The
General Idea of Shalom Bayis Beth Din
Shalom Bayis Beth Din is a program of education, guidance
and Beth Din. Education means that preferably prior to marriage and even
afterwards, Shalom Bayis Beth Din will teach people how to maintain a good
marriage and avoid mistakes that destroy marriage.
Guidance means that when people are bogged down in disputes
Shalom Bayis Beth Din will guide them on the proper path to find peace in their
homes.
Beth Din means that when a couple accepts Shalom Bayis Beth
Din as an authority on their marriage, Shalom Bayis Beth Din can demand that
the family follows the right path in marriage and family. If the couple agrees,
Shalom Bayis Beth Din can make demands about how the couple must behave, and
Shalom Bayis Beth Din can fine those who violate their commands. Eventually, if
a person violates regularly and is fined regularly, the fines will probably
force an end to the process, which means that the violator will have to seek a
divorce. This will lessen the process of making Agunose of broken families.
Gedolei HaDor have explained that there is no problem with
coercing a GET because Shalom Bayis Beth Din never talks about a GET. It fines
to force the marriage to survive. This is not a forced GET.
Learning
Even Hoezer Rambam, Tur and Shulchan Aruch
Our project of learning Even Hoezer begins with Rambam
Noshim, then Tur Even Hoezer, then Shulchan Aruch Even Hoezer. Learn through
without getting distracted until you are grounded well in the basic laws. The
more you learn the more you will be aware of the various commentaries on the basic
texts of Rambam, Tur and Shulchan Aruch. Next comes the deeper level of looking
into the sources for these basic halochose in gemoras, rishonim and acharonim,
each according to his ability and schedule. For those who are fully committed
to become a master of these halochose and who will try for semicha, they will
have a full schedule. This Wednesday August 15 9:30 PM we begin a shiur for
advanced study of the texts. We begin with the first words of the Shulchan
Aruch Even Hoezer about the importance of marrying and having children. We will
also delve into the Torah understanding of gender and the roles of men and
women. We have extensive Kabbalistic material in this regard. I also have a
book on the subject sold at Amazon Secret of the Scale. All are invited to this
telephone class but it is a high level of learning. To join the
freeconferencecall.com program dial first 605-562-3130 and then code 822322#.
Funding
Jewish Outreach Congregation accepts funds for this project.
We have various blogspots and a website: torahhalacha.blogspot.com, our main
project; torahmarriage.com.blogspot.com, videos; www.torahtimes.com, website with audio
cassettes and regular text. Our book on gender is Secret of the Scale available
at Amazon. We now need to establish more media and public programs to offset
the enormous problem of invalid Gittin caused by forced divorces, such as in
New York State where judges can jail a husband and take away custody for not
giving a GET. Such a GET is invalid and the children born from it could be
mamzerim. We have a lot of work to do, and need funding.
Please go to our main blogspot at
torahhalacha.blogspot.com and click on the paypal button that will allow you to
contribute to our Jewish Outreach Congregation and support this work.
Thank you.
Dovid Eidensohn
Thank you Rabbi David Eidensohn for your efforts to save Jewish families. An organized program in the Orthodox communities to promote preservation of Jewish marriages is long overdue. Such programs are necessary antidotes to the widespread embrace in the Orthodox communities of a corrupt, anti-Torah, feminist divorce on demand culture.
ReplyDeleteIn the feminist Jewish media such as the Jewish Press, this divorce on demand culture continually masquerades as a "save the agunot" movement, when in reality it is a destroy the Jewish family and discard Jewish fathers movement.
TruthSeekerJew,
ReplyDeleteIf you seek truth, in our present community, good luck. This is not such a problem. But when we realize that many women remarry with an invalid GET, such as those who force Gittin in New York State, a law that was passed by Orthodox rabbis, with no real opposition, what else can we say? When I saw that "rabbis" openly tell the Trenton court that the kidnappers and torturers did this by the command of the Torah, I countered with a program of learning Even Hoezer. At least some people will stay away from marrying mamzerim. The rest of them,,,