירי הרבנים נגד "מיני גואל רצון"

שילוב כוחות של הרבנים יוסף שלום אלישיב ועובדיה יוסף נחשב בציבור החרדי לדבר נדיר ביותר, ואתמול (ג') הוא קרה במסגרת מאבק משותף נגד מנהל מדרשה תורנית לבנות בירושלים, שלטענתם "תמהוני" המזכיר להם "כתות מסוכנות".

 במודעות ענק שהופצו ברחבי העיר מאשימים מנהיגי הציבור החרדי את הרב אהרון רמתי ממדרשת "באר מרים" בכך שהוא נוקט שיטות חינוכיות פסולות המנתקות את התלמידות ממשפחותיהן, גר עמן באותו בית ומטיף להן שלא להתחתן – הכל ב"אצטלה מזויפת של קדושה"

Rabbi Elyashiv: Protest IDF conversions

YNet

Leader of the Lithuanian ultra-Orthodox faction Rabbi Yosef Shalom Elyashiv has called on the public to take part in a mass protest to be staged following Rabbi Ovadia Yosef's ruling legitimizing Israel Defense Forces conversions. Sources close to Elyashiv confirmed the report.

Shortly after Shas' spiritual leader ruled that army conversions were valid, those opposed to the decision announced they will hold a mass rally against the ruling. It has since been postponed several times. It is currently scheduled for next Wednesday. [...]

Rav Eliashiv calls for demonstrations against the army conversions הרב אלישיב: לצאת להפגין נגד גיורי צה"ל

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הרב אלישיב: לצאת להפגין נגד גיורי צה"ל

"פוסק הדור" של הזרם החרדי-ליטאי חתם על "קול קורא" להשתתף בהפגנה נגד הכשרת הגיורים הצה"ליים בידי הרב עובדיה יוסף. משתתפי העצרת המתוכננת יערכו "קריעה" בבגדם, כפי שנהוג בדיני אבלות

המאבק החרדי נגד גיורי צה"ל מתחדש, וגם עולה מדרגה: "פוסק הדור" הליטאי, הרב יוסף שלום אלישיב, קורא לציבור להשתתף בהפגנת ענק הנערכת בעקבות פסיקת הרב עובדיה יוסף לפיה הגיורים שנערכו בצה"ל - כשרים. בבית הרב אלישיב אישרו את הדברים, שפורסמו לראשונה הערב (יום ג') בקו החדשות הטלפוני (נייעס) "הקול החרדי". 

 

Abuse: Reducing chemical straitjackets in nursing homes

NYTimes

The Two Harbors home happened to be where Ecumen, which operates 16 nonprofit Minnesota nursing homes, was preparing an experiment to see if behavioral rather than pharmacological approaches could help wean residents off antipsychotic medications. They called it the Awakenings program.

“What’s people’s biggest fear? Being a ‘zombie’ in a nursing home,” said Laurel Baxter, the Awakenings project manager.

Any visitor can see what she means. Even in quality nursing homes, some residents sit impassively in wheelchairs or nod off in front of televisions, apparently unable to interact with others or to summon much interest in their lives. Nursing home reformers and regulators have long believed that this disengagement results in part from the overuse of psychotropic medication to quell the troublesome behaviors that can accompany dementia — yelling, wandering, aggression, resisting care. For nearly 25 years, federal law has required that psychotropic drugs (which critics call “chemical restraints”) be used only when necessary to ensure the safety of a resident or those around her. [...]

A Fight to Win the Future: Computers vs. Humans

NYTimes

At the dawn of the modern computer era, two Pentagon-financed laboratories bracketed Stanford University. At one laboratory, a small group of scientists and engineers worked to replace the human mind, while at the other, a similar group worked to augment it.

In 1963 the mathematician-turned-computer scientist John McCarthy started the Stanford Artificial Intelligence Laboratory. The researchers believed that it would take only a decade to create a thinking machine.

Also that year the computer scientist Douglas Engelbart formed what would become the Augmentation Research Center to pursue a radically different goal — designing a computing system that would instead “bootstrap” the human intelligence of small groups of scientists and engineers. [...]

Rav Amsalem acknowledges Army converts don't accept mitzva observance - but says they are Jewish anyway

YNET

  

גרים - גם אם לא מקיימים מצוות

הליטאים ממשיכים לתקוף את פסק ההלכה של הרב עובדיה יוסף, שהכשיר את גיורי צה"ל, בטענה שהגרים לא מקבלים על עצמם עול מצוות. הגיע הזמן להרמת מסך: נכון, הם לא מתכוונים להיות דתיים, אבל גיורם תקף - אפילו מלכתחילה

Abuse: Psychotherapist seduction of clients - Yes frum therapists do it also!

It is necessary to be aware of one of the clear and established dangers of psychotherapy. That is the therapeutic relationship makes it relatively easy for a therapist to seduce his/her client. Therapist and client  spend much secluded time together discussing very personal matters and often this involves intense emotion.

Even frum therapists - including rabbis - have seduced their clients. While it is clearly against the law - but this applies primarily to licensed therapists. Seduction by unlicensed therapists apparently is viewed as two consenting adults . While for licensed therapists it is acknowledged that the therapist has a position of authority and  thus sexual relationship with a client is viewed as an abuse of that authority. There is also a halachic problem. A married woman who has sexual relationship with a therapist is committing adultery and her husband needs to divorce her. When a frum married woman is seduced by her therapist - if she files a complaint her husband will most likely believe her and thus must divorce her.  The case if the husband doesn't know or doesn't believe his wife must be handled by a major posek. Because of this halachic problem - as well as the disgrace to the family - seduction often goes unreported in the frum community.

A woman (or man) who has been seduced by their therapist or rabbi needs to speak to a competent Rav who has the ability to organize community resources - including the police - to stop the therapist
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This page of Dr. Ken Pope provides some information. Aside from the terrible sin - there is the likelihood of serious psychological damage.

1. When people are hurting, unhappy, frightened, or confused, they may seek help from a therapist. They may be depressed, perhaps thinking of killing themselves. They may be unhappy in their work or relationships, and not know how to bring about change. They may be suffering trauma from rape, incest, or domestic violence. They may be bingeing and purging, abusing drugs and alcohol, or engaging in other behaviors that can destroy health and sometimes be fatal.
2. The therapeutic relationship is a special one, characterized by exceptional vulnerability and trust. People may talk to their therapists about thoughts, feelings, events, and behaviors that they would never disclose to anyone else. Every state in the United States has recognized the special nature of the therapeutic relationship and the special responsibilities that therapists have in relation to their clients by requiring special training and licensure for therapists, and by recognizing a therapist-patient privilege which safeguards the privacy of what patients talk about to their therapist.
3. A relatively small minority of therapists take advantage of the client's trust and vulnerability and of the power inherent in the therapist's role by sexually exploiting the client. Each state has prohibited this abuse of trust, vulnerability, and power through licensing regulations. Therapist-patient sex is also subject to civil law as a tort (i.e., offenders may be sued for malpractice), and some states have criminalized the offense. The ethics codes of all major mental health professionals prohibit the offense.

Parkinson drug causes compulsive behavior such as gambling

Time

 A drug fact-sheet put together by the American Society of Health-System Pharmacists says that before taking ropinirole:

    ...you should know that some people who took medications such as ropinirole developed gambling problems or other intense urges or behaviors that were compulsive or unusual for them, such as increased sexual urges or behaviors. There is not enough information to tell whether the people developed these problems because they took the medication or for other reasons. Call your doctor if you have an urge to gamble that is difficult to control, you have intense urges, or you are unable to control your behavior.

Battle over televised kiruv המאבק הבא: הרב אמנון יצחק גם נגד 'הידברות

BHOL

מזה חודשים ארוכים, מתנהל מאבק שקט בבתי הרבנים והעסקנים נגד ערוץ הטלוויזיה 'הידברות'.

אולם, עוד בטרם יצא המאבק לדרכו באופן רשמי, ביום ג' האחרון, נשא הרב אמנון יצחק דברים חריפים בגנות הערוץ – והעלה את המאבק לכותרות 'בדלת האחורית'.

מה הבעיה בערוץ 'הידברות'?

ובכן, המתנגדים טוענים בתוקף, כי 'פעילות התשובה' עליה מספרים מנהלי הערוץ, היא רק תירוץ לבקשת תרומות ולהחתמת גדולי ישראל.

לדברי המתנגדים, ראשי הערוץ מסתירים מגדולי ישראל, שחתמו לטובת פעילות 'הידברות', את המידע החשוב לפיו מדובר בערוץ טלוויזיה לכל דבר, שניתן לצפות בו דרך הכבלים. בפני גדולי ישראל, מוצג 'הידברות' כ'ארגון תשובה' במסגרתו מועברות הרצאות - ולא כערוץ טלוויזיה.

"אם גדולי ישראל היו יודעים שמדובר בערוץ טלויזיה, לא רק שלא היו תומכים בו – אלא היו יוצאים נגדו חוצץ", טוענים עסקנים עמם שוחחנו.