tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post6071668744802252989..comments2024-03-29T12:21:24.976+03:00Comments on Daas Torah - Issues of Jewish Identity: Abuse: Court rules parents have right to spank child for disciplineDaas Torahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-9760562076364336152013-10-11T04:25:03.464+03:002013-10-11T04:25:03.464+03:00There are rabbonim that do not agree with this sta...There are rabbonim that do not agree with this statement, for example Rav Wolbe.SubWifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10130118656023678187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-5347611430548404352013-10-11T04:23:54.213+03:002013-10-11T04:23:54.213+03:00Spanking that causes bruising is violence. You ca...Spanking that causes bruising is violence. You can call it justified violence, but it violence nonetheless.SubWifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10130118656023678187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-48716488627502348652013-10-10T10:09:42.331+03:002013-10-10T10:09:42.331+03:00Please indicate you sourcesPlease indicate you sourcesdbnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-87671801549791713322013-10-10T07:18:33.436+03:002013-10-10T07:18:33.436+03:00come on people only you know what works for your c...come on people only you know what works for your child. 2 things you never do 1. you do not lie to your children. ever. 2. if you are out of line with them tell them your sorry. there is no shame in admitting to your children when you are wrong. we as parents tend to fly off the handle and over react. I am raising a teenager. we still have a great relationship and he listens to me because he knows I will follow through with him and he knows what is expected from him and above all he knows I love him. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01362720321689609914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-38245123098160056592013-10-10T06:59:06.581+03:002013-10-10T06:59:06.581+03:00there are harsh consequences for children who are ...there are harsh consequences for children who are not taught to behaveAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01362720321689609914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-67935742228407892152013-10-10T06:51:49.850+03:002013-10-10T06:51:49.850+03:00spanking is not violent kids see more violence on ...spanking is not violent kids see more violence on tv<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01362720321689609914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-36456401034074806602013-10-09T22:23:46.410+03:002013-10-09T22:23:46.410+03:00Tanach itself says, and Shulchan Aruch paskens hal...Tanach itself says, and Shulchan Aruch paskens halacha l'maaisa, that a parent should use corporal punishment with his children.<br /><br />The Torah has harsh words for those that refrain.Dan Quintonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-91553984834593300062013-10-09T22:05:32.016+03:002013-10-09T22:05:32.016+03:00they tried non-violent techniques - but they didn&...they tried non-violent techniques - but they didn't workDaas Torahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-33438815096539245732013-10-09T21:33:38.729+03:002013-10-09T21:33:38.729+03:00I agree that no discipline sends bad message to ki...I agree that no discipline sends bad message to kids; however, why is discipline so often equated with spanking and other forms of physical punishment? There are many way to discipline kids and not all of them have this punitive element in them and most don't include physical punishment. Those who believe that without spanking they have no tools to discipline children need to expand their parenting skills. <br /><br />And while I personally don't think that spanking always equates abuse, generally speaking leaving bruises is an indication that the mother went overboard with her punishment. One has to strike pretty hard to bruise buttocks and that is abusive. Also - spanking 12 year old? SubWifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10130118656023678187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-12694110782127493112013-10-09T17:02:35.462+03:002013-10-09T17:02:35.462+03:00What a surprise. Now we know why kids have no resp...What a surprise. Now we know why kids have no respect for authority and no manners. No discipline means 'I can do whatever I want with no repercussions". And sitting in the naughty corner doesn't always work. (My 17 year old just plays on her ipad in the naughty corner and doesn't mind at all :)Stevennoreply@blogger.com