tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post6746355749271549050..comments2024-03-28T02:08:17.990+02:00Comments on Daas Torah - Issues of Jewish Identity: Divorcing a wife of 30 years if she won't keep Shabbos?Daas Torahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.comBlogger68125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-56752163283574813962022-05-02T14:08:11.550+03:002022-05-02T14:08:11.550+03:00I've been a carpenter for the past 18 years an...I've been a carpenter for the past 18 years and playing the Lottery has always been my thing and my Wife supports me but winning big funds is always an issue. My Wife is quite good at surfing the internet and she came across an AD of DR AMBER who helps people that believes in his work. My Wife & I emailed him for help to win the Lottery and guess what!!! He did a spell prayer and gave us some digits to play the Lottery. We did as he instructed and we were notified after 10 days that we'd won $245,600,000 MILLION DOLLARS from the NY LOTTERY POWERBALL that we played. We can't really explain the feeling we had when we heard the amount we WON for we were so happy. Everything seemed like a dream for some minutes till we realized that it was REALITY" LOL". Anyways, we are here to appreciate DR AMBER and also to share to you all the wonderful experiences we had with him. To get his contact info, Visit: amberlottotemple.com or E-mail: amberlottotemple@yahoo.comNandlall Mangalnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-32228105344964290872019-09-05T01:04:54.245+03:002019-09-05T01:04:54.245+03:00Greetings to everyone reading my testimony, I know...Greetings to everyone reading my testimony, I know many of you will think that this is false believe me you are right, I had the same thought until i finally get helped. My name is catherine silas, I'm this way happy to be among DR OGBIDI's witnesses. In spite of everything, months ago my husband left me to another lady, but so lucky for me, i was online on the website when I saw a woman share her testimony of how he also helped her get her ex back, so I contacted him and shared my problems with him and he gave me the terms and conditions so, did as he said, to cut the long story short, Now I live happily with my husband. Thank you DR OGBIDI you are indeed a Godsent, you can also contact him if you still have pain or distress like me, he also launches other spells for protection, lottery exams etc. You can contact him via email: ogbidihomeofsolution1@gmail.com or whatsapp/call +2348052523829catherinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-16494045965027433832019-06-26T13:36:23.339+03:002019-06-26T13:36:23.339+03:00as i was searching for help on the internet to ge...as i was searching for help on the internet to get my ex lover whom will got divorced back, i came across this wonderful man called DR.ODOGBO of ODOGBO TEMPLE who did a nice job by helping me to get my divorced husband back within 48hours.. I never believe that such things like this can be possible but now i am a living testimony to it because ODOGBO TEMPLE actually brought my lover back, If you are having any relationship problems why not contact DR.ODOGBO TEMPLE via email on: (DRODOGBO34@GMAIL.COM ) OR WhatsApp him on +1443 281 3404 Then i promise you that after 48hours you will have reasons to celebrate like me.Reymond Morenonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-71345040029628662402015-03-23T22:56:01.409+02:002015-03-23T22:56:01.409+02:00My name is SHARON i want to thank my friend for sh...My name is SHARON i want to thank my friend for showing me the way to Berit Magical Temple where all my sorrow was turn to joy. I was in a relationship for 12 years and suddenly a mistake came into it from my side, i could not conceive any baby but i tried to beg my man telling him that every thing will be alright but he refuse to listen and he left me for another woman every day i cry for for thing to change but no change. Until my friend told me about a spell caster that help her when she was having the same problem like mine, but i did not believed in her, cause i don't also believe spell caster until i choose to accepted it. This woman told me what i need to do, so that my man will come and i will conceive a child after doing them my man came back to me to apologize the way this spell caster told me and am five months pregnant now and we are both happy now. I am using this opportunity to inform you all that this is the greatest thing that have ever happen to us. contact and trust in her cause, with her all your problems will solve, please contact the great woman through his email address: beritmagicaltemple@gmail.comBerit Magical Templenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-63348963428692855922012-11-04T23:08:22.303+02:002012-11-04T23:08:22.303+02:00Micheal,
Do you love this woman you've been ... Micheal,<br /> Do you love this woman you've been married to for 30 odd years?<br /> If you do, which it seems you respect her? why would you ask strangers on a blog if you should do something so personal and exstreme?<br /> Your personal road with G-d and mitzvos is that? She needs to see respect and love from you and she may or may not ever catch up to where you are, but you have to ask yourself- Is it worth it to cause her pain and suffering and a hatred of all things Jewish by ending a partnership and giving up on her?<br /> Many couples are strong in different ways.<br /> One of my parents wasn't Jewish yet became extremely observant after converting and the other parent who was born a Jew refused adamently and vocally to have nothing to do with being religious.<br /> Today due to kindess, understanding and persistance of one parent, the other is religous and a better person.<br /> If rashi brings out that Yaacov shouldn't have hidden his daughter from his brother due to the influence she may have used change Esav from Rasha to Tzadik, can we deem ourselves better ?<br /> Be a loving and kind and generous husband and tolerant and don't give up on the one you "love".bas yisroelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-47410320233940109262012-11-04T22:47:42.651+02:002012-11-04T22:47:42.651+02:00Any who would advise another to divorce his wife o...Any who would advise another to divorce his wife of 30 years is not a real jew.<br /> Your utter lack of compassion and understanding is so apparent. <br /> Moshe Rabbanu the most humblest of men had such love for a fellow jew as did his brother that they had tremendous capacity for understanding and tolerance for other Jew.<br /> A man and woman have made a life together with one another and a family and while their is no abuse in the marriage their should not be a divorce. <br /> He has spoken of his wife with respect to her other midos and keeping of mitzvos.<br /> Better to encourage him to win her over with loving kindness then to instill a hatred for all time.<br /> You obviously are very full of yourself and you don't understand women.<br /> Whatever her reasons she still is a Jew and is making an effort at keeping mitzvos, do you wish to chase her away entirely?<br /> From what has been shown in the media lately of all the so called shomer shabbos people who are doing things they shouldn't - I think its a bit like living in a glass house and throwing stones, don't you?<br /> Are you totally without avairos?<br /> are you 100% in your avodas Hashem and mitzvos?<br /> If you dared to answer yes than you are pathetic excuse for a human.<br /> We each one of us rise everyday to new and old tests we/none of us are perfect or without sin.<br /> Don't you dare judge this women or any other people till you've reached the pedestles of the kesai hakovod.<br /> Spread tolerace love and patience. Just as we ask of our Creator to forgive and overlook our deeds that should be better. <br />Who are you to set yourself up as G-d , or better than He?<br />Are you better or holier than Aron Hakohen Gadol?<br />bas yisroelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-9841910344408565702012-11-02T20:16:27.582+02:002012-11-02T20:16:27.582+02:00FWTW I heard Rabbi Orlowek say, IIRC, that he does...FWTW I heard Rabbi Orlowek say, IIRC, that he doesn't know of any couple that got divorced because of differences in religious level. The details were not illustrated but I think I understood the gist of his point, which I think is relevant here. He was making a point, not just recalling incidents.Eliyahu Switzerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05221551850932910065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-53321576074537506792012-11-01T19:55:28.725+02:002012-11-01T19:55:28.725+02:00You're welcome! Don't be shy about contact...You're welcome! Don't be shy about contacting Rabbi Brody (by email or whatever) -- he's always willing to answer people's questions or give advice.yeshayanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-74303284995601799312012-11-01T17:39:41.878+02:002012-11-01T17:39:41.878+02:00I wasn't able to post earlier due to Hurricane...I wasn't able to post earlier due to Hurricane Sandy<br /><br />Browser,<br /><br />Kol haposel bemumo posel. Rav Moshe Feinstein said that going to the beach in a bathing suit when she is not then an active nida might be a kosher tevila if there were not a part of the bathing suit that was too tight and created a chatzitza.<br /><br />Secondly, this would only work if she didn't become nida again before going to the mikva. It would work now since she stopped seeing. Going without any impediment is an easy and efficient way to avoid all problems despite your ignorant rant.<br /><br />You are seriously misguided, as your rambling rant indicates, to think that it wouldn't be wise for them to seek the guidance of a real Rabbi.<br /><br />Dovy,<br /><br />Quit spouting your delusional position on this topic. Learn the sugia of orachti shulchan lo vehofcho with someone who really knows how to learn and it will be clear that I am right.tzoorbanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-68456879893454975352012-11-01T05:36:10.424+02:002012-11-01T05:36:10.424+02:00Browser,
Kol haposel bemumo posel. Rav Moshe Fein...Browser,<br /><br />Kol haposel bemumo posel. Rav Moshe Feinstein said that going to the beach in a bathing suit when she is not then an active nida might be a kosher tevila if there were not a part of the bathing suit that was too tight and created a chatzitza. <br /><br />Secondly, this would only work if she didn't become nida again before going to the mikva. It would work now since she stopped seeing. Going without any impediment is an easy and efficient way to avoid all problems despite your ignorant rant.<br /><br />You are seriously misguided, as your rambling rant indicates, to think that it wouldn't be wise for them to seek the guidance of a real Rabbi.<br /><br />Dovy,<br /><br />Quit spouting your delusional position on this topic. Learn the sugia of orachti shulchan lo vehofcho with someone who really knows how to learn and it will be clear that I am right.tzoorbanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-61512183564743178062012-10-31T00:56:51.058+02:002012-10-31T00:56:51.058+02:00I don't know. She might have good reasons to w...I don't know. She might have good reasons to want leading her life as she used to in the past. Why should it be linked to any deficiency in your religiosity?<br /><br />But if you let her read this blog, she will stumble about many a thing that might displease her about jewish law. So keep her far away from it. But then, she might have learned about those things from other sources, and this might be the reason why she does not want to delve into orthodox jewish life.<br /><br />She is tolerant - not only does she let you live with you meshigaasim, she even buys you your challes and lights candles to please you.<br /><br />Don't you think that you should also show a minimum of tolerance towards her and towards the person you yourself were when you married her & in the first xxx years of your marriage?remarknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-23746203528480612672012-10-31T00:45:27.403+02:002012-10-31T00:45:27.403+02:00Thank you. I will find the book and contact Rabbi...Thank you. I will find the book and contact Rabbi Brody, who I once saw perform in a band in the Old City (Yerushalyaim) during hol hamoed Succot.Michaelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-31666037111826660422012-10-31T00:42:24.724+02:002012-10-31T00:42:24.724+02:00Thank you. Your words of counsel are appreciated....Thank you. Your words of counsel are appreciated.Michaelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-22123088140951043712012-10-30T22:28:02.631+02:002012-10-30T22:28:02.631+02:00Michael, I feel for your dilemma. I urge you to re...Michael, I feel for your dilemma. I urge you to read Garden of Peace by Rav Shalom Arush. He has a very unique and compelling view on this precise issue. Once you've read it, his translator and associate Rav Lazer Brody is a good person to talk to for practical advice on the topic. In any event, may Hashem open your wife's heart and inspire her to observe Shabbos. yeshayanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-12653856315489336292012-10-30T21:38:20.017+02:002012-10-30T21:38:20.017+02:00Michael I agree 100%. You obviously have the key t...Michael I agree 100%. You obviously have the key to solve this problem. if you want to take that approach you need to get involved in understanding what Shabbos is yourself - that means besides learning the halachos to learn the significance of Shabbos. So yes it would definitely be easier for your wife to understand and appreciate Shabbos if you understood it and appreciated it more. It also would help if your wife saw how others view Shabbos and if you had guests for Shabbos that make the experience more enjoyable.Daas Torahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-66336932782546010792012-10-30T20:34:54.378+02:002012-10-30T20:34:54.378+02:00Shalom Haverim,
I am touched by your concern. I a...Shalom Haverim,<br />I am touched by your concern. I am motivated to do whatever is necessary to change my wife's standards of observance. Somehow I feel that if Shabbos was the most important thing in the world to me, then my wife would see that and follow suit, so there could be something lacking in me that is reflected in her. Am I real or fake in my supposed religiosity, that's the question. Yes, I keep Shabbos but am I authentic in my observance or just going through the motions. Or, as it is often said when discussing what it take to persuade another person, "words that come from the heart go into the heart." There's a story about a young man who came to the Lubavitcher rebbe with a dilemma: he had fallen in love with a non-Jewish woman and was struggling with what he should do next. The Lubavitcher rebbe told him: "I envy you," "I envy your challenge," or words to that effect. Perhaps I keep thinking that if somehow, some way I could persuade my wife to keep Shabbos that would be k'ain olam haba, and it is the challenge of reaching heaven while still on earth that keeps us together.<br /> <br /> Michaelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-59203211335303921272012-10-30T16:57:22.403+02:002012-10-30T16:57:22.403+02:00"public transgressions of accepted MAJOR Mitz..."public transgressions of accepted MAJOR Mitzvohs like Shabbos are MUCH WORSE."<br /><br />So someone who sleeps around with women who are niddah, but does so in private, is better than someon who goes shopping on shabbes in public?<br /><br />And if she gets pregnant and it becomes public that he slept with her? Still better than mechalel shabbt? (of course, whether the intercourse was consensual or not makes no difference in this question, according to Oberhuchems like you).Remarknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-65122701500531970542012-10-30T16:32:37.444+02:002012-10-30T16:32:37.444+02:00Browser wrote:
There is a TESHUVAS HARASHBA,where...Browser wrote: <br />There is a TESHUVAS HARASHBA,where he says,that sometimes when rendering a PSAK strictly by the books without considering the consequnces,could bring a CHURBAN to this world,i would say this is a perfect example of what the RASHBA had in mind<br /><br />I assume you are referring to that which is cited in Choshem Mishpat 2.<br /><br />Rashba (3:393): My view is that if the witnesses are believed by the judges, then it is permitted to punish the accused financially or physically depending upon what the judges think is appropriate to be beneficial to society. Because if we insist on doing only what is specified by Torah law and not to punish except as specified in the Torah – the world will end up destroyed. That is because the elementary rules of a functioning society will be breached and consequently it will be ruined. It is an established practice to punish those who physically harm others…Every community makes judgments in order to preserve it and this is true in every generation and every place according to what is perceived as the needs of the times. For example we see (Sanhedrin 58b) that Rav Huna, who was in Babylonia, would amputate hands as punishment. Therefore these judges you referred to who punished the accused not in accord with Torah law – if they saw the need for it to preserve the society – they have correctly acted according to the halacha. This is true when there is a specific order from the king as we see in the case of R’ Eliezar the son of R’ Shimon bar Yochai in Bava Metzia (83a)<br /><br />A psak to save society is not the same as saving a marriage and it is not dealing with the question of violating Nidaah, kashrus and shabbos but giving punishments not stated in the Torah in order to preserve society.Daas Torahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-67475078469268061592012-10-30T16:26:57.398+02:002012-10-30T16:26:57.398+02:00Please give me a single recognized authority that ...Please give me a single recognized authority that tells a spouse that they are allowed to violate Torah halachos such a Shabbos, nidda and kasrus in order to stay married. You wave the flag of fifth Shulchan Aruch as if you own it. Anybody who want to claim that their judgment transcends the Torah better have some decent sources - and you have produced nothing.<br /><br />paskening on the basis of gut feeling or 5th chelek or ruach hakodesh is left for people we call gedolim. It is not for everyone who think they can decipher the Artsroll gemora or Soncino Zohar.<br /><br />Bottom line - We are dealing with a person who is faced with the painful choice of violating Torah commandments to stay married or get divorced and fully keep the Torah. Give me sources - not Conservative and Reform lomdus. I am sure that the one who raised the question is capable of 5th chelek rationalizations also - but he asked for views which are informed by the opinions of Torah authorities.Daas Torahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-49454818083194604982012-10-30T16:18:59.977+02:002012-10-30T16:18:59.977+02:00Chillul Shabbos is a Biblical violation that carri...Chillul Shabbos is a Biblical violation that carries the death penalty.Dovidnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-74644693655999077012012-10-30T15:52:25.034+02:002012-10-30T15:52:25.034+02:00Daas Torah" how can you even begin to compare...Daas Torah" how can you even begin to compare a one time HETER of a rabbinic transgression to an individual, in order to save his 30year marriage,to the wholesale abandoment of TORAH and MITZVOTH by the Reform and conservative movement? This is exactly where the fifth SHULCHAN ARUCH (common sense) comes into playjackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06362441815954044213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-43294458203219827752012-10-30T14:52:55.772+02:002012-10-30T14:52:55.772+02:00The Reform and Conservative movements have a simil...The Reform and Conservative movements have a similar argument - if we don't alter or eliminate certain mitzvos we have lost the Jewish community they claimed. Thus no Shabbos, no taharas mishpacha, no etc etc.<br /><br />Not everybody who claims possession of the fifth chelek does - and in fact much destruction has come about by people who think they are smarter than G-d or at least Chazal.Daas Torahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-15290273311821965452012-10-30T13:52:01.424+02:002012-10-30T13:52:01.424+02:00"" DAAS TORAH" This case is a perfe..."" DAAS TORAH" This case is a perfect example,where the fifth SHULCHAN ARUCH comes into play,common sense should tell us,that to save a successful and beautiful marriage,it would be permited to transgress some rabbinic prohabitions.<br />There is a TESHUVAS HARASHBA,where he says,that sometimes when rendering a PSAK strictly by the books without considering the consequnces,could bring a CHURBAN to this world,i would say this is a perfect example of what the RASHBA had in mindjackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06362441815954044213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-45843880003762012932012-10-30T09:40:22.062+02:002012-10-30T09:40:22.062+02:00don't understand your explanation. Are you say...don't understand your explanation. Are you saying an honest person who doesn't keep mitzvos because he/she doesn't understand them is superior to a person who keeps the mitzvos for kavod or money?!Daas Torahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-3779837462415983592012-10-30T09:37:49.229+02:002012-10-30T09:37:49.229+02:00And how do you posken?And how do you posken?Daas Torahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.com