tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post48342082381149205..comments2024-03-29T06:06:58.796+03:00Comments on Daas Torah - Issues of Jewish Identity: Breaking engagement when she doesn't love him - Rav SternbuchDaas Torahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07252904288544083215noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-12828926712253485732013-01-15T18:19:41.222+02:002013-01-15T18:19:41.222+02:00See what I have written in volume I # 775
Should ...<i>See what I have written in volume I # 775</i><br /><br />Should be #735. See here: http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=20025&st=&pgnum=485Shasdafhttp://shasdaf.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-4319300801287755622013-01-15T00:09:04.140+02:002013-01-15T00:09:04.140+02:00In many circles, including in all likelihood HaRav...In many circles, including in all likelihood HaRav Shternbuch shlita, an "engagement" automatically includes a tenaim at the time of the engagement.Josephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13407460404034430042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-83758197457170138152013-01-14T23:40:41.547+02:002013-01-14T23:40:41.547+02:00But what is the case here? Was it a breaking of t...But what is the case here? Was it a breaking of tenaim or a breaking of the verbal engagement? And again, why is there an automatic assumption of the need for apology on the part of the woman?Mighty Garnel Ironhearthttp://garnelironheart.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-49375001254422322332013-01-14T21:21:32.428+02:002013-01-14T21:21:32.428+02:00Tenaim is a legally binding engagement. Some peop...Tenaim is a legally binding engagement. Some people have the tenaim prior to the wedding and some do it at the wedding.Josephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13407460404034430042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309929059139673041.post-7956391905460325442013-01-14T20:27:49.030+02:002013-01-14T20:27:49.030+02:00> yet refuses to forgive her - he is cruel and...> yet refuses to forgive her - he is cruel and heartless.<br /><br />Um, maybe that's why she broke the engagement?<br /><br />At any rate, I'm wondering: since when is there any legal state for what we call "Engagement" (as opposed to bonafide eirusin) that she should have to ask his forgiveness? And frankly, if he is a jerk why should she have to automatically?Mighty Garnel Ironhearthttp://garnelironheart.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com