Sunday, March 6, 2011

Story of a victim:"The Man Who Molested Me"


NYTimes

Who might know a pedophile better than the child on whom he (it’s usually a he) has lavished his attention, sometimes for years? Who has studied him as intimately, allowing him his humanity as most of us refuse to do?

Child molesters, reviled even within prison caste systems, receive little sympathy from the adult world — so little it’s hard for most of us to imagine how long-term sexual abuse can be not only facilitated but perpetuated by a victim’s loyalty to his or her abuser. Children on whom pedophiles prey, often neglected and needy, advertise hearts as well as bodies to be plundered; for the child who loves his or her abuser the sexual price exacted for what is offered as affection represents a betrayal from which not every child recovers. The lesson learned — that to be loved one must endure violation — sows a lasting tolerance, even desire, for injury and subjugation. [...]

2 comments:

  1. RDE, see
    http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/brooklyn/oh_no_uncle_joe_m4LJcP6mF92Gd74FTuwaWL

    "The 65-year-old, who spent 36 years on staff at the Flatbush Park Jewish Center Day Camp, was arrested Wednesday and pleaded not guilty yesterday."

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  2. Reading Margaux Fragoso's account of her years as a molestation victim is jarring, to say the least, but it also opens your eyes to the intricate methods used by pedophiles to ensnare and keep their victim.

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