Insulation Is Not Education

 https://mishpacha.com/insulation-is-not-education/

Exposure to diversity within Torah-true life is not a threat; it is a gift

Insulation is largely fool’s gold, because you won’t be able to insulate your child forever — and it comes with a hefty price. Because beneath the surface of that determination lies something else — something quieter, and far less noble: fear. Fear that if your daughter sits next to someone whose father davens without a hat, she will abandon everything she was taught. Fear that if your son is in a class with boys whose families daven a different nusach, he’ll lose his identity. Fear that anything outside your type of Yiddishkeit is a threatening force that must be sealed off completely.

Because when a child grows up in a bubble so hermetically sealed that even minor differences are treated as contamination, we aren’t raising stable, confident bnei Torah — we’re raising spiritual porcelain. Children who either panic when encountering a different nusach or a slightly different minhag, or are disillusioned when they realize that “hey, that kid across the street is not that bad!”