We the undersigned hereby irrevocably and unconditionally submit
to Arbitration all the controversies including claims and counterclaims
between the undersigned parties including but not limited to the
following:
Dissolution of their marriage Divorce , Get, custody, visitation,
division of assets alimony, monetary issues ,property settlement, debts,
maintenance, education of children, child support any and all other
issues The Husband agrees to give a Get and the wife agrees to accept a
Get if so requested by the Rabbinical Court
1. The arbitration shall be heard and determined by the rabbinical court of Rabbi Shlomo Zalman Kaufman
2. It is agreed that 50 % of the arbitration fees and or /expenses shall be paid by each party to the controversy.
3. The Arbitration shall make their award based on Din Torah, compromise, settlement what is just and proper or any other way they wish to reach a decision .The Arbitration shall take place pursuant to any procedure the members of the Arbitration panel may decide.
4.No transcripts of the proceedings need be made unless the
arbitrator …parties to request to hires a stenographer or minute taker
whose cost be paid by the parties
5. Hearings may be held on Sundays and other legal holidays. the
award or decision/s shall be in writing and shall be signed by the
majority of the arbitrating panel and need not be acknowledged or
notarized to be confirmed or enforced.
6. In the event that one arbitrator resigns or refuses to continue
or is incapacitated and cannot continue refuses to for any reason the
remaining two Arbitrators may elect to continue the proceedings and have
the same powers and authority.
7.The parties herby hold harmless and release the members of the arbitration of liability for any act or omission whatsoever
in connection with this arbitration or otherwise or the imposition upon
the members of the arbitration panel of any or expense for any reason
the parties herby release the members of the arbitration panel from any
such obligation or with respect to any third person and shall severally
defend and indemnify the Rabbinical court of Rabbi Kaufman against any
claim made against Rabbi Kaufman's Rabbinical court by any person
arising thereof and to fund or pay any such fee cost or expense in a
timely fashion.
8. Each party has the right to be represented by an attorney and
/or rabbinical counsel (to’en) in the arbitration at any time, but any
part may elect to proceed without an attorney or to’en and argue for
themselves before the arbitration Panel and by doing so they waive any
claims whatsoever base on that election.
9. The members of the Arbitration panel shall make all reasonable
efforts to accommodate the parties and counsel with regard to scheduling
but their decision regarding the times, dates and location shall be
final.
10. The parties waive the right to any specific form of notice of
the time and place of the arbitration proceedings and notice for any
purpose shall be given in the manner most reasonable and practical under
the circumstances’.
11. The Arbitrators exclusive jurisdiction over the Arbitration shall and does continue until after their final decision or award is issued and all issues have been resolved and complied with to the understanding and complete satisfaction of the Arbitration Panel.
12. The Arbitration panel need not disclose to the parties or to anyone else the halachic
legal, factual or other basis for their award and the parties herby
waive any right to seek, demand or compel disclosure thereof as they
otherwise may have.
13. The Parties shall abide by and perform any interim or final
award rendered by the members of the members of the arbitration which
shall be enforceable in any court of competent jurisdiction ,except and
not withstanding anything herein to the contrary as provided in the
agreement which language will prevail.
14. The parties agreed that the arbitrators shall have the right to
hear testimony and evidence without the presence of the party if the
party doesn’t attend a scheduled hearing.
15. The Parties waive personal service of process in connection
with confirmation or enforcement proceedings .Service shall be
sufficient if mailed via regular or via certified mail return receipt
requested to the parties at their last known address.
16. The Arbitrators shall not be required to take oath or administer on oath for any witness or party at the hearing.
17. The members of the panel may not be appealed or
otherwise submitted for review other than for purposes of enforcement
in any tribunal court of other forum, whether religious or civil
,whatsoever. The foregoing constitutes a complete waiver of any legal or halachic right of the parties may otherwise have to proceed in any other such forum regarding adjudication of the disputes.
18 .The parties have agreed that the decisions of the panel are final, binding and not appealable, provided,
If in violation of any agreement Party initiates a proceeding in a
Bais din tribunal or court whatsoever whether religious or civil
purporting to open ,invalidate ,modify or nullify the award in any
ground whatsoever including but not limited to due to acclaim of the
discovery of new evidence or a procedural or other flaw error or
irregularity the party shall pay all legal costs as well as full arbitrators for any expenses incurred by any other party as well as the legal expenses of the arbitrators plus their full Arbitrator fees and expenses regardless the outcome of such proceedings The parties agree that Arbitrators shall have sole jurisdiction on all matters to the extent permitted .
19. Each arbitrator and counsel for Rabbi Kaufman shall have the
same common law immunity as a judge has from suits for damages or
equitable relief and from compulsory process to testify or produce
evidence based on or concerning any action, statement or communication
in or concerning his service pursuant to this Arbitration Contract as
well as privileges and immunities provided under state law.
20. If notwithstanding the foregoing any party brings an action against
any Arbitrator or Rabbi Kaufman's counselor any Rabbinic adviser or
naming the same as a party is in violation of that immunity regardless
of the theory of recovery under which action may be brought such party
shall be liable for and shall indemnify such arbitrator Rabbi Kaufman’s adviser for any liabilities costs and expenses including Attorneys and lost professional time that may be incurred in resisting that effort or as a result of that action.
21.No party may depose call as a witness seek testimony or subpoena
any arbitrator or rabbinical adviser or their respective counsel or
Rabbi Kaufman’s counsel in any legal or Judaic administrative proceeding
of any kind including but not limited to the arbitration for any reason
whatsoever nor may any party seek to obtain through any method
whatsoever including without limitation to produce any…..or documents
related to the arbitration or rabbinical advisers services If any party
attempts to compel such testimony or production such party shall be
liable for and shall indemnify persons for any liabilities costs and
expenses including attorneys fees and lost professional time The
forgoing provisions are intended and agreed to be for the sole benefit
the respective arbitrators and rabbinical advisers and their respective
counsel for employment in their discretion and no party is entitled to
rely on them for any purpose or is intended to be a third party
beneficiary of them.
22 .no party shall by signing the contract of arbitration have
waived or restricted impaired or amended any right or privilege set
forth in any other contract or the agreement to which such party
including the arbitration panel and counsel for Rabbi Kaufman be
otherwise entitled under halacha or at law ……except with regard with
adjudication of the disputes besides the arbitration named heroin and
their respective counsel and as specified Rabbi Kaufman’s counsel as
well as the rabbinic advisers and their respective counsel there are no
intended beneficiary thereof nor may any others besides the arbitrators
named heroin Rabbi Kaufman’s counsel or the rabbinical advisers and
their respective counsel seek to endorse the terms of this contract of
arbitration for their behalf and no other person not a signatory to this
Contract of arbitration is intended to be nor shall any person be
deemed to be a third party beneficiary hereto or hereof
23. The Arbitrators shall have full and final jurisdiction with respect to any questions regarding the interpretation
of this contract of arbitration and their rulings .Notwithstanding the
forgoing if any terms or provisions of this contract of arbitration
should be held by a court of competent jurisdiction to contrary ….under
the law of any particular jurisdiction such ruling shall not affect the
validity thereof in any other jurisdiction nor shall such determination
affect or impair the other terms or provisions thereof .
24. The parties submit themselves to the personal
jurisdiction of the courts of the state of New York or New Jersey or any
other competent court of jurisdiction for any action or proceeding to
confirm or enforce a DECREE of the Arbitrators.
25.The parties bind themselves from this very moment and onwards to all the terms and provisions of the paragraphs set forth above and full complete content of this contract of arbitration with
total awareness under the doctrines’ of Bais din chasuv Ofen Hamoiel lo
kiasmacta Udloi k tufsa Dishtara Hakol shorer vikayom .
26. No condition or provisions of the Contract of Arbitration Shall be Invalid under the doctrine of Tnai Kaful or any other Halachic ground all of which are hereby waived.
27. Contract shall be valid and binding if signed in counterparts.
28. The parties acknowledge that they understand and comprehend all
terminology used heroin or have been given a full opportunity to seek
independent explanation thereof as well as to obtain review of any
provision or term hereof by independent counsel rabbinic guide or other
qualified person
We understand and agree to all the above.
Dated ______ Signature_________ Signature____________
Dated_______ Signature __________Signature______________
Paragraph 8 is problematic under NYS (and prob most state) law.
ReplyDeleteMost of the contract is written to protect the bet din. Don't blame them.
No discussion of discovery or waiver of attorney client privilege, or subpoena other witnesses. No requirement to attempt slalom bayit / marriage counseling, at request of either party.
Who uses Rav Shlomo Zalman Kaufman's beis din, for what purpose and why is anyone forced to use his B"D as opposed to choosing another?
ReplyDeleteNonsense! You can't waive the right to an attorney--meaning that you can change your mind at any point in the proceeding and bring along an attorney for the remainder of the proceeding. But if you go forward without an attorney, you are deemed to have waived the right to counsel.
ReplyDeleteThe problem is that this is not real Arbitration, for instance Say Impartiality Concept, Duty to Disclose Interests and Relationships: The
ReplyDeleteRevised Code subjects all arbitrators, whether serving as neutral
arbitrators or non-neutral arbitrators, to the same obligation to
disclose interests or relationships likely to affect impartiality or
which might create an appearance of partiality.
Yet Rabbi Kaufman Court has involved it self recently in the case of Abraham and His Sefer Against the new Targum In the matter of Oz Vi HAdar Publishing, even though the owner of Oz Hadar Rabbi Leifer Is also the Director of the assorted Monsey Mikvaos and He Rabbi Leifer just Appointed Rabbi Kaufman to be on the BOARD of the Mikvas one year ago !
Yet Rabbi Kaufman's Bais din Issued a eekool against rabbi Abraham's new book about OzVihadar !
Hows that for Impartiality? They should recuse themselves !
So its definitely not Arbitration!
Arbitration Etiics;Throughout all stages of the proceeding, arbitrators and mediators should
ReplyDeleteconduct themselves in a manner that is fair to all parties and should
not be swayed or influenced by outside pressure, by fear of criticism,
or by self-interest.
26. 'No condition or provisions of the Contract of Arbitration Shall be Invalid under the doctrine of Tnai Kaful or any other Halachic ground all of which are hereby waived.'
ReplyDeleteSo if we agree to: Not follow the Halacha Why are we in Bais Din?
Eexactly my point. (Perhaps not clear enough.)
ReplyDeleteNote, there's one (somewhat) prominent bet din that officially allows attorneys (never toanim) but will hold it against a party that comes with as n attorney. The problem is that no one does anything about it.
owner of Oz Hadar Rabbi Leifer [ ]
ReplyDeleteRabbi Leifer just Appointed Rabbi Kaufman to be on the BOARD of the Mikvas one year ago !
Yet Rabbi Kaufman's Bais din Issued a eekool against rabbi Abraham's new book about OzVihadar !
Very valid point. Kaufman is known as a big joke. He also worked well with Mendel Epstein!
article 25..The parties bind themselves from this very moment and onwards to all the terms and provisions of the paragraphs set forth above and full complete content of this contract of arbitration with
ReplyDeletetotal awareness under the doctrines’ of Bais din Chushuv .......etc
I know of a sweet Couple Husband is a magid Shiur Mesifta level ,11 kids Marriage fell on some hard times ,wife came uner influence of Freind decided to leave .. but was still considering to maybe go back her family and husband is devastated, The ususpecting husband agreed to talk i over by a bais din ,Thinking that of course they will order counseling/Shalom so he signed The Arbitration document with out reading it , after all we are talking about this 'prominent Bais din' sponsored by an old well known community in monsey !
After a few people told him that he went to the wrong place he realized it was a mistake, primarily because There will never be a serous atemt for Shalom he must get out , Its Too Late! ,He already signed!! and there is NO Recourse!
He was advised not to antagonise the "COURT" and just to proceed because his life is now controlled by that bais din . ALL negotiations! Shalom???Get Alimony custody ,child support, education of yeshivas /schools ,all matters controled now by a uncaring arbitration bais din. So he must now be smart and fully cooperate to get himself anf family a better "deal"
Like he fell into a deep Boir Pit and cannot be rescued!! Hashem Yirachem.
The Followeing is a partial List of problems with this Document:
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3. The Arbitration shall make their award based on Din Torah, compromise, settlement what is just and proper or any other way they wish to reach a decision .
Any other way? What does that mean I thought Bais Din only uses Halacha as basis for their Psak?? Is there "another 'way ? ??
Does this mean the Arbitrators don't need have have a halachic basis for the psak?
Does this mean that the Dayan doesn't even have to bother to figure out the details of the case and yet can still issue a"Psak"??? according to 'another way'??
And you are obligated to follow and it is enforceable !!!
If So why go to a bais din at all? You may just as well ask your Postman and your Grocery-man together with (why not! no Halacha ) even the lady across the street !!
Who knows they may really delve into the subject matter and come out with a Honest and fair resolution!!
This Document is fundamentally Mufrach Minai Ubey!!
you can always nix an arbitration or any concession you make when it was signed under pressure. and you can always argue that the threat to withhold a get is pressure.
ReplyDeletetherefore, I suppose you can never override us law with a beith din, except if both parties volontarily stick to the agreement. but there is no such thing as legal security in anything but a regular court ruling...
How about flipping a coin?
ReplyDeleteHeads, finds for the plaintiff. Tails, finds for the defendant.
Most Batei Din conduct their proceedings in a manner that is consistent with the requirements of secular arbitration law, so that the rulings of the Beth Din are legally binding and enforceable in the secular court system.
ReplyDeleteIn this arbitration document the Balai Din are being told to agree to follow the decision of the Bais Din/Arbitration panel Even if it goes AGAINST the Halacha !
ReplyDeleteSee Paragraph #26.:' No condition or provisions of the Contract of Arbitration Shall be Invalid under the doctrine of Tnai Kaful or ANY other Halachic ground all of which are hereby Waived.'
Also See paragraph #3
3. 'The Arbitration shall make their award based on Din Torah, compromise, settlement what is just and proper or any other way they wish to reach a decision '... ANY OTHER WAY???? What way?
Yet The panel themselves demand that All the balai din follow halacha with regard to Hazmanah and Siruv etc. as if it were a true Halacha Bais din !
The Excuse for issuing aSiruv against Rav Yoel Abraham even though he gave notice in writing three times to the Panel that he is ready to attend a din torah if they only will issue a date ,
Was that initially when he signed a simple borirous paper stating that he agrees to go to reb Chaim Flohrs Bais din only on the condition that the psak will agree to follow common accepted halacha of Misores ashkenaz .
Therefore the'PANEL' decided that he is a Mesarev because he is making conditions for the bais din to follow the halacha and even though he is requesting in writing atime and date he will never be heard WHY ?because he is not agreeing to follow bais din so he is a Misarev!
BUT THIS BAIS DIN ITSELF Announces IT doesn't follow the halacha in its psak ??? see above!
so How can they issue a siruv for not folowing Halacha !!
I thought a Siruv is for Not following Halacha !!
Or maybe it was issued to protect Oz Vihadar's Rabbi Leifer from Losses due to this young mans Revelations ...Ahem.
And Rav Kaufman's appointment to the Board of Monsey mikvas a few months ago had nothing to do with this Siruv!!!!!
Just a coincidence, don't look there .... keep on looking straight ahead nothing to see ... .......Darkness is enveloping us all .
Why no mention of Shalom Bayis ? What about counseling?
ReplyDeleteAnd why do the couple have to agree to litigate ALL future matters by this panel? ......What right does this "BAIS DIN" have to demand that one signs such a terrible binding document !!
And how can they ever summon a person to a din torah if this is what they are required to agree to !!
Why no disclosure of psak ? we are talking about questions of momzerous what is this "bais din" hiding . ???
Where are the teshuvois ??!!?? I mean the published shalois vitshuvois by Rabbi Kaufman ? and this bais din
Where did we see this Hanhagah in world torah history?
Is there a precedent to this hanhaga of silence about the psak ?
Or maybe the opposite a psak halocha is a public matter and especially if it concerns even hoezer and all future offspring
They are the Monsey power
ReplyDeleteWow ! That is really STRANGE!?
ReplyDeleteEveryone in monsey thinks that kollel zichron menachem is sponsoring this bais hoarah ! But it seems that it is owned by Rabbi Kaufman!
when I make a Google search at that address I got the same !
So who is the final say ?
Rabbi flohr needs to be asked about this!
Why is it located on Maple Terrace ? and is rent being paid?to whom?
May be a Sheilah in hilchos mezuzah !!
Private rental versus public or shutfis/partnership!!
About this particular case I heard from an informed source that the story was totally different
ReplyDeleteThe Resh Mesifta decided to use Rabbi Kaufman ONLY because Rabbi Kaufman promised him he will give him special ENORMOUS amounts of time for possible reconciliation!!!
But This Is even more corrupt !! How can a Bais din promise special consideration to one side BEFORE!! the din torah???????
I heard this from a practicing Dayan and a trusted source.
I think it time The Monsey people woke up and Investigates this called 'Bais DIN'!!!
The Lubavitcher Rebbe and Rav Kahana: http://youtu.be/FUO-9Sl2Rfo
ReplyDeleteOnly a fool would sign such an agreement. In fact signing an agreement like this should automatically disqualify the person of having the right to represent themselves anywhere.
ReplyDeleteThe main problem is that for someone to sign such a BIASED agreement they have a FEW lawyers present!
ReplyDeleteShame on the bais Din for presenting such a Shameless document to innocent people already in troubled marriages ,
There does not exist a Gehennom that will cleanse such outrageousness !!!
The whole idea is KRUM Shb'KRUM and GOES AGAINST the whole torah!
All thesewaivers actually spell out clearly that this BD intends to issue a RoyalSHam Psak and get away with it
ReplyDeleteThe entire Monsey community knows that you _______.
ReplyDeletePeople that were close to you and your family will be harassing you, will be threatening you.
Child Protective Services has been called in.
If you don't do as I say, you will lose this wife forever and I strongly suspect that you will lose your kids.
You will not be able to show your faces in town or worse.
Your business will dry up.
Your parents and siblings will hear and soon be shamed.
The entire Monsey community knows that you _______.
ReplyDeletePeople that were close to you and your family will be harassing you, will be threatening you.
Child Protective Services has been called in.
If you don't do as I say, you will lose this wife forever and I strongly suspect that you will lose your kids.
You will not be able to show your faces in town or worse.
Your business will dry up.
Your parents and siblings will hear and soon be shamed.
see this out of Lakewoodhttp://yudelstake.blogspot.com/2015/05/once-youre-client-youll-remain-client.html
ReplyDeletethis; http://yudelstake.blogspot.com/2015/05/once-youre-client-youll-remain-client.html
ReplyDeleteThere is a old tale of a corrupt rabbi who would administer din torahs in the past , he would be wearing tall boots and it was whispered that when he held court the litigants would stuff coins and money in his boots and he would then rule according to whichever boot seemed heaver !
ReplyDeleteWell, one day during his proceeding he felt that one of the boots on his right felt quite heavy , So he quickly resolved the case of course favoring the man on his right side.
Well, when he got home he took off his right boot poured out the contents and lo and behold it was just some smooth stones !
He muttered to himself "Ach these days its such a Falsher Velt"!
This is today !!
Parental Alienation by Dr. Craig Childress
ReplyDeletefind him on YouTube /www.calsouthern.edu/psychology
Due to the tremendous outcry regarding the goings on in Kaufmans Beis din a number of victims are preparing to pursue a class action against the beis din. Please forward your information to classactionkaufmanbeisdin@gmail.com
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ReplyDelete'
ReplyDeleteHow many Victims are needed for a class-action?
I dont think there is a shortage !
Do the rabbonim encourage this?
Is there a cost? I'll bet it will be Far cheaper then one of Kaufman's Din Torah's which by the way with both sides combined at $5000. per day adds up quickly to North of $60,000! (no overhead)I know of 2 cases one spent 62k the other 81k for a LOPSIDED psak.
Buyers BEWARE!!
ReplyDeleteI spoke to an established Well known Universally esteemed Dayan in New York about this' Kaufman Arbitration agreement' He said :This agreement is the Positively worst Berorin/arbitration agreement in the Whole of USA!!!
Koufmans arbitration/berorin:
ReplyDeleteThe most important point not even mentioned yet by any poster is the conceivable possibility of the Gitten produced through the kaufman bais din be tainted with a real possibility of being get kifeyah forced ,
Because as can be seen by this Arbitration agreement and kaufmans underhanded tactics and trickery to the litigants ,it is likely ,highly likely that most husbands may feel overwhelmed by these unusual tactics and only figuring this out after they are haplessly stuck ,committed to his arbitration and totally non apealable situation and also suddenly coming to the realization that they are "cooked" by virtue of their innocent naive shtar brorin signature .and then thinking about the immense power in the hands of an unfriendly (to men) court they just give in even if against their own better judgement and acquiesce to the get, which in such case may be halachacly considered forced .Get.
A Get given under fear of long term repercussions from this 'KaufmanArbitration Panel'
ReplyDeleteWhether regarding financial settlements or visitation and custody rulings by an unfriendly very expensive panel is itself a forced situation and leads to some thorny questions ??
There never was a bais din with so much raw power that rabbi Kaufman's arbitration panel have created for themselves.
They have far more power then the judge in secular court , because in the secular court the judges ruling can be appealed and if found to be crooked or unfair or faulty it will be struck down by the appeals court.,but not so any ruling by the Kaufman Bais Din ,there is no appeals or recourse ever!
They dont have to answer to any one ever! ,
They can make monetary rulings with zero explanation ,that s what you signed , if they can pasken against the shulchan aruch so How are they different then an arkous court?
Monetary force and future custody,child support force etc.and regular crookedness,or old dayanim sleeping during the din Torah force is all the same ,a type of forced get.
If the man cannot fight for himself now realizing that he signed such a powerful document and he will suffer damages major ones in the future if he gets them upset and vengeful so he feels now stuck then that is a forced get.!
ולענין הלכה כתב בשו"ע אם אנסוהו ישראל שלא כדין פסול,
ובבית שמואל כתב
לפרש וז"ל: משמע לכאורה דפסול מדרבנן, וליתא אלא אפילו
מדאורייתא פסול כמו שכתבו ברש"י והר"ן ובטור וכן משמע בסעיף ז', בסעיף ז' כתב המחבר אנסוהו ישראל
לגרש שלא כדין ואמר רוצה אני, וגם ביטל המודעא או לא מסרה [ר"ל המודעא]
פסול, ואעפ"כ פסלה מן הכהונה עכ"ל המחבר, ומדכתב לרבותא שפסלה מן הכהונה
שמע מינה דמן הדין הגט בטל מדאורייתא, ורק משום ריח הגט [שהוא חומרא בעלמא]
פסלה מן הכהונה, וכ"כ להלכה הט"ז בסק"ט ובערוה"ש סעיף ג'.
Wow... what a great post! Thanks for the info, super helpful. I just filled out MO DWC WC-G-11 with an online software. It looked much better typed than hand-written. I used Compromise Settlement and it's very easy to use.
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